I do not like the Daddy/Son thing!

[+ glutes]

What does Our Daddy have to say about being called 'Daddy'...?

 

Daddy?

[Samai139]

I've never been called "Daddy" by anyone and since I don't have the resources to be a "Sugar Daddy" I'm not too concerned about the term I think if someone called me "Gramps" I would be put off. However, I have been called "Baby" by a couple of dancers in Montreal and that bothered me---because I am pretty sure it was because the dancer/s couldn't remember my name---even after many meetings, conversations, lap dances, etc. That says more about me and my ego I guess. Hesitant to admit it but I want to be remembered, not just referred to as a generic "Baby" or "Boss" or some other sobriquet.

[jjkrkwood]

ATTN. Daddy Jerk Wood:

 

 

 

What a judgemental group... Some of you are attracted to extremely young looking guys that resemble lesbian girls, some of you like bearish-guys covered in hair, some of you want to play Daddy to guys that look like they are in pre-school, some are chubby-chasers. Some just want to pay big bucks to get rubbed down and jerked off by a masseur with no skill, but who turns them on.

 

Over 6000 posts, and STILL nothing original or intelligent from you. Just a bunch of recycled posts from other members always taken out of context... You DO have a major problem ! but I'm Happy once again to be the focus of your sick Obsession.... I'll send you a framed, autographed photo of me for Christmas to jerk off to.....

[+ glutes]

Just pointing out that you seem to have some (I use that term lightly) conflicts here Count Wood.

 

You no more dated a much younger Latino than I hired Mini Driver for a $2500 overnight...

[+ newatthis]

...I have been called "Baby" by a couple of dancers in Montreal and that bothered me---because I am pretty sure it was because the dancer/s couldn't remember my name---even after many meetings, conversations, lap dances, etc...

In that same situation, if I like the dancer and we're having (or have had) fun together, I sort of like being called "baby" -- it has a sexual edge for me. If the dancer is a turn-off (e.g. he's soliciting a lap dance after 20 seconds of "conversation"), I hate it.

 

More and more, I find myself starting (what turns out to be) an enjoyable interaction with a dancer by catching his eye or his arm and making some remark. The exchanging names part is often forgotten, or comes only much later. What is a turn-off, always, is a dancer whom I'm never seen before claiming to remember me well.

 

I haven't yet been in the "daddy" situation, but there's a local guy who in certain situations calls me his boy, which never fails to elicit some extra effort on my part.

[bootdad]

Who's your daddy ???

 

During a period when I was into leather in a BIG way - oh back about 20 years or so - was the first time I was called DADDY ... AND I LOVED IT !!! I totally see it as a turn on in every way and find it quite endearing. And nothing has me shooting across the room (in every respect) like a HOT 20 something just entering the leather scene on his knees nuzzling my Wesco thigh-high Engineers - a total TURN ON in every way !!! KEEP LICKING BOY !!!

[jjkrkwood]

Just pointing out that you seem to have some (I use that term lightly) conflicts here Count Wood.

 

You no more dated a much younger Latino than I hired Mini Driver for a $2500 overnight...

 

YOU pointing out peoples conflicts IS the funniest part of your statement. Get a new Hobby, cause you Suck at this one....

 

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

I've had a couple of 20-something twinks (based on their own description) reply to my profile on Adam with "Hi Daddy." They only descriptions in my profile are age, height, weight and position and I do not advertise as being a "daddy." Those messages immediately get deleted.

[Dave]

one of my clients (who's really into piss, and smells, and other raunch play, and heavy nipple play, too) is a true switch - as am i. i've probably seen him twenty times now, and each time i never know if i will be the Daddy or the Son. he is older than me, so it's not just role play - it's age play, too. it's fun because i never know what to expect, and yet we both can move into our roles fluidly, and have even shifted between them sometimes in a single session.

 

i dont think anyone's done this in this thread, but just to be clear - - - a Daddy shouldnt be confused with a Sugar Daddy. those terms are not at all related.

a Sugar Daddy gives money and/or gifts to someone, in return for sex and companionship.

a Daddy can be many things... he can be an older guy, OR a teacher/guide/mentor, OR a physical top, OR the dominant one in a relationship, OR a "father" in a father/son role play scene, OR a man who's just sexy and masculine, OR a man of leather, OR maybe even a guy with some facial hair.

 

...if you cringe at being called Daddy, realize that the guy saying it may not mean it the way you're taking it. and seize the opportunity! he's calling you Daddy, so pick one of the roles above, and become the Daddy you wanna be!

