Met a dancer! Wants to go to dinner with me??

[Atlantagaguy]

Last night I went back to Johhny's and met an adorable boy. His name is Justin, do yourself a favor and go meet him before he gets tired of the business. He is nice, sweet, intelligent, nice package and very cute! After 2 hrs of second hand smoke, I had to leave. I decided to tryout Dudes. By far the nieces stripper bar in Ft lauderdale. The sad thing their were as many dancers as patrons. The dancers were very nice, cute and a lot of fun! I hope this club makes it, because it was refreshing to walk into a smoke free bar! Now to the question of the day. I met a dancer and throughly enjoyed his company. When he left the bar he gave me his phone number and said he would love to do something the next day. I am a nice guy, not ugly but overweight and 50. I don't usually have cute young men coming to me and giving me their phone number to call the next day. Do I ask him what is his intention are? If we do go to dinner and back to my hotel and have sex do I offer him money? Has this happen to you before? I don't want to insult him but I also don't want to be taken advantage of. Thanks for any advice!

[maxwellissmart]

Last night I went back to Johhny's and met an adorable boy. His name is Justin, do yourself a favor and go meet him before he gets tired of the business. He is nice, sweet, intelligent, nice package and very cute! After 2 hrs of second hand smoke, I had to leave. I decided to tryout Dudes. By far the nieces stripper bar in Ft lauderdale. The sad thing their were as many dancers as patrons. The dancers were very nice, cute and a lot of fun! I hope this club makes it, because it was refreshing to walk into a smoke free bar! Now to the question of the day. I met a dancer and throughly enjoyed his company. When he left the bar he gave me his phone number and said he would love to do something the next day. I am a nice guy, not ugly but overweight and 50. I don't usually have cute young men coming to me and giving me their phone number to call the next day. Do I ask him what is his intention are? If we do go to dinner and back to my hotel and have sex do I offer him money? Has this happen to you before? I don't want to insult him but I also don't want to be taken advantage of. Thanks for any advice!

 

He could be into older daddy types, but I would imagine the context of the meeting has a lot to do with his intentions.

[Irtwo]

If he actually said he wants to meet for dinner, it sounds like he wants to date. But if he just said he "would love to do something the next day", that sounds like he wants to do a pirvate session (i.e., for money).

[BostonPhil]

Eh, call him and ask him to dinner. His response should tell you everything you need to know. I am inclined to agree with max.

[josephga]

I think he might just be into older guys. 90% of the guys I go out with are 18 to 25 and never did any money exchange hands. they tell me they like older because they find that it involves less drama and that older guys tend to pay them more attention and listen to them more than guys their own age.. I know a guy that's 23 and his current bf is 47

[Atlantagaguy]

I think he might just be into older guys. 90% of the guys I go out with are 18 to 25 and never did any money exchange hands. they tell me they like older because they find that it involves less drama and that older guys tend to pay them more attention and listen to them more than guys their own age.. I know a guy that's 23 and his current bf is 47

I hope you right Joesph! My ego needs a boost!

[unsub2O17]

Will you let us know, please?

[+ sf westcoaster]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained, make the phone call and see what the response is. Good luck and keep us posted.

[JT Brooklyn]

Best of Luck IF your Date goes through..But remember where you met him!

[bigvalboy]

I hope you right Joesph! My ego needs a boost!

 

Hey Atlantaguy, FYI...2 months ago I was in FTL and stopped by Dudes. I had the same experience, more dancers than patrons, but the second night I did notice two of the dancers, both very hot, talking with patrons after their shift was over. It appeared that they were very attentive, which led me to believe that over the course of the evening, the customers had tipped very well.

 

I went back to the Royal Palm, and was having a drink at the Pool Bar about 11 pm, when in comes one of the patrons with one of the dancers. They went to the room for about 30 min and then we saw the dancer leave. The bartender and I thought it was funny, watching this go on. The bartender said to me. "Ya know Bob, I know that guy" he actually was friends with the dancer, so as a joke he texted the guy after he left the Royal Palm and asked him what he had been doing there. The dancer just texted back "LOL" It does appear that these guys are for sale after hours. Very interesting to say the least. I wasn't going to give Dudes a try again, but it seems like that perhaps things will happen outside of Dudes...good luck and enjoy the young man. Please let us know how it goes.

