hiring a nearby but out of town escort

[unsub2O17]

I live about an hour and a half by car from an escort mecca (SF). It's really hard for me to get enough time to travel to and from SF and have a session. So I'm thinking of trying to get the escort to come to me. And I have no idea about how to do this. Please help. I have so many questions. For instance, when an escort gives an "out" rate, does that include going an hour and a half away? Who pays for the travel (and the travel time) and the hotel? Is this more like a "travel" session or an "out" session? Who books the hotel, and how is discretion maintained? You get the idea. I'm at sea here, but I want to do it.

[Decatur Guy]

I live about an hour and a half from an escort mecca (SF). It's really hard for me to get enough time to travel to and from SF and have a session. So I'm thinking of trying to get the escort to come to me. And I have no idea about how to do this. Please help. I have so many questions. For instance, when an escort gives an "out" rate, does that include going an hour and a half away? Who pays for the travel (and the travel time) and the hotel? Is this more like a "travel" session or an "out" session? Who books the hotel, and how is discretion maintained? You get the idea. I'm at sea here, but I want to do it.

 

It probably depends on the escort if there is a traveling surcharge for a trip of that medium-type distance. I see a guy who drives in from the GA-AL border, and he doesn't charge anything. I just always hire him for at least 90 minutes and throw in extra for gas $$$.

[Kevin Slater]

It's entirely up to you and the escort in question; there are no set rules.

 

He may be willing to travel that far for an overnight but likely not for a one or two hour booking. Since we're talking three hours of travel time round trip plus gas, maybe offer to pay him an extra hour for his troubles and see if that works.

 

I would probably be hesitant to drive that far for a client whom I've not yet met. Maybe you could schlep down to the city for the first meeting just so he can be sure you're for real and the chemistry is good, and then he may be more willing to go to you subsequent times.

 

I doubt you'll find any escort willing to front the cost of the hotel room; I say that's your responsibility.

 

Do your research, find the guy you like, and be upfront with him about what you have in mind. If he declines or you can't come to terms, start over again. The great thing about being so close to an escort mecca is that you should be able to find some guy with whom you can come to an arrangement.

 

In any case, listen to what feedback the escorts give you, and have fun!

 

Kevin Slater

[+ Axiom2001]

When I hire out, I usually book the hotel; the escort comes to me and charges me his basic rate for an "out" session. If he has to drive a distance to get to you, perhaps he might charge a little more for petro and time, but in 2005, I received the company of an escort twice at my house in Monterey; he lives in the San Jose area; I gave him his timely fee, and that was all. Both of us were appreciative of each other's company.

 

Also, when I had been in San Francisco and he had to drive to meet me at my designated hotel, again he received his initial fee and that was satisfactory for the both of us without having any discussion prior to his arrival.

 

But, I think Kevin answered your query oh so timely.

[gallahadesquire]

For the record: An escort lives some 35 miles from me. When we first arranged to meet, he said "I'm not driving that far unless it's for at least two hours." That was the only time he didn't do an overnight, which is dinner / a movie/yadda / sleep /yadda and breakfast.

[Guest countryboywny]

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Here's the way I would handle it, don't get caught up in the "in" vs. "out" rates. I would contact the guy I'm interested in and explain in detail what I would like.. something like "Mr. Escort, I saw your ad and I'm very interested in meeting you. I would like to meet you for x number of hours at a hotel in x city. Is this something that would interest you? If so, kindly quote me a rate that includes necessary expenses for your travel and your time." You should include your phone number, and best time for him to call you or if you can't always speak freely then let him know that, but I think including your phone number tells the escort that you're serious. It's your responsibility to get the hotel room. Good Luck

[unsub2O17]

Thank you all so much for such timely responses. Anyone else who wants to add something, please do. But I now have enough to get started. Wow. Thanks again.

[+ azdr0710]

country boy gives some very practical suggestions....

 

you mentioned discretion: some here think this is overboard, but I bought one of these tracphone-style pay-as-you-go cellphones at Target (with cash) for these dealings....activate it anonymously (at a payphone) and replenish with cash when necessary....yeah, I know, many reading this here are now snickering..........

 

and, of course, stick with well-reviewed guys here at Daddy's....be courteous, friendly, easy-going.....and don't take it too seriously....

[instudiocity]

I live about an hour and a half by car from an escort mecca (SF).

Well, you didn't say where you live, but I have to assume it's more Stockton/Modesto than Sacramento because there are some nice guys in Sacto. So if you're more Stockton/Modesto - why not get the hotel room in Pleasanton (end of the BART) just in case this SF escort doesn't own a car. You can meet half way, his cost to get there is far less than expensive than driving at the same or less time, and Bay Area traffic can turn a 1-1/2 hour drive into an 8 hour shift.

 

...Maybe you could schlep down to the city for the first meeting just so he can be sure you're for real and the chemistry is good, and then he may be more willing to go to you subsequent times.

Yup, that's a great idea. You aren't the only one who needs to handle the merchandise.

 

I doubt you'll find any escort willing to front the cost of the hotel room; I say that's your responsibility.

But you might consider offering him the room for the night, so he could possibly find another client in the area. And then, everyone could be HAPPY!

 

For the record: An escort lives some 35 miles from me. When we first arranged to meet, he said "I'm not driving that far unless it's for at least two hours." That was the only time he didn't do an overnight, which is dinner / a movie/yadda / sleep /yadda and breakfast.

In other words, you 'negotiated'. I once took an escort to wine country for what amounted to a 24 hour date. But he only charged for the hour in the sack because he was so appreciative of the wine education, free meals and his own bed in the hotel room.

 

But seriously, I never heard sex described as "yadda"... was he a short hairy extraterrestrial name Yoda? Did you yadda Yoda? ROFL!

[unsub2O17]

May I ask who you would recommend in Sacramento??

[instudiocity]

May I ask who you would recommend in Sacramento??

3 out of the 4 reviewed on Daddy's Reviews. Guess who I haven't seen?

[unsub2O17]

Um....the one with the negative review? Very good to know that you liked the other 3. Thanks.