Anyone Care to Speak About Christmas Gifts Towards Their Escort Friends?

[Guest countryboywny]

The logistics of giving gifts to the escorts that I see makes it virtually impossible for me. I don't know their mailing address so I can't send or ship anything to them. 100% of the guys I see in my local area travel to me, so I generally don't see them in person on a regular basis. That being said, I love to gift these men because it makes ME feel good. I have no delusions that my gift will lead to the escort falling in love with me and carrying me off into the sunset. That's just not my desire or wish, but a holiday note or ecard sent to their email, and/or a little kicker in their fee when we do meet hopefully sends the message that I value them as people, not just a sex object. That's what gives me the most pleasure.

[jjkrkwood]

The logistics of giving gifts to the escorts that I see makes it virtually impossible for me. I don't know their mailing address so I can't send or ship anything to them. 100% of the guys I see in my local area travel to me, so I generally don't see them in person on a regular basis. That being said, I love to gift these men because it makes ME feel good. I have no delusions that my gift will lead to the escort falling in love with me and carrying me off into the sunset. That's just not my desire or wish, but a holiday note or ecard sent to their email, and/or a little kicker in their fee when we do meet hopefully sends the message that I value them as people, not just a sex object. That's what gives me the most pleasure.

 

I think that desiring them and valuing them as SEX OBJECTS is the Ultimate compliment....!!!

[robberbaron4u]

The rule of my house for Xmas gifts is: Family/Friends, seasonal flowers and/or "homebaked" goods, that is, pecan pies and cheese straws made to an "old family receipes"; household and office staff, service providers, inclusive of rentboys, cash money. In the course of the last forty years, I have no complaint, direct or indirect, from any receipient of my holiday largesse.

[jjkrkwood]

The rule of my house for Xmas gifts is: Family/Friends, seasonal flowers and/or "homebaked" goods, that is, pecan pies and cheese straws made to an "old family receipes"; household and office staff, service providers, inclusive of rentboys, cash money. In the course of the last forty years, I have no complaint, direct or indirect, from any receipient of my holiday largesse.

 

Robber, I NEVER got MY gift. Please provide Tracking # so I can investigate.

[BSR]

I thought it was standard practice to give service providers - nanny, hairdresser, tennis pro, doorman - cash gifts for the holidays. On any NYC real estate-related forum, a long & heated discussion about how much to tip building staff is as much of a holiday tradition as The Nutcracker. I used to give my tennis pro the same amount as a lesson, $60. I give my barber a lot more than the cost of a haircut because haircuts are so cheap - $15 for a cut, but I give him $40. It pays off during the year because he always finds a way to squeeze me in.

 

I realize that escorts are a very different kind of service provider, and I don't have a regular guy (unfortunately). But if I were lucky enough to have a guy who blew my socks off on a weekly, or thereabouts, basis, I'd give a cash gift, to thank him for the past year and to start off another year in a good way. But it would not be as much as an hour's fee, probably a C-note.

 

I'm curious, what do escorts get from their regulars? What do they expect? If a regular doesn't give anything, any bruised feelings?

[rocky]

You are very perspective; something I've thought about for years and years.

[rocky]

Hey thanks, but I've gone way above the "C" note.

[cany10011]

I like the whole idea of gift giving and the thought involved in selecting the right present for an individual friend or escort. I recognize the importance of cash gifts but that can be generated also by more frequent hiring. The 2 regulars I saw this week received something equivalent to their fee; one got a cashmere hoodie and another got a ticket to see Enchanted Island at the met with me next month. Nothing grand but something small and meaningful.

 

 

Hey thanks, but I've gone way above the "C" note.

[Lookin]

I always enjoy giving a present that I've made myself.

 

It's usually much less expensive than a store-bought one and, hopefully, the guy might think of me when he's using it. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

 

http://www.burks.de/burksblog/pix/2009/09/300909_1.jpg

[jjkrkwood]

I always enjoy giving a present that I've made myself.

 

It's usually much less expensive than a store-bought one and, hopefully, the guy might think of me when he's using it. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

http://www.burks.de/burksblog/pix/2009/09/300909_1.jpg

 

 

 

I saw THAT in Martha Stewarts "self-made" gifts Book...

[robberbaron4u]

I "cap" my annual rentboy "gift" allotment at $100.00; however, only one or two at any one time are on my gift list as "steady" dates.

[Phil_musc]

I'd like to propose another direction here: what about customer appreciation day?

[jgoo]

I'd like to propose another direction here: what about customer appreciation day?

 

Great idea and I think it is not unreasonable to consider that an escort who has been hired on a regular basis should show his appreciation in some thoughtful/meaningful way. After all, they have a client who has and likely will continue to spent quite a bit of money on them so a little back would be nice.

[ragazzolupo]

Great idea and I think it is not unreasonable to consider that an escort who has been hired on a regular basis should show his appreciation in some thoughtful/meaningful way. After all, they have a client who has and likely will continue to spent quite a bit of money on them so a little back would be nice.

 

I have had two escorts, one American, one Italian, who have made reservations and plans to take me to dinner in a very nice (not hideously expensive, but very nice) restaurant. I have also received little tokens of appreciation (porn disks, sex toys, etc.) These have all been very much appreciated for what they are, but more for the thought.

[jjkrkwood]

Great idea and I think it is not unreasonable to consider that an escort who has been hired on a regular basis should show his appreciation in some thoughtful/meaningful way. After all, they have a client who has and likely will continue to spent quite a bit of money on them so a little back would be nice.

 

Or a nice "penis" keychain. nothing says LOVE like penis and keys...

[KMEM]

I always enjoy giving a present that I've made myself.

 

It's usually much less expensive than a store-bought one and, hopefully, the guy might think of me when he's using it. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

 

http://www.burks.de/burksblog/pix/2009/09/300909_1.jpg

 

Are you related to Rube Goldberg or just in tune with the modern idea of saving energy? We need not go into what kind of energy or whose, do we?

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[seeker630]

Or a nice "penis" keychain. nothing says LOVE like penis and keys...

 

Knowing your preferences, perhaps a penis flashlight might be a better choice?

 

Happy Holidays, jjk!

[seeker630]

I always enjoy giving a present that I've made myself.

 

It's usually much less expensive than a store-bought one and, hopefully, the guy might think of me when he's using it. http://www.maleescortreview.com/forum/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

 

http://www.burks.de/burksblog/pix/2009/09/300909_1.jpg

 

First steampunk sextoy I've ever seen!

[Phil_musc]

If this contraption runs on steam then we all owe Robert Fulton a serious note of thanks. I'm looking into getting a kit to build one of these myself. Just the activity for those long winter nights with nothing but time on my hands.

 

JJ, once again you have cracked me up. I would, however, hope for something perhaps more transitory in the way of a customer appreciation gift - something that wouldn't last for maybe longer than an hour and certainly wouldn't set the giver back anything tangible. As a middle-class american (well maybe somewhat more than that), I would appreciate the gift of time myself.

[JackTwist]

There are several escorts are very special to me. A couple of the guys live in the LA vicinity and so I try to treat them to a nice meal and give them a unique gift--usually something they have mentioned they needed or wanted. A couple of other escorts with whom I share a close bond live in other states. For them, I send a hand-written letter expressing my gratitude for their friendship and enclose a monetary gift card they can use to purchase whatever and wherever they wish. I know some folks think its impersonal to give money as a gift to escorts, but all the special fellas I've gifted with cash have always seemed very grateful.

[jimboivyo]

for all three guys I see, I bought them time on netjets. all of them like to travel when they're not traveling for work, so i figured it was a nice gesture.

[Keller]

My regular will be getting a throw away Walmart phone for his extra gift.. I like em close and available