Let's talk about cumming

[Mocha]

Sorry if this has been discussed before but couldn't find anything. I usually don't see more than 1 or 2 (which is a lot for me) clients in 1 day. However, when I'm away there are times when I'll more but not much more than 3. Anymore than that I'm just knackered.

 

I had someone contact me asking if it'd be possible to have 5 or 6 clients in 1 day in a particular area. But my question, especially if someone is a top is; how would one see that many clients and either cum or not cum?

 

Usually after cumming once, it's hard to cum the 2nd time. After I cum twice, it's near impossible for the rest of the day. But if I don't cum at all, and many clients want you to cum how do you go about it?

 

I know this will vary across the board, but would it be a deal breaker if they did not cum for you? Or is it selfish on the client's end to want me to cum knowing that I may very well have other clients lined up? I mean, they are well aware that once a person cums, that lessens their ability however small throughout the day of cumming again.

 

I can see it being fair for longer appointments, but for 1 hours it would be a bit overzealous. There's also clients who "want to be the first in line" so that they get first dibs. But that's actually quite the contrary as it's whoever is last in line (not that I create lines or anything, just speaking figuratively) that would make more sense to cum for.

 

Is it okay to fore go cumming completely, or should you just try to do it for any client that asks?

[Guest Merlin]

Sometimes escorts make an attempt and then say that they can't. The client may be disappointed but not much to do. I usually don't care that much. As for the client that wondered about your seeing 5 or 6, I suggest that you tell him that you could see them, but cannot cum that many times. Perhaps that will be ok with them. If you know you are going to have several, it is probably best to save yourself, so you will have a fair amount of passion for them all.

[+ azdr0710]

try communicating honestly with the client if they ask....it may sabotage one or more of your hoped-for appointments, but it's telling the truth.....make sure the client tells you beforehand all they hope to do (and see)....

 

a now-retired very popular escort had a policy of no cumming unless it was an overnight....he had a great rep and could command that sort of deal....

[+ Travis69]

I think it is selfish of the client to expect you to cum for a one hour appointment. It makes getting a good erection for the next client harder. So many of the complaints in reviews is that the escort couldn't get hard and it ruined the whole experience for the client. With everyone asking for a escort to cum it's no surprise the escort can't get a good erection for the next appointment. This is a business and escorts need to see more than one client a day to make it a good profitable business. Personally I never ask an escort to cum and they appreciate that fact.

[gcursor]

Honesty

 

I agree. Honesty is the best policy so be up-front with the client about what can or can't be done.

gc

 

try communicating honestly with the client if they ask....it may sabotage one or more of your hoped-for appointments, but it's telling the truth.....make sure the client tells you beforehand all they hope to do (and see)....

 

a now-retired very popular escort had a policy of no cumming unless it was an overnight....he had a great rep and could command that sort of deal....

[josephga]

imo you shouldn't have to cum your in the business to make others cum lol

[Mocha]

a now-retired very popular escort had a policy of no cumming unless it was an overnight....he had a great rep and could command that sort of deal....

 

That's a good one LOL. I'm generally not that strict though because overnights are usually a 2-3 times a year deal for me anyway.

 

As for the client that wondered about your seeing 5 or 6, I suggest that you tell him that you could see them, but cannot cum that many times.

 

It was actually another escort who asked me that.

 

And yes, if 2 or 3 previous clients are wanting the guy to cum...I mean what do you expect? Luckily getting hard wouldn't be an issue for me, but trying to meet the demands of having to cum for everyone would be.

[Mocha]

imo you shouldn't have to cum your in the business to make others cum lol

 

But I know some of my regular clients would be royally miffed if I decided not to cum for them anymore. Some guys it's just the opposite, they don't want to cum (I've known many who actually CAN'T cum...like my BF) but just want to see you cum.

 

Like I don't mind it, but I want some sort of balance. Yes I can pick and choose who to cum for. But I just want set written procedures for when and who LOL.

[josephga]

Ive actually had massage clients ask me if id jerk off or jerk me off and cum. one guy asked the other day how many times aday do I cum for the clients? I told him only about twice a week because of the low rate I charge extra to do so

[jjkrkwood]

I think it is selfish of the client to expect you to cum for a one hour appointment. It makes getting a good erection for the next client harder. So many of the complaints in reviews is that the escort couldn't get hard and it ruined the whole experience for the client. With everyone asking for a escort to cum it's no surprise the escort can't get a good erection for the next appointment. This is a business and escorts need to see more than one client a day to make it a good profitable business. Personally I never ask an escort to cum and they appreciate that fact.

 

Sorry, but when you shell out $300 for an hour, you should expect something, but in all fairness I would discuss this with the hire before the session and let him know my expectations, and then he can decide how he wants to handle it. I think its selfish of the escort if he deprives you of that when you pay so much money. He is providing his time AND service, and cumming for most would be part of the service. His next client is NOT my concern....

[josephga]

You could make sure the client has cum then just pretend to cum in the condom.

[jjkrkwood]

You could make sure the client has cum then just pretend to cum in the condom.

 

And how should he handle a client like ME thats basically Oral (i like to service) and wont suck with a condom on ??? As far as myswelf cumming, I can handle that myself, and refer to. Thats why scorts like to book me, I am a real easy client.....

[josephga]

And how should he handle a client like ME thats basically Oral (i like to service) and wont suck with a condom on ??? As far as myswelf cumming, I can handle that myself, and refer to. Thats why scorts like to book me, I am a real easy client.....

 

you could easily find guys off manhunt that will just let you suck their dick

[seeker630]

You could make sure the client has cum then just pretend to cum in the condom.

