How so Escorts handle communications during a booking with a client?

[healthguy]

This may have been answered b4, so please direct me if it has:

How does an Escort handle calls, texts, emails, when they are with a clients. I can see putting "calls" on hold for an hr or 2, but what about an overnight, weekend, or longer.

You guys have a business to run as well. Do clients give you "time off" so you can keep in touch? PS: Still trying to make my very first hookup of any kind with Roman in Chicago. Timing is always the pits. Thanks, Rand

[maxwellissmart]

This may have been answered b4, so please direct me if it has:

How does an Escort handle calls, texts, emails, when they are with a clients. I can see putting "calls" on hold for an hr or 2, but what about an overnight, weekend, or longer.

 

Smartphone. If it's an incall, I check mail when they're in the shower or getting dressed. If an outcall, I check when I get back to the car. I don't do overnights or weekends anymore, so this isn't an issue.

[bobchitown]

Given your screen name, are you sure it isn't a shoe phone?

[maxwellissmart]

Given your screen name, are you sure it isn't a shoe phone?

 

For a token deposit into my checking account, you can find out personally!

[Guest 2guys4men]

Great Question, when it's just a booking for an hour or two, usually prior to arrival or when we leave, and if it is an overnight/weekend, there is time off that we do get to follow up with an email/txt/phone call (during a bathroom break, shower, or usually when the client has a personal engagement and gives us the morning or afternoon off). I have yet to see an escort not have a moment to themselves to follow up with business or personal matters. The only time this becomes an issue is when a potential client calls and expects us to be available 24/7. When we say we are available anytime, its means we are open to those times, but we do sleep, we do work, so some clients need to understand this and not take it so personal.

[maxwellissmart]

The only time this becomes an issue is when a potential client calls and expects us to be available 24/7.

 

Exactly. And this is the reason why I would never book a multi-day appointment with a client who is a top. No way, no how. It's difficult enough to get ready for a regular client, but it's just not worth the hassle to try to use someone else's facilities to freshen up—or as one escort called it: "buttrinse."

[Kevin Slater]

It's not unusual for both parties to want a few moments to themselves during a extended booking, not necessarily to arrange other work but also to check the markets, follow the headlines or scratch one's nose. An occasional fifteen minute break from each other's company helps both of you stay focused when downtime is over and keeps the general energy up.

 

Kevin Slater

[Guest countryboywny]

It's not unusual for both parties to want a few moments to themselves during a extended booking, not necessarily to arrange other work but also to check the markets, follow the headlines or scratch one's nose. An occasional fifteen minute break from each other's company helps both of you stay focused when downtime is over and keeps the general energy up.

 

Kevin Slater

 

Spoken like the pro that you are.

[Dave]

How does an Escort handle calls, texts, emails, when they are with a clients. I can see putting "calls" on hold for an hr or 2, but what about an overnight, weekend, or longer.

You guys have a business to run as well. Do clients give you "time off" so you can keep in touch?

 

i believe in being up front with potential clients, while they consider booking me - so everyone is on the same page. whether it's in a phone call or in the "rates" section on my website, i clearly explain that for appts lasting 24 hours or more, i'll need 1-2 hours per day to myself for dealing with personal stuff. fyi, here's the text i include on my website. it shows up just after my rates are listed out:

_______________________________________

 

- there are no surprise charges: my rates posted here are my actual rates. and if we go longer than agreed upon, i promise i won’t bump you up to the next time increment.

- gratuities are not expected, but very much appreciated.

 

 

ADDITIONAL NOTES

- i am available anytime: early in the morning, middle of the day, late at night... whatever you want. i can see you weekdays or weekends. i limit the number of appointments per day, so i will be fresh and energetic when i see you.

- if you want to bring a second person to join us (for sessions up to 3 hours in length), and you are both of the same sex, please add $100 for a 90 minute or 2 hour session. please add $150 for a 3 hour session.

- if you want to bring a second person to join us (for sessions up to 3 hours in length), and you are male and female, please add $150 for a 90 minute or 2 hour session. please add $200 for a 3 hour session.

- i can also supply a second person. see the links "3somes - you, me + a girl" or "3somes - you, me + a guy" on the right side of this page. each of the guy's or girl's rates are listed there and they vary. you would take my rate for our session, add his or her rate to that, add on a $50 set up fee for me to arrange our three schedules, and that will be your total cost for a session with me and my friend.

- my outcall fee ranges from $20 to $60; this depends upon your proximity to me, as long as you are in my travel range - generally the dc/md/va metro area.

 

- overnights can begin as early as 7:00pm, or as late as midnight.

- you can add 1, 2, or 3 hours on to an overnight appointment. each additional hour is $100 up to 3 additional hours, at which time the appointment converts to the 24 hour rate of $1,200 for up to 24 hours.

- for any 24 hour period, i request 1-2 waking hours daily to myself (to work out, deal with phone/email messages, perhaps go for a run, etc).

- i can travel to you anywhere in the world with just a minimum overnight and my transport expenses paid.

