what exactly is a she-male?

[+ azdr0710]

the "straight adult performer" thread in The Deli mentions she-males for a bit....sorry to be dumb and naive, but what is that exactly?....TV?, TS?, half-way only?, what were they to start with?, etc., etc....

 

thanks

[jjkrkwood]

I believe She-males is the term used for FEMALE appearing individuals, BUT who still retain their functional male genitalia (cock and balls)

[josephga]

I believe She-males is the term used for FEMALE appearing individuals, BUT who still retain their functional male genitalia (cock and balls)

 

that's correct

 

example lol

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2n6643Ktu1r3usyro1_500.jpg

[tom1980]

When I read "she-male" I think of a person who has a penis and breasts. Usually it is a person who was biologically male and began taking hormones to grow breasts. Sometimes the person goes on to have a genital sex-change operation and sometimes not.

[+ azdr0710]

jesus, that's sorta gross.....so would we say dudes like Caldwell (I haven't seen one of his recent she-male vids) are sooooo bi that they want to feel like they're topping a "chick" at times, but may want to get fucked by the same "guy" at other times?....or is he getting off by topping this "chick", but also likes seeing that he's a "guy", too?.....what is the attraction/thrill??....

 

or should I just not worry about it??!!.....thanks for the comments.....very fringe-y, I know, so maybe I don't need to worry about it

[jjkrkwood]

jesus, that's sorta gross.....so would we say dudes like Caldwell (I haven't seen one of his recent she-male vids) are sooooo bi that they want to feel like they're topping a "chick" at times, but may want to get fucked by the same "guy" at other times?....or is he getting off by topping this "chick", but also likes seeing that he's a "guy", too?.....what is the attraction/thrill??....

 

or should I just not worry about it??!!.....thanks for the comments.....very fringe-y, I know, so maybe I don't need to worry about it

 

Dont worry about it. Its just another preference that can border on "fetish".. Sex comes in many diff flavors. Find the ones you like...

[jasoncarter_dfw]

jesus, that's sorta gross.....so would we say dudes like Caldwell (I haven't seen one of his recent she-male vids) are sooooo bi that they want to feel like they're topping a "chick" at times, but may want to get fucked by the same "guy" at other times?....or is he getting off by topping this "chick", but also likes seeing that he's a "guy", too?.....what is the attraction/thrill??....

 

or should I just not worry about it??!!.....thanks for the comments.....very fringe-y, I know, so maybe I don't need to worry about it

 

My partner is transgendered...does that make me gross?

 

You should really think before you post things like this

[dfw2sfo]

My partner is transgendered...does that make me gross?

 

You should really think before you post things like this

 

Sorry Jason.

 

I think she male is a relic like tranny.

[+ azdr0710]

My partner is transgendered...does that make me gross?

 

You should really think before you post things like this

 

I also apologize, Jason....but I think this is a far cry from the more-common transgendered, uh, right??....but, I admit my naivete again....transgendered is the same as transsexual, right??

[JT Brooklyn]

Jon Magnum and a few others have done She-Male Videos..it's kind of strange to watch when your addiction is Male on Male!

[jjkrkwood]

Actually, i am kind of embarrassed to admit that having sex with a Tranny is ON my bucket list.... I have HAD sex with women MANY eons ago, and most of the vids I have seen of Trannys show them having HUGE cocks. Its almost UNFAIR. Yet still knd of intriguing for a size queen like me.... and on my To-do list !!!!

[josephga]

I've never been with a woman, Never seen a tranny vid something about it does sound kinda hot. blowing them and sucking on those big titties

[jjkrkwood]

I've never been with a woman, Never seen a tranny vid something about it does sound kinda hot. blowing them and sucking on those big titties

 

Well thats kinda my philosophy, since I enjoy sucking on a guys Pecs, tits is just the next progression, and if there is a big, thik cocking hanging between his/her legs, even better !

