...............After The Applause............

[Godiva]

An honest open question to escorts......

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when your looks start to fade.......when you've lost all interest in sex....when your six packs turn into a one pac......when no one hires you because you've become too old.................What do you do... Where do you go....

 

Are some of you on a 5yr plan....saving for something special..Will you walk out on top(or on the bottom ) Will a disease force you out....

 

Is there a Secret Society of former escorts past their glory who meet and swap stories of past exploits..? Do you get married and settle down....Do you Vant to be alone and become a recluse... Have you and your partners planned for your exit....

 

At some point when the applause dies down and you walk off this stage for good...

 

What Happens To You!!

[Guest Dan]

Hey, G!

 

If The Stones, Keith Richard in particular can still be doing their thang at 60, why can't we? As it is, there are a number of us 35 and over and a few choice ones like Stever Roberts of NYC who are in their 40's (and probably a lot more in both age brackets that we don't know about!) So, at what age are you implying that we should "take our final bow?"

 

 

Dan Dare

http://gaydar.co.uk/dandarela

[+ deej]

Right you are, Dan.

 

I know *several* well-reviewed and highly regarded escorts in their 40's, and one in his 50's. Some guys enjoy a "Daddy" fantasy.

 

Age is a matter of mind. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter. :9

[VaHawk]

All excellent points! If you have time to read thru all the reviews on this site, there are lots of older escorts with great reviews. There are plenty of clients (both younger and older) who are only attracted to and thus only hire older escorts. After all, a man can be good looking, hot, sexy and desirable at all ages! I myself, would gladly pay to experience Harrison Ford!

[btmstudnyc]

4 woman will describe what happens to us when and IF, glory fades or we get married or etc...........................................................................etc.............................................................................................etc.................

 

CHER

DIANA ROSS

LIZA MINELLI

BARBARA STREISAND

 

Jim

[Guest jwraustin]

I am one of the "older" escorts here on M4M (44), and have been an escort for about 15 years. So, I'll give you the best answer I can.

 

I havent quite figured out at what age I should "bow out gracefully", but I dont see it in the near future for me. I got into escorting because I thought it would be an interesting way to make some money, meet guys, and work for myself. Over the years, I have developed a passion for my work, and I am enjoying it now more than ever.

 

Sure, I have to work a bit harder to keep in shape, I cant stay out and party all night and still be up to par the next day. It takes me a little longer to get ready for a client, but what the heck, I still look great at show time. I dont have trouble comming to attention when the need arises. I no longer book several clients a day like I used to. Instead, I have focused that energy into giving my clients the very best I have to offer.

 

As I have gotten older, I have found so many men prefer to be with me, for many different reasons. There is quite a demand out there for the older escort. Men have told me a lot that they hired me because they were looking for an "equal."

 

If I dont see as many clients as I used, its not because of my age or looks, but because I have chosen to limit the number of bookings I take.

 

I have invested my money well, and am not driven by money like I used to be.

 

I have encountered just about every situation imaginable with a client. Some I have treasured, some I just want to forget, and some that taught me some valuable life lessons.

 

I have been an "ear" when they needed one, a companion when they were lonely, and a lover when they asked. My time has become a lot more than a quick fuck and I am gone with the money. Many of these men have become good friends to me. Its something that develops over time.

 

Out of all of this, I have developed a great respect for the men who hire me, and I cant really measure what they have given back to me.

 

I have been doing this a long time, and I think I finally got the hang of it. And with the experience, I am told, I am damn good at what I do, and that makes all the difference to a lot of men.

 

Final bow?? I think not....at least not for today.

 

Jon Dean

http://www.manfuck.net

[Guest jeffOH]

My friend Jason Markus and I talk about this all the time. I'm 39 and he's 40. He's busier now than he's ever been. We agree that we'll continue to see some of our more regular clients as long as they want to see us or until we are no longer enjoying ourselves.

 

As part of my "retirement plan", I've gone into business with my personal trainer and opened an aerobics studio/tanning salon. Most of the escorts I know who are around my age seem to be planning for the future.

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Encore

 

I "retired" once from escorting in 1997, or so I believed, and never thought I would return to it, until I was encouraged to do so. As Jon Dean put so remarkably well, and in terms so close to my own experiences these past twelve month, I have enjoyed this more than I expected, on so many levels.

 

The biggest opportunity, for someone who is more introverted and shy than not, has been the exposure to people and opportunities I would not have experienced. I find as my peer group of friends have aged, they have settled and have very routine lives. At times, there are experiences of theirs which I may envy, but I would not miss out on the people, places and memories I have encountered.

 

I would not, for example, be taking two very handsome and funny young men, ages 22 and 24, to an Ida Lupino retrospective, or making a traditional cucina casalinga (home style) Italian dinner for the Italian immigrant parents of a 54 year old client.

 

The time will come to bow out, hopefully with grace, and perhaps to become a consumer rather than a provider of my services. That time has not yet arrived and I do not envision it in the near future.

 

UPDATED - http://www.gaydar.co.ukfrancodisantis

[Will]

Yes indeedy!

 

Something tells me that I'm not the only client here whose tastes run to the following:

 

1. I'd rather be in bed with love handles than six-packs.

2. I prefer men with more body fat than less body fat, and I don't mean obese.

3. I like hair, wherever it grows.

4. I am turned off, not on, by body-builders and muscle studs.

5. Give me life experience, good conversation, and a sense of humor over hipness in any of its boring forms.

6. I like to have sex with men, not with boys.

7. I always hope that escorts who