 

- for long distance, multiple-day trips (for example to berlin, bali, new york, key west, or the caribbean - all trips i've done in the past), i will reduce my daily rate, knowing that you will have other significant expenses.

- while we are together on long distance trips, any expenses for meals, entertainment, or transportation are to be covered by you.

 

- i offer preferred availability for regular clients.

- money exchanged is for time and companionship only.

_______________________________________

 

i don't always use the time requested, though. for example, i just finished a two day appointment with a client - a Daddy's/Forum reader, in fact - and i didn't use any of my "hours". the flow of our time together was such that i didn't feel it necessary, in that he was cool with me taking three minutes here or there to deal with an occasional call or email. actually, towards the end of our appointment, he told me it would be great if i took a call and booked something while he was on his knees, sucking me off. we both agreed that would be hot, so there's something else for us to do in the future (if he calls me again!)

 

i guess that's the ultimate way of a client giving me "time off", right?

[maxwellissmart]

he told me it would be great if i took a call and booked something while he was on his knees, sucking me off.

 

HA—I did something like that to a client not too long ago (the roles were reversed) and I started rimming him while he was on the phone. Surprised the hell out of him, but he rolled over and threw that butt in the air and stayed on the phone.

[Dave]

HA—I did something like that to a client not too long ago (the roles were reversed) and I started rimming him while he was on the phone. Surprised the hell out of him, but he rolled over and threw that butt in the air and stayed on the phone.

 

i bet that was fun for you - and him, it seems. amazing that he stayed quiet! when getting my ass eaten, i sometimes get surprised when i hear sounds coming out of my own mouth.

 

but... IMO, not everyone can react the way your client did. out of concern for discretion, i wouldn't do that (as a surprise) to any client of mine. i doubt most people who hire an escort and need to be on a personal call, want the escort in their space while they're talking - let alone starting a sex act with them. it seriously crosses the boundaries of personal space and privacy. when a client of mine gets a call that he or she needs to take during a session, i lower the music, and make myself sparse. easiest way is to move into another room - even a bathroom works, if space is tight - and let them have their private conversation.

 

now, if they tell me beforehand that that's what they'd like the next time the phone rings... that's a completely different story. i can't recall rimming anyone then, but i've definitely fucked a few people that way. i recall one guy talking to his wife about what food he'd be bringing home from the supermarket later that day. you shouldve seen him coming up with the list.

[maxwellissmart]

i bet that was fun for you - and him, it seems. amazing that he stayed quiet! when getting my ass eaten, i sometimes get surprised when i hear sounds coming out of my own mouth.

 

but... IMO, not everyone can react the way your client did. out of concern for discretion, i wouldn't do that (as a surprise) to any client of mine. i doubt most people who hire an escort and need to be on a personal call, want the escort in their space while they're talking - let alone starting a sex act with them. it seriously crosses the boundaries of personal space and privacy. when a client of mine gets a call that he or she needs to take during a session, i lower the music, and make myself sparse. easiest way is to move into another room - even a bathroom works, if space is tight - and let them have their private conversation.

 

now, if they tell me beforehand that that's what they'd like the next time the phone rings... that's a completely different story. i can't recall rimming anyone then, but i've definitely fucked a few people that way. i recall one guy talking to his wife about what food he'd be bringing home from the supermarket later that day. you shouldve seen him coming up with the list.

 

True, and point taken. This was someone who I've seen for a while, and I neglected to mention that we were already doing something when the phone rang and he didn't make a motion to stop. And I'm loving the guy-with-the-wife scenario.

[maxwellissmart]

Okay, since we're on the topic of communication—here's something that happened to me last night that is a little OT, but I think it's a good example of what NOT to do when you're calling an escort to set something up.

 

Client calls late last night from a number I don't recognize. He's relatively young and sounds a lot like Penn Jillette. He insists he's tried to set up time with me repeatedly and I'm always busy.

 

He asks me what I "get into." I say: "well, I'm an escort and I offer erotic massage as well."

 

I ask him to tell me a little about himself and what he's looking for. He responds with a very exaggerated: "well, I'm SEVENTY and REALLY FAT..." and at that point I'm thinking: "okay, frat boys are having some fun." So I stop responding and hang up.

 

He calls back immediately, and I google the number—which is a business out in the middle of nowhere. I cross check the number and no one has ever called me from it before.

 

So he leaves a message which says: "Dude, I'm just joking, call me back if you want to make some money."

 

I text him back and say: "what email or number have you contacted me under before?" He calls back and I answer, and he repeats the "just joking" excuse. I immediately say: "I don't have any record of you contacting me before. What number would you have used?"

 

He gives me a number and sure enough, he has contacted me before, via SMS. He's always been very vague, with last-minute contacts, and monosyllabic answers.

 

So then he starts in with the "what are you into" bit again, which I sidestep by asking: "where are you?" He tells me he's at the business which I looked up, and wants me to come to him. It's about 45 minutes away according to Google Maps. I tell him that it's pretty late and it would take me a while to get ready, but he gets extremely pushy and tries to tell me it's closer than what I've mapped, and quickly offers me more money to come to him. I decline, and he says: "whatever, dude" and hangs up on me.