 

Have to disagree with you here, Joseph. IF the client has communicated that it's important for him to see you cum (something I always state before the session), then it's dishonest to not deliver. I've had at least on escort pull that on me, and it I felt cheated. Better to be honest up-front if you can't or aren't willing to do something.

 

I have known guys who would only cum if the appointment was at least 2 hours. I can understand that, and it lets me decide how important it is to me.

[JT Brooklyn]

I have found that being the type of guy who also likes to see my partner CUM..."2 Hour Sessions" work best for ME.

 

Cumming at least once if not more than likely twice of both Party's..has happened more than NOT in my sessions.

 

Of course my long time "Reg Guy" (Ret) always cums twice... probably due to the fact he's a B/B and an exercise guy and I Guarantee 2 Hrs!

[mansniffing]

Sorry, but when you shell out $300 for an hour, you should expect something, but in all fairness I would discuss this with the hire before the session and let him know my expectations, and then he can decide how he wants to handle it. I think its selfish of the escort if he deprives you of that when you pay so much money. He is providing his time AND service, and cumming for most would be part of the service. His next client is NOT my concern....

 

Before Rentboy and the Internet CUMMING was always included in the deal. It was up close and in person then. In NYC BoysForRent spent an awful lot of time at Third and 53rd or in escort friendly bars chatting up possible clients during the late hours. Negotiating takes time and when the deal was sealed the two took a taxi to the client's apartment. Multiple bookings just weren't possible and cumming wasn't an issue. With the Internet both client and escort save shoe leather and bar trolling time. The Net has simplified the whole process and in turn created the current fashion of multiple bookings while opening up a hornet's nest: the current subject of CUMMING. I'm old fashioned and from the school of both partners coming. So therefore an escort not cumming is troublesome for me. But the current way of doing business does allow me to explore the escort's side of the conflict. One example is Reece, an escort now retired, who had only one client a day for a two-hour session and he always came. Currently trolling electronically enables one to do multiple bookings. You gotta reel in the fish when you got him hooked because most clients are impulsive in the sense that they want it now and if you aren't ready to play there are other Rentboys available. Now that is a dilemma. It's feast or famine. On some days your green available light can be on all day without a bite and on other days WOW, the fish are all biting. And if you've had a dry spell and bills to pay what's a guy to do . . . you do multiple bookings. I think in seeing both sides of the issue one has to be up front. Ideally you book in advance and specify that you want a LOAD. No load no booking. But of course on the day of your appointment the escort may have another banner day after a dry spell. In that event I think that if the escort decides to go for multiple bookings that day knowing that his booked client expects him to cum and that it won't be possible that courtesy says the escort should call and cancel the appointment and ask if the next day would work. That way you have your cake and can eat it too even though "a bird in hand is worth two in the bush." But that's another matter. Yes, Mr. Kirkwood you have been candid in your comment today and I agree one must communicate one's expectations. With me, it's if you don't cum don't come. L O L

[Mocha]

You gotta reel in the fish when you got him hooked because most clients are impulsive in the sense that they want it now and if you aren't ready to play there are other Rentboys available. Now that is a dilemma.

 

I rarely face that dilemma LOL. I don't go to places that have 300+ rent boys unless it's an all expenses, pre-paid booking. So if they have to wait a week or 2 to see me...all the better. But in NYC where you live, wheeeeeeew. I betcha.

 

His next client is NOT my concern....

 

But what if the next client is you? Then what?

 

I try not to schedule client's too closely together. I rather spend lots of time with 1 client than to see another client 30 minutes later. But sometimes, schedules aren't free all day and one or the other leaves town the next day and...well things get crammed.

[jjkrkwood]

imo you shouldn't have to cum your in the business to make others cum lol

 

Joeseph, you cant be serious here? I usually am in agreement with you, but NOT here. As a client who pays well for and gets off on sucking cock, I would expect my hire to come for a price of $300 hr. If that was not the case, I would expect him to tell me upfront of his intention NOT to come. Without the CUM, that call wouldnt be worth $200...

[jjkrkwood]

you could easily find guys off manhunt that will just let you suck their dick

 

I do, but they usually dont have escort bodies or escort sized cocks, at least not the kind that I PAY for....

[jjkrkwood]

I rarely face that dilemma LOL. I don't go to places that have 300+ rent boys unless it's an all expenses, pre-paid booking. So if they have to wait a week or 2 to see me...all the better. But in NYC where you live, wheeeeeeew. I betcha.

 

 

 

But what if the next client is you???????????????????? Then what?

 

The escort always knows what I am looking for and what I expect upfront. I dont leave anything to chance. If he books a client before me and has to cum for them, then he needs to tell me beforehand and NOT book MY appt until he can provide ME with what I am paying for. Its THAT simple.....

[MiamiLooker]

you could easily find guys off manhunt that will just let you suck their dick

 

Considering the time you've been a poster on this board, I would think you'd have a better understanding of why guys hire...

[+ Shoreboy]

For me who lives in the tri-state area where escorts are a tad higher than other areas of the country....it is essential to me that they cum....if they say beforehand they can't...then I move on to someone else who can and will.

[TruthBTold]

I have the same energy level issue with traveling escorts. Every once in a while a guy comes thru and I always wonder: Do I just book a local guy who probably (to I don't know for sure) only has me that day OR do I take a chance on the travelling escort, who may have booked 3 clients that day and may conserve his energy for his other two "love" interests?

[Steven_Draker]

"Acting" and "faking" wouldn't be a good idea. Cum together or if you can't just say so.

[down_to_business]

If I hired an escort and he didn't cum then I would leave the session disappointed and probably never hire him again.