masseur or escort?

[canucknick]

Hi guys --

 

I've posted this question before, when I was about to take a trip to NYC. But I'm headed there again, and I wondered if anyone had any new tips or thoughts.

 

I'd like to get a really good massage, but I'd also like it to end with a little more than just a manual release. Full-on interaction isn't necessarily what I want...but I wouldn't say no to it. But I'd love to be able to orally service, maybe even rim, the masseur. And if he's a safe top, that could work out. But it's hard, of course, to tell from the carefully-worded ads which masseurs might allow that, so I wonder if I should just hire an escort. If so, which are the ones that are really good at massage too?

 

Responses here would be so appreciated, but so would PMs if that is the more discreet way of discussing what masseurs can do...so they don't get in trouble.

 

Much thanks.

[Terpmaniac]

Great question. I go by two things. Where I find his ad and what it says. If he is on something like Rentboy or Rentmen advertising as a masseur (as well as a escort) I am less inhibited in saying or hinting that its Ok if we take this a bit further. Of course if you hire him as a masseur, crossing over into something more along the lines of an escort is pretty much his call, not yours. Remember chemistry is everything. If I find him on one of the massage sites, look for terms like "body-electric" or "tantric" they suggest a much more intimate experience then just the garden variety massage. Trust me. If your masseur wants to go beyond the norm, he will tell you. Or do what I do..let your body do the talking for you(sorry I couldnt resist). Have fun. I am going to be in New York as well and this guy is number one on my list. Check him out. And I promise to get back with a review after it happens.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=286431

 

Terp

[+ Travis69]

Great question. I go by two things. Where I find his ad and what it says. If he is on something like Rentboy or Rentmen advertising as a masseur (as well as a escort) I am less inhibited in saying or hinting that its Ok if we take this a bit further. Of course if you hire him as a masseur, crossing over into something more along the lines of an escort is pretty much his call, not yours. Remember chemistry is everything. If I find him on one of the massage sites, look for terms like "body-electric" or "tantric" they suggest a much more intimate experience then just the garden variety massage. Trust me. If your masseur wants to go beyond the norm, he will tell you. Or do what I do..let your body do the talking for you(sorry I couldnt resist). Have fun. I am going to be in New York as well and this guy is number one on my list. Check him out. And I promise to get back with a review after it happens.

 

http://www.rentboy.com/Listing.aspx?lid=286431

 

Terp

 

This guy has mixed reviews here. You might want to get some opinions before you see him. Do a search for "Damien". Believe that was his name. He is also discussed on muscleservice.com.

[ncc1701d]

I've never hired him, but with that body/dick in NYC he's only asking for $100/hr for a massage??!! Something is not adding up.......

[BaronArtz]

Good question. I would recommend, without hesitation, Anthony Breioc (http://www.masseurfinder.com/members/breioc.shtml) One of his service options is the 'royal treatment'. If you read between the lines of the reviews posted on his profile, you will know what it means. If it's not clear, PM me and I will be glad to give some additional color.

[Terpmaniac]

Thanks for the info. I just read some of his reviews..YIKES!!!! Does he have an evil twin? His reviews are all over the place. He is off my list. Just too risky. BUT DAMYUM..he looks yummy!

 

Terp

[workoutfiend]

Agreed -- from personal experience Anthony is exactly who you are looking for!

[Kevin Slater]

If he is on something like Rentboy or Rentmen advertising as a masseur (as well as a escort) I am less inhibited in saying or hinting that its Ok if we take this a bit further.

 

And there's manworks, the "massage" site ran by the good folk at rentboy. I'd throw that into the same grouping.

 

Kevin Slater

[Phil_musc]

Yes, Terp, I had an escort session with Santos/Damien last spring. Based on the arithmetic of dollars for time, I think you should probably plan to keep your clothes on because you won't have time to even take your shoes off. Figuring that his massage rate is about half his escort rate, just how much do you think you'll experience in fifteen minutes, give or take a second or two?

 

Anthony, on the other hand, is wonderful - well deserving of his accolades.