[EZEtoGRU]

I find the whole she-male genre facinating. I am not the least bit attracted to she-males but they do attract interesting guys. Believe it or not, many guys that are into she-males consider themselves to be straight.....even as they are getting plowed from behind by their partner. When I lived in Brazil (where there are a ton of she-males), I conversed with several during my time there. Everyone of them said that 90% of the guys they hook up with want to be on the bottom with the she-male as the top. The other interesting thing I saw in Brazil was in the rentboy saunas. They actually get she-males as patrons there. They change in the same changing area as all the other male patons and usually put on a bikini and sometimes wrap a towel around themselves. Kind of a shock at first to see a "woman" in a bikini parading around a gay sauna trolling for rentboys. Of course within 5 minutes one gets used to it and really doesn't pay attention any more. It seems that the she-males often get freebies from the rentboys there. Those Brazilian boys have a real attraction to the transgendered.

 

BTW, in the movies that Chance Caldwell does with she-males, he is both top and bottom.

[josephga]

I bet a shemale escort would get much more business than a reg gay male escort

[adriano46]

I wanted to add a comment to what EZEtoGRU said.

 

Years back I lived in Italy and frequented a large state-of-the-art gym every day. One of the attractions of the gym was an olympic sized pool and two saunas (Finnish and Turkish, or dry and wet if you like).

 

I often - after 2 hours of working out - would go from dry to steam and back and in the dry sauna, the banter among guys was wild. Often at the time I went there would be a contingent of state police (Carabinieri) noted for their uniforms and for being somewhat taller than the normal police

 

http://www.dreaminginitalian.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Carabinieri-.jpg

 

Anyway some of these guys would be lounging around in the sauna talking of their sexual exploits, and their major crush (and conversation) was on the many Brazilian shemales that plowed their trade in the west of the city centre on dark boulevards. These police bragged on how often they went after hours to pick these men/women up, and had absolutely no problem bragging on bottoming for them. I found it hilarious as these guys also considered themselves super Italian macho types.

[jjkrkwood]

I wanted to add a comment to what EZEtoGRU said.

 

Years back I lived in Italy and frequented a large state-of-the-art gym every day. One of the attractions of the gym was an olympic sized pool and two saunas (Finnish and Turkish, or dry and wet if you like).

 

I often - after 2 hours of working out - would go from dry to steam and back and in the dry sauna, the banter among guys was wild. Often at the time I went there would be a contingent of state police (Carabinieri) noted for their uniforms and for being somewhat taller than the normal police

 

http://www.dreaminginitalian.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Carabinieri-.jpg

 

Anyway some of these guys would be lounging around in the sauna talking of their sexual exploits, and their major crush (and conversation) was on the many Brazilian shemales that plowed their trade in the west of the city centre on dark boulevards. These police bragged on how often they went after hours to pick these men/women up, and had absolutely no problem bragging on bottoming for them. I found it hilarious as these guys also considered themselves super Italian macho types.

 

Well goes to show the Male butt-hole aint so Sacred afterall ! On a somewhat related note, I often see self-proclaimed STR8 guys on Cam sites such as Cam4 fucking themselves with dildos and other asst items while they masturbate. So whats to stop them from taking self-satisfcation one step further and taking a real cock up the ass? Having it attached to an individual that appears "female" seems to render the "invasion" acceptable.

[jasoncarter_dfw]

Actually, i am kind of embarrassed to admit that having sex with a Tranny is ON my bucket list.... I have HAD sex with women MANY eons ago, and most of the vids I have seen of Trannys show them having HUGE cocks. Its almost UNFAIR. Yet still knd of intriguing for a size queen like me.... and on my To-do list !!!!

 

JJ there are tons of TS escorts on eros.com and backpage...eros is more reputable. TS girls are reviews on theeroticreview.com...its a straight site to so when you search reviews you have to click advanced, and in the options one of them will be "transsexual" and you select "yes-preop". If you are NY....there are tons of ts escorts out there...in ny girls like alannah starr and sunny deelite host parties a few nights a week at bars where you can pop in and meet the upper end working girls.

[happyguy2]

EZEtoGRU made me think of this: I went through a cam4 phase recently and met up with at least three, maybe four guys who consider themselves to be completely straight (one calls himself sraight with a twist) and they are all into shemales. I watched one guy who is married and had cyber sex with shemales on his cam each night while his wife was asleep - and he regularly tells guys who chat with him that he is totally straight. I am not attracted to the shemales in the least, but I was fascinated with the guy and his attraction. Have you guys seen anything similar?