 

There's lots of different red flags that will make me think a client isn't serious—but I don't recall one person using so many at once. Jeez.

[Guest countryboywny]

Okay, since we're on the topic of communication—here's something that happened to me last night that is a little OT, but I think it's a good example of what NOT to do when you're calling an escort to set something up.

 

Client calls late last night from a number I don't recognize. He's relatively young and sounds a lot like Penn Jillette. He insists he's tried to set up time with me repeatedly and I'm always busy.

 

He asks me what I "get into." I say: "well, I'm an escort and I offer erotic massage as well."

 

I ask him to tell me a little about himself and what he's looking for. He responds with a very exaggerated: "well, I'm SEVENTY and REALLY FAT..." and at that point I'm thinking: "okay, frat boys are having some fun." So I stop responding and hang up.

 

He calls back immediately, and I google the number—which is a business out in the middle of nowhere. I cross check the number and no one has ever called me from it before.

 

So he leaves a message which says: "Dude, I'm just joking, call me back if you want to make some money."

 

I text him back and say: "what email or number have you contacted me under before?" He calls back and I answer, and he repeats the "just joking" excuse. I immediately say: "I don't have any record of you contacting me before. What number would you have used?"

 

He gives me a number and sure enough, he has contacted me before, via SMS. He's always been very vague, with last-minute contacts, and monosyllabic answers.

 

So then he starts in with the "what are you into" bit again, which I sidestep by asking: "where are you?" He tells me he's at the business which I looked up, and wants me to come to him. It's about 45 minutes away according to Google Maps. I tell him that it's pretty late and it would take me a while to get ready, but he gets extremely pushy and tries to tell me it's closer than what I've mapped, and quickly offers me more money to come to him. I decline, and he says: "whatever, dude" and hangs up on me.

 

There's lots of different red flags that will make me think a client isn't serious—but I don't recall one person using so many at once. Jeez.

 

Let's see, he wants you to travel out to God-knows-where, late at night, by yourself etc.etc.. sounds like a set up to me. Glad you didn't do it.

[maxwellissmart]

Let's see, he wants you to travel out to God-knows-where, late at night, by yourself etc.etc.. sounds like a set up to me. Glad you didn't do it.

 

The deal-breaker was the whole "joke" thing. I've see quite a few clients, and he would be the first to ever respond in that manner. If he's legit, I don't know what he was expecting to happen by acting like that.

[raulgmanzo]

I prefer email. But for last minute appointments, or ironing out certain details I think a phone call makes sense. Text messages to see if I'm available to take a call or read email is reasonable and I appreciate the client texting me his address so that I need not worry about mishearing the address on the phone or not having good email access if I'm out and about.

 

Unfortunately nothing is foolproof. I occasionally get inquiries from most of the major escort sites that have an invalid email address. Sometimes I can see that they probably made a typo while entering that info. For example it says they are John in Chicago but their email is jonh_cihcago@yaahoo . But generally I'm not going to risk sending an unsolicited email to the wrong person. Also I sometimes try and call back only to hear that their "mailbox is full and is not accepting messages", etc.

 

In my opinion there is nothing unusual about ANY professional ignoring non-urgent business communication for a weekend, even a long weekend, and many of us may have our "weekend" occur on days other than Saturday and Sunday.

 

A really good thing to do is send some details via email and then if time is of the essence give me a call, text message or voice mail alerting me to the email. Or maybe the reverse if you prefer. I just so often find the phone reception, ambient noise, or people in my vicinity makes it difficult to hold a meaningful conversation.

 

But even when the client does everything perfectly there have been times when I lost email under the avalanche of spam I often get and there are other times I just plain screwed up. Sometimes I think I pressed send but instead saved the message to my drafts folder, etc.

[gcursor]

wow. hot.

 

*writes down HIRE DAVE and underlines*

 

i can't recall rimming anyone then, but i've definitely fucked a few people that way. i recall one guy talking to his wife about what food he'd be bringing home from the supermarket later that day. you shouldve seen him coming up with the list.

[SteveEscort]

Like many others I discreetly check my phone when a client is in the shower or otherwise engaged. Sometimes on overnights a client will order room service for drinks but I often offer to pop to the bar and obtain them on his behalf, which gives me 10 minutes break to check my emails/texts or missed calls. I also change my voicemail message just before an overnight so the caller doesn't think ignoring him.

 

I never answer calls on my "work" phone in front of clients.

[leigh.bess.toad]

*writes down HIRE DAVE and underlines*

 

That would be a very wise suggestion, my friend.

 

That does sound pretty hot Dave. We have to remember to do that the next time we're together. Calling one of my friends while we are fucking. That's one of the few things we haven't done yet.

 

I do recall (and I may have even told you about this Dave) a series of texts I exchanged with a friend. WHILE he was being fucked. The guy he was with thought he was texting his office and it was turning him on and making him fuck him harder. One of the most hysterical and treasured moments of my last year.