From cute to "not-so-cute" in just one move

[+ friendofsheila]

Seeing a cute guy walk down the street, i look at him interested. Then I see him do something and....... he's not so cute anymore.

 

For me, it's been:

 

-Littering

-Spitting in the street

-Blowing his nose with one finger

 

Can you think of things like this that turn a stranger from "someone cute" into "someone not-so-cute" for you?

[Rick Munroe]

Spitting in the street

 

I think spitting can be hot but it's wasted on the street.

[Bosguy]

Spitting is HOT in the "heat of the moment" but not lungers on the sidewalk. Another sexy thing that can turn bad is wearing a ballcap. Sexy as hell outside or in the bedroom, but not while dining. Guess I'm a traditionalist pertaining to certain things.

 

Boston Bill

[justaguy]

Picking his nose. Never, ever, ever sexy.

[hornytwells]

Smoking-that smell is the biggest turn off to me......yeah it can look sexy in the movies but the smell makes me feel sick, oddly enough cigars dont bother me so much?

[MsGuy]

With all apologies to PK, a Joisy accent. I know that's petty of me but, Lord Amighty, that just grates on my ear.

[hornytwells]

Thats so funny, I find it very sexy.....but then I am a Scot, so I like all American accents

[jgoo]

No longer cute when I see him ogle a passing hot looking girl. Ruins my fantasy.

[orbital sander]

Seeing a cute guy walk down the street, i look at him interested. Then I see him do something and....... he's not so cute anymore.

 

For me, it's been:

 

-Littering

-Spitting in the street

-Blowing his nose with one finger

 

Can you think of things like this that turn a stranger from "someone cute" into "someone not-so-cute" for you?

 

Awww...whats not to love about "Snot Rockets"???

[+ purplekow]

I live in Jersey but I am not from here originally. Cute to cut for me is accomplished by speaking rudely or unnecessarily loudly.

[+ friendofsheila]

I'll have to add "being drunk or stoned in public" to my list.

[bigvalboy]

For me it is swearing or being disrespectful to someone who is waiting on them. I was talking to a guy at a bar/restuarant not long ago. Very hot, my type and we were clicking, when he turned and belittled another customer standing next to us who was also drinking. Total turn off, and I was so looking forward to the hook up. Or...someone who is drop dead gorgeous until they open there mouth and you realize that they are brain dead. Not a clue as to what is really going on in the world...oh well.

[Samai139]

I agree with many of the turn-offs cited above, but would like to restrict mine to the original scenario---I see a guy on the street who on first impression turns me on, then he does something which turns me OFF---very little inter-action, it's an immediate reaction. For me? It's a look which passes over the guy's face which tells me he knows he is being scoped out, knows I am lookiing at him for THAT reason, and he is not only not interested, he is dismissive---as if saying in that look---

"Get Lost." Hard to describe what it is, but I know it. Anyone else get what I mean?? OBTW--don't think that my look is an obvious lecherous kind of ogling--I'm not that kind of guy:))

[Mark450]

Have to agree with Samai. Someone knowing they are hot is such a turn off. My #1 turn off would have to be lighting a cigarette.

[jjkrkwood]

For me it is swearing or being disrespectful to someone who is waiting on them. I was talking to a guy at a bar/restuarant not long ago. Very hot, my type and we were clicking, when he turned and belittled another customer standing next to us who was also drinking. Total turn off, and I was so looking forward to the hook up. Or...someone who is drop dead gorgeous until they open there mouth and you realize that they are brain dead. Not a clue as to what is really going on in the world...oh well.

 

Oh BVB, they dont have to be Mensa members to stik their big dick in my mouth or sit on my face. I'm a "giving person", even to HUNG morons.... And I guess if we went out to dinner together I couldnt tell my waiter "bring me my meal quick bitch" !!!!! that would probably turn you off, heh ???? and then you wouldnt give me nookie.....

[imrthr]

Diversity, diversity & more diversity.

 

Isn't it wonderful that everyone doesn't like or dislike the same thing or person? If we did, what a dull world this would be.

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[+ friendofsheila]

For me it is swearing or being disrespectful to someone who is waiting on them. I was talking to a guy at a bar/restuarant not long ago. Very hot, my type and we were clicking, when he turned and belittled another customer standing next to us who was also drinking. Total turn off, and I was so looking forward to the hook up. Or...someone who is drop dead gorgeous until they open there mouth and you realize that they are brain dead. Not a clue as to what is really going on in the world...oh well.

 

Similar situation: I remember a man who was probably one of the 3-best-looking men I've ever met in my life. Physique, face, hair: he had them all.

 

Then one day I went driving with him. When some other driver did something dumb, the foulest, most racist remarks would come FLYING out of his mouth.

 

I had a hard time thinking him hot after that.

[bigvalboy]

These things are said I know to stir controversy jj and boil the blood of some posters who do not know you as I do...but I must believe that deep in your heart my darling, even you don't believe that. As I said in another post, "stupid is stupid and you just can't fix that." They can be hung like Gods creation, but a moron is still a moron. Chased a young dancer once, DROP DEAD GORGEOUS, six pack abs, and hung like a horse, for several weeks as he danced his way through the bars in WEHO. After stuffing countless 20's down his pants, I finally asked him to dinner and back to my place for a short weekend. We arrived at the restuarant and I believe I asked him something about what he was passionate about, well that was a mistake, when he began to speak out came a garbled mess of a sentence and thought process that was simply unintelligable, I thought of you immediately, and I gave him your number.

[Poolboy21409]

Chewing GUM....By far for me the ugliest and biggest turn off.

[Phil_musc]

Isn't it strange? As we mature we are bothered by different things. In my earlier years when I was a sea of raging hormones, just about nothing could get me turned off except effeminacy. A hot looking guy who opened his mouth and sounded like he should be carrying a purse just made my interest wilt. But i largely agree with what most guys have written here at this point in my life. I even have to kind of agree with (gasp!!!) JJ - on my lustier days!

[+ friendofsheila]

I just saw a hot older man walking down the street the other day. I also saw him ignore traffic regulations when crossing the street, inconveniencing drivers and acting like he didn't care.

 

Not so hot anymore.

[jjkrkwood]

It sees as this Thread continues that there is some general perception and expectation that people SHOULD BE caring, respectful of others, considerate and Evolved. WRONG ?

Generally you will find people to be self-centered, selfish and DIS-respectful especially when they are in public situations with people they Dont know. Everyone believes they are doing right, and if you ask them, they will tell you they care about others, BUT in reality their actions never reflect that.... Are they clueless ? delusional ? void of any emotion ? Who knows !

My opinion is that they just display basic human nature and are in survival mode. Its a Me, Me, Me kinda thing. They are not bad people, merely trying to get thru their day the best they can. As afra as the aged is concerned, judegement often becomes impaired with age, and patience grows short which could alter atitude and behavior. People often make concessions for OLD people saying, "But they are OLD"..... I guess THAT in itself shows some compassion and a Human side? See, there is Hope !!!!

[+ friendofsheila]

Has someone mentioned littering yet? That one loses points for a guy in my mind, no matter how hot.

[jjkrkwood]

Has someone mentioned littering yet? That one loses points for a guy in my mind, no matter how hot.

 

Does that include throwing your discarded chewing gum on the street?

[gcursor]

People who ask me "How are you?" It's a standard question that they are wanting a "standard" response to.

People who call me "nice". In my findings, this is meant to brand you as a "non-threatening, warm, cuddly thing with no teeth, sexual attractiveness or sexual desire. basically the equivalent of a pretty looking rock..sure u want to pick it up and look at it for 30 seconds but that's about it"

People who can never keep their viewpoints straight. You talk to somebody and they start out saying that they are like xx,yy and then later on they say they've never done yy then later on they say xx is what they've done once...long long ago