[Lookin]

I've had a couple of 20-something twinks (based on their own description) reply to my profile on Adam with "Hi Daddy." They only descriptions in my profile are age, height, weight and position and I do not advertise as being a "daddy."

I think that observation provides some very good insight. It could be that these various appellations (or soubriquets, as Samai139 delightfully calls them) have as much to do with how the other person envisions the hookup as about any of us.

 

Personally, I don't usually care for role playing. Intimacy and in-the-moment fantasy are my biggest turn-ons and I like things to unfold organically, so to speak, from one instant to the next. Many of my best encounters have taken place in silence, with touch being the basis for communication. For me, words that act to define or put parameters around the interaction are just as likely to interfere with the pleasure as they are to enhance it. Of course, once we get to know someone, verbal cues can definitely add to the experience.

 

But what's that wonderful phrase that one of the posters here used to end with?

 

Ah, oui, Chacun à son goût.

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[+ glutes]

YOU pointing out peoples conflicts IS the funniest part of your statement.

 

Point out 2 of mine...

 

(BTW Daddy Jerk Wood, who said the following? "Take your pot-shots Clown, and my ignoring you will make you look the fool that you are......")

[jjkrkwood]

Point out 2 of mine...

 

(BTW Daddy Jerk Wood, who said the following? "Take your pot-shots Clown, and my ignoring you will make you look the fool that you are......")

 

WOW, you really ARE a Loser with no life, and spend your days reviewing all my posts. I am flattered.... do you ever take a bathroom break ?

[+ glutes]

do you ever take a bathroom break ?

 

And do you?

You described yourself as a "60 year old Operations Manager" with his boss "breathing down my neck"... how are you able to post 14 times a day??? And take 14 bathroom breaks?

[bigvalboy]

Why Glutes, just noticed you changed your signature.~~ I rather like this one!

[jjkrkwood]

And do you?

You described yourself as a "60 year old Operations Manager" with his boss "breathing down my neck"... how are you able to post 14 times a day??? And take 14 bathroom breaks?

 

I am sure you have a spreadsheet of all my posts as well to substantiate your claim ? Again i am flattered.... I REALLY must be the most exciting thing in your life ?... Glad I bring you such pleasure. I love helping the dysfunctional, needy and down-trodden.

[Guest LatinoRican]

The term "papi" has become very commonplace in some Latin countries. Young men may call each other "papi" when they meet, "Hey, papi, como estas?" Or a girl may call out to a goodlooking guy who is passing by, "Papi, estas bien bueno!" "Papi" means, of course, father in a family setting. But equating "papi" to "Daddy" as in an older man may not be correct in the OP's example. I think "papi" referred to the dominant partner in the sexual encounter in that situation.

[maxwellissmart]

Not into the whole dialogue thing—it sounds rehearsed and fakey. That's not to say I don't like noise—which is a huge turn on. And the whole D/S dynamic cranks my engine into 10th gear.

[Phil_musc]

I remember the first time a guy called me Daddy. I was about 37 at the time and having a passionate encounter with a somewhat younger built-like-a-brick-shit-house African-American guy in a tiny booth at the Tomcat bookstore in Phllly. I was so engrossed at the time in what we were doing and he only murmured it that I had to ask him to repeat what he had said. When he repeated it, I thought, "oh shit, I am getting older." Now, I know that age doesn't have much to do with it, but back then it sorta bothered (but not enough to throw me off track - the passionate encounter continued to its inevitable conclusion. Didn't turn me off, didn't turn me on - it just was.

 

Incidentally, while I don't understand the incest thing either, there is a site that I go to for erotic fiction online and one of the most prolific wings of the library is the one dealing with sexual encounters between fathers and sons and to a lesser extent brothers with each other. Perhaps no one here is into that fantasy, but apparently a significant chunk of our crowd is.

[bigvalboy]

The term "papi" has become very commonplace in some Latin countries. Young men may call each other "papi" when they meet, "Hey, papi, como estas?" Or a girl may call out to a goodlooking guy who is passing by, "Papi, estas bien bueno!" "Papi" means, of course, father in a family setting. But equating "papi" to "Daddy" as in an older man may not be correct in the OP's example. I think "papi" referred to the dominant partner in the sexual encounter in that situation.

 

 

I still think that it is hot, now that I know what it means. I would embrace someone saying that to me...Heck, I am getting older and if some young guy thinks I am sexy, well who am I to disagree.