[+ purplekow]

Well expect the worst and hope for the best, whatever those things might be. While he might be into older men, was there anything about your interaction with this man that would have made you stand out as a possible date? If not, don't be too disappointed if he is just looking for a date for pay after all, he could have made that offer to any of the men there.

[jjkrkwood]

Atlantaguy, I totally understand your hoping for love and affection. Hell I am older than you and have been there too. But I think taking things into perspective, the venue you met the guy in has alot to do with his followup. Of course this is assumption, and of course he could hopefully like older guys and you ae his type, but just be prepared if that is not the case, and he is only looking for a private PAY session. I have escorts email me all the time on Adam4adam, unsolicited looking for a hire. They assume that I am older, cant get Free sex and need to pay for it, so they are only being "entreprenurial" in their approach of me. This is life..... I wish you the BEST.

[citylaw1]

OMG, the smoke!!! Several of the guys in FT Lauderdale are available for take out. For your sake, I hope that it's simply a fun date.

[josephga]

I get guys sometimes message me on grindr and ask if i'm generous? I tell them not unless they consider a trip to the olive garden or longhorne as generous

[maxwellissmart]

I get guys sometimes message me on grindr and ask if i'm generous? I tell them not unless they consider a trip to the olive garden or longhorne as generous

 

"No, I'm gorgeous—which means I only have to be generous at Christmas and on birthdays. Why, are you poor?"

[jjkrkwood]

I get guys sometimes message me on grindr and ask if i'm generous? I tell them not unless they consider a trip to the olive garden or longhorne as generous

 

I always reply "Why, do you need me to buy you some self-Esteem " ???

[unsub2O17]

Atlantaguy, I totally understand your hoping for love and affection. Hell I am older than you and have been there too. But I think taking things into perspective, the venue you met the guy in has alot to do with his followup. Of course this is assumption, and of course he could hopefully like older guys and you ae his type, but just be prepared if that is not the case, and he is only looking for a private PAY session. I have escorts email me all the time on Adam4adam, unsolicited looking for a hire. They assume that I am older, cant get Free sex and need to pay for it, so they are only being "entreprenurial" in their approach of me. This is life..... I wish you the BEST.

 

Isn't this just another type of "cold call"?

[BostonPhil]

I always reply "Why, do you need me to buy you some self-Esteem " ???

 

"No, I'm gorgeous—which means I only have to be generous at Christmas and on birthdays. Why, are you poor?"

 

I get guys sometimes message me on grindr and ask if i'm generous? I tell them not unless they consider a trip to the olive garden or longhorne as generous

 

I love you guys.

[Atlantagaguy]

Update!!

I called and met up with the dancer! We had a great dinner and good conversation. He is into older guys and danced for fun! Believe this is true because he refused to go to the pvt dance area of Dudes with anyone. He has another job that brings him to Atlanta a lot. We exchanged phone numbers, so I hope to see more when he comes to Atlanta. Over all it was great night!

[Lookin]

Ya stud ya! http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/thumbsup.png Glad you had a good time!

[happyguy2]

Well good on you. I was afraid you would be disappointed that his idea of "doing something" was take-out! I am really happy for you y friend. I have had waiters at all sorts of restaurants in South Beach and FLL do the same with me, but it was clear that it was a business transaction - and while I was often tempted, I avoided it and am not sure why.

[maxwellissmart]

Update!!

I called and met up with the dancer! We had a great dinner and good conversation. He is into older guys and danced for fun! Believe this is true because he refused to go to the pvt dance area of Dudes with anyone. He has another job that brings him to Atlanta a lot. We exchanged phone numbers, so I hope to see more when he comes to Atlanta. Over all it was great night!

 

Well there you go. Glad you had fun.

[seeker630]

Update!!

I called and met up with the dancer! We had a great dinner and good conversation. He is into older guys and danced for fun! Believe this is true because he refused to go to the pvt dance area of Dudes with anyone. He has another job that brings him to Atlanta a lot. We exchanged phone numbers, so I hope to see more when he comes to Atlanta. Over all it was great night!

 

Congrats!

[bigvalboy]

Update!!

I called and met up with the dancer! We had a great dinner and good conversation. He is into older guys and danced for fun! Believe this is true because he refused to go to the pvt dance area of Dudes with anyone. He has another job that brings him to Atlanta a lot. We exchanged phone numbers, so I hope to see more when he comes to Atlanta. Over all it was great night!

 

That's it......Dudes is my new hang out....LOL

[citylaw1]

You may want to take this dancer's name out of the post here.