The Art of Escorting...in person

[Guest roninx]

This question is for both the client and the escort. Responding to an ad by email or phone is pretty simple....but what about in person. Let's say you go to a bar/club that is known for having escorts. How does either the escort or the client approach this?

 

Especially since sometimes those places also have guys who are there just to hookup for free. How does one make it clear that either as the client or escort that you are there to be paid/looking to pay without getting to explicit.

 

Appreciate any input

 

[+ Cock Eyed Optimist]

This is a great question Roninx! I am hoping that some of the more experienced guys will answer in detail. I have never tried this method of finding an escort because, like you, I wasn't familiar with the etiquette involved. Please answer, guys!!

[Rick Munroe]

>How does one make it clear

>that either as the client or escort that you are there to be

>paid/looking to pay without getting to explicit.

 

The potential client should have a twenty-dollar-bill taped to his forehead, and the escort should have his pants pockets turned inside out, cheeks sucked in, and eyes sad & hungry.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Cheeks Sucked In

 

>>How does one make it clear

>>that either as the client or escort that you are there to

>be

>>paid/looking to pay without getting to explicit.

>

>The potential client should have a twenty-dollar-bill taped

>to his forehead, and the escort should have his pants pockets

>turned inside out, cheeks sucked in, and eyes sad & hungry.

 

This may be how they do it in Manhattan, but in Los Angeles, you would just offer to buy a young man a cocktail, engage him in slight conversation. If you feel a match is struck, you would inquire is said young man is "available."

 

This is the "proper proceedure" at Numbers, or so I am being told by several of the Twink Hos.

 

The told me the 'sad & hungry' look only works with the guys driving by Yukon Mining Company on Santa Monica Boulevard, and there all it takes is a rolled down window and a "get in."

[bigguyinpasadena]

RE: Cheeks Sucked In

 

I am a total sucker for the sad and hungry look!

Numbers is SOOOOOO much more confusing now that they have moved to Santa Monica Blvd. from the old location on Sunset.There are a lot of west Hollywwod guys that go there to relax or on a date(it is,unfortunatly,the only "classy"-for lack of a better term-restaurant and bar in WEHO.I have often lusted after a young man who was not there to pay the rent!

I have also heard that the owners are entertaining offers for their biz.Bob and Tony have worked hard for many years and are looking to retire.

[bigguyinpasadena]

RE: Cheeks Sucked In

 

Oh I almost forgot to ask,Is there a restaurant -bar that has replaced Rounds in NYC?The TownHouse,like Numbers in LA,is just so confusing.(MY BRAIN HURTS)

[Guest Merlin]

At Numbers, there is no need to be subtle or coy. Everyone there knows that it is an escort bar, so if you make a mistake and approach someone who is not an escort he will not be offended. He will take it as a compliment and you can both laugh about it. Usually it is apparent who the escorts are. They are younger, and usually provacatively dressed--tight shirts etc. They usually stand along a rail behind the bar seats, but sometimes they sit at the bar or on the patio outside. The first time I hired an escort there (or in any bar), I saw a tall blond standing by himself and was immediately attracted to him. It took awhile to get up the nerve to approach him, even though I was sure he was an escort. I went up to him and said "Hi, how are you?" He said "I am fine, and I am escorting." Since then I have usually gone up to them with a greeting and then asked if he was escorting. Offering to buy a drink is not necessary but may be useful if you want to get to know him first.

[VaHawk]

Is this a "trick" question??? :+ In all my years (and no don't ask how many) of picking up "love for sale" boys on the streets and in the bars, I've never heard them called escorts, just hustler boys. All it takes is eye contact and most times just one will do. If they are looking for action, the majority will approach you after that longing glance you give them. If they are new to the scene and in the bar/club, some will keep returning your glances, but aren't experienced enough to be comfortable in approaching you, so take the initiative and just go over and say hi and take it from there. After a few times you will be an expert at both spotting and contacting the "escorts". This can be a very hot, stimulating scene so Happy Hunting and Enjoy!

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[ad rian]

> After a few times you will be an expert at both spotting and

>contacting the "escorts". This can be a very hot, stimulating

>scene so Happy Hunting and Enjoy!

 

I must confess that I have never understood this particular thrill. Isn't it just like dating? If you want an escort, why not just dial up and get one? I don't understand the concept of paying for a date. Is there a discount over the on-line market considering that the client has to do more work doing the spotting and contacting in person as opposed to on-line?

[VaHawk]

What? Have you ever hired a 'hustle boy' and not an 'escort'? Two entirely different, yet equally exciting scenarios. Totally different ambience IMHO. Hiring an escort is like shopping online, with a scheduled delivery date, whereas hiring a hustler off the street or in the bar is like shopping at the mall where you can actually see and touch the merchandise and often make a spur of the moment purchase.

[VaHawk]

Oh, I forgot to add that yes indeed, 'hustle boys' off the street and from the bars are most times at least 50% less expensive and oft times better at pure, raw sex (there is that "element of danger" that can enhance the excitement). If you're looking for just a hot, one hour sexual encounter, then hustle boys are often better than an escort doing his fourth one hour session of the night. If you're looking for more than sex (i.e. companionship, intelligence, conversation, the "full package") then an online escort would be the way to go, especially on an all evening/overnight basis. Of course, this is just my opinion based on my own experiences.