[jackhammer91406]

The only way to fly

 

Granted he may not be everyone's cup of tea but I can strongly recommend Jim #2 in NYC. ( tried to post the link to Daddy's reviews but couldn't). His most recent review was 10/20/2011

Check his reviews. I don't think there is a negative one. If his pic looks interesting to you then check him out. I am not sure his Rentboy link is active right now.

 

He does a great massage and it can segue if you desire as he works the escort side as well. Many on this board have met with him. He may be in the older range, but you will not notice once you see him and he touches you. And a great kisser.

I'm just saying.....

[Guest Merlin]

If he advertises as a masseur without specifying more than release, you will need to be specific what you are looking for. You can ease into it by asking if he "escorts" as well. He will know what you mean and give you a good idea what he does or does not do.

[RockHard]

Man or woman?

 

I am going to be in New York as well and this guy (Santos) is number one on my list. Check him out.

 

Obviously plucked eyebrows and mascara on the lashes does not spell "guy" to me. Some queens really want to be girls, in spite of their tight abs and big cocks. I'll bet she does drag on weekends. Good luck.

[jjkrkwood]

Obviously plucked eyebrows and mascara on the lashes does not spell "guy" to me. Some queens really want to be girls, in spite of their tight abs and big cocks. I'll bet she does drag on weekends. Good luck.

 

Wow, guess noone ever told you that its totally NOT cool to badmouth the competition, regardless of what you think. Makes you look really BAD, not that you care. Sour grapes or just jealousy ????

[RockHard]

Brain cells missing.

 

guess no one ever told you that its totally NOT cool to badmouth the competition

Competition? Dude, what the fuck are you talkin' about?

[instudiocity]

Competition? Dude, what the fuck are you talkin' about?

 

LOL! Obviously, JJ thinks you're an escort! ARRHHH! ROFLMAO!!!

[jjkrkwood]

LOL! Obviously, JJ thinks you're an escort! ARRHHH! ROFLMAO!!!

 

Oh right. i remember, Rockhard just supplies companionship without Sex. And noone is competition for Him....He's the closest thing to GOD. I seem to remember his post to that effect somewhere....

[RockHard]

Yikes.

 

Obviously, JJ thinks you're an escort! ROFLMAO!!!

 

That is funny but sort of sad, too.

 

i remember, Rockhard just supplies companionship without Sex...I seem to remember his post to that effect somewhere....

 

Dude, step away from the 20 cups of coffee and work on your reading comprehension skills. The post that you remember clearly went WAY over your head.

[bigvalboy]

And there off.........

[canucknick]

Thanks, guys, for the advice and input. I'll look into the guys you recommend. Anyone else have a favorite that I should look at?

 

By the way...I asked about masseurs who also provide something like an escort experience. But maybe I'm going too far with that. Do you think many masseurs who advertise as "sensual" or "erotic" (and yes, I know that there is a wide range of definitions in use for those terms!) would be fine with offering release and getting serviced orally? And...I know it seems funny, but I've had some masseurs really take offense to direct questions. So is there a good, polite, discreet (or whatever) way to ask those kinds of questions? Maybe if the masseur is offended by those kinds of direct questions, they're not who I'm looking for?

 

Again, please feel free to PM me if you'd like to comment about something or someone specifically but not in public.

 

Thanks again for all the help.

[+ Travis69]

They may be offended but I am sure you are not the first person to ask about "extras". Some ads I have gone to that seemed very innocent have turned into very sexual situations and other ads that appeared very sexual turned into nothing sexual being offered. You never know. Some of it depends on what you look like, how clean you are, how horny they are and how rushed for time they are. I ask and let them know that I am willing to pay extra if need be. Sometimes it's needed, other times it's not.

[RockHard]

Some of it depends on what you look like, how clean you are, how horny they are and how rushed for time they are.

 

Personally, I think it really depends on chemistry, on top of all the things listed above. Sensual massage guys don't really want to be escorts. They don't want money to dictate the requirement of sex with men they are not attracted to. I can't remember ever getting a sensual massage and not receiving a full-out blowjob. But I'm told over and over again, "I don't do that with everybody."

 

Some massage therapists have surprised me with a tongue up my ass, which is always fun. While others have jumped up to sit on my face while I savored the scent of their sweet, musky man holes. Some enjoy licking ripe pits (I never wear deodorant). A few have tried to fuck me but I won't let anyone go beyond a little cock-head play on the surface of my hole. A few have eagerly straddled my hard cock.

 

You might stand a better chance of securing what you're looking for by sending a sexy, nude photo of yourself. You just can't be upset if you get no response or get a no. Everyone defines sexual turn-on differently. You won't know until you ask.

 

On a recent business trip, I booked a well-reviewed sensual massage therapist for the first time. After the first email, he said he would consider everything I asked for as long as I was under 220 pounds. Clearly, he wasn't into fatties. I wrote back with my current weight and I included a nude (no face) photo. We had a blast, especially when we showered together afterwards and he slid my soapy hardon back into his ass. And all that fun for only $150. How can you beat that?

[+ glutes]

Wow, guess noone ever told you that its totally NOT cool to badmouth the competition, regardless of what you think. Makes you look really BAD, not that you care. Sour grapes or just jealousy ????

 

Interesting JJ Jerk Wood, you have trashed about every massage therapist & escort that si brought up here on M-F.

Of course except for that distinguished freak that is loaded with silicone. Oh, but that is a private matter...

[jjkrkwood]

Interesting JJ Jerk Wood, you have trashed about every massage therapist & escort that si brought up here on M-F.

Of course except for that distinguished freak that is loaded with silicone. Oh, but that is a private matter...

 

Really, I have ? EVERY one ? Lets see some proof. If you can manufacture more than 4, I would be surprised...

 

And lets compare apples to apples here Gloop. I am a client commenting on an escort. Quite diff than an escort bad mouthing one of his own, as RH did.... But then again, I keep forgetting RH is not an escort, but simply a male "companion" LMFAO.

 

Once again Gloop, you keep bringing up the guy with the silicone cock. I honestly think you are more obssessed with HIM than I am ? Its OK Hon, its really OK...... HE WAS HOT !!!!

[RockHard]

I thought I learned to ignore the trolls.

 

Quite diff than an escort bad mouthing one of his own, as RH did....

 

Sweetie, just how daft are you? One of his own? You just don't get it. Ever heard of the word "pun?"

 

But then again, I keep forgetting RH is not an escort, but simply a male "companion" LMFAO.

 

Sweetie, the only people really laughing are those who are laughing at you. Time and again you prove to everyone how good you are at wasting bandwidth. If I were Daddy, I'd ban you just to save a few pennies.

 

Here's some truth that will probably cause you brain freeze: I am not an escort and I am no man's paid companion. At least, not in the sense that defines the existence of this board. But you're too daft to realize that anyone who works in the service industry, in some way, is providing a service for money. So, IMO, we're all escorting.

 

Now go find a way to build a happier existence and stop annoying people.

[jjkrkwood]

Sweetie, just how daft are you? One of his own? You just don't get it. Ever heard of the word "pun?"

 

 

 

Sweetie, the only people really laughing are those who are laughing at you. Time and again you prove to everyone how good you are at wasting bandwidth. If I were Daddy, I'd ban you just to save a few pennies.

 

Here's some truth that will probably cause you brain freeze: I am not an escort and I am no man's paid companion. At least, not in the sense that defines the existence of this board. But you're too daft to realize that anyone who works in the service industry, in some way, is providing a service for money. So, IMO, we're all escorting.

 

Now go find a way to build a happier existence and stop annoying people.

 

Wow RH, you ARE Badasssss. much like the Honey Badger.. But in THIS case, I just dont "give a shit". Service industry ? YOU actually have a job? I find that hard to believe with your personality. You are alot of Big talk for a "little pussy".... And I love the way you appoint yourself to speak on behalf of the site, and believe YOU are a welcome addition. Tres Amuse'....