Escort/Clients Thoughts on Encounters with "Older Clients."

[JoeyBryant]

99.99% of all clients I meet are going to be older than me simply because at 24, there just isn't many younger than that that I'd come across.

 

That said, I don't think of it any differently. It's really something you either can do, or can't. I won't lie...I had it easy when I first started out. Starting in Miami, my first 2 clients were 30s/40s and the both of them had pretty impressive physiques. It sort of paved the way as I though, wow...these are the guys I'm going to meet?

 

I introduced a guy to one of my favorite clients the other month...a client who is very well off, but the dude barely got thru it. Even though he had a hot guy next to him that he liked (me), having an older guy going down on him was just beyond his comprehension.

[+ Gar1eth]

Well healthguy, I am really unwilling to comment on what jj said, because I am sure that whatever the opinion, positive or negative he will say that is not what he meant. I would ask him to clarify, if what he said bothers you. I can only give you my opinion. I disagree with anyone who makes the sweeping generalization that escorts are only into older guys for the money. Over the last 10 years or so I can recall countless stories of younger guys who where with older men and in the cases that I personally know of most of the time it was the younger guy who brought home the most bacon. There is not the time nor the space to write all of that here. jj himself told only yesterday of being hit on by a much younger guy, and I believe as the story went, the guy was really hot and was sincerely into older men. I hired an escort a few years ago on a regular basis, on and off for several years and his bf was older than me, and I know for a fact that the escort was the bread winner in the relationship.

 

I do want to be clear here, I have no doubt that the majority of young escorts are there for the money, however you do make a good point, we as babyboomers do have a lot to offer besides our experience between the sheets. I am a bit of a gym rat myself, and no BS when I hit the gym, it is all serious stuff, but for someone who has passed the double nickel mark, I get hit on and cruised quite regularly. Certainly enough to make me walk with a little spring in the ol step.

 

Yesterday in the forum, I recounted a story that happened to me years ago, when I was only 40 and tried to make 'the deal' with a young escort in his 20's, when he found out that I was only 40 he told me that he was only attracted to guys over 60, and he would only go home with someone in that age group. Age is only part of who we are, like the guy who is a chubby chaser, I don't get that at all, or the guy who loves twinks. You see healthguy we are all different and each of our tastes vary greatly. Well that is enough from me, so be well for now and stop stressing about something that you have no control over. regards, BVB

 

Obviously it happens--there is no accounting for taste--but as a chubby (code for fat), bald gay male, I can tell you proportionately it doesn't happen very often--and that the few guys who are interested--they must be the guys you listed in your post--and are all already taken.

 

Or if I'm worng and it's happening more often than I think, then I must be the bad karma magnet, that allows others happier experiences.

 

Gman

[gcursor]

2 way street

 

Although I think it's great to have appreciative clients, I think it's just as important for the escorts to be appreciative as well. It's a two-way street

 

 

I've always said it's about the fun, not the money. The money is nice, but I won't see clients that aren't fun as well. The best clients I've ever had almost always skew older—they have more to talk about, they know what they're doing, and most importantly—they're appreciative.

[+ FreshFluff]

My experience leads me to believe that there is a elite group of great escorts, a VERY large group of mediocre escorts, and a small group of really poor escorts.

 

Whether one wants to talk about height, shoe size, or escort quality, it all comes back to the ol'

 

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[darius1771]

Age has never been a definitive factor

 

I actually tend to find older muscular men more attractive than men my own age. I've been in a relationship with a wonderful guy for over a year that is quite older than me however we somehow click very securely on both a physical/emotional level. I don't notice the age difference at all and our relationship doesn't feel like a father/son relationship. We both share interests/lifestyles in fitness, music, and health. I'm definately not with him for financial benefits; I actually bring in a higher income. As an escort I enjoy men of all ages and all walks of life.

[maxwellissmart]

Although I think it's great to have appreciative clients, I think it's just as important for the escorts to be appreciative as well. It's a two-way street

 

Indeed it is. I met with my former client this weekend after a two-year-plus lapse. I met someone, moved and cut off contact. That ended, and this weekend was the first opportunity for me to come back to town—so I called him out of the blue. Ten minutes later, his dick was in my ass. No expectations, no fees—just lots of fantastic sex.

[jjkrkwood]

Indeed it is. I met with my former client this weekend after a two-year-plus lapse. I met someone, moved and cut off contact. That ended, and this weekend was the first opportunity for me to come back to town—so I called him out of the blue. Ten minutes later, his dick was in my ass. No expectations, no fees—just lots of fantastic sex.

 

Well thats the kind of Xmas bonus all clients would love to have. A no expense fucking.... Kinda makes it like REAL life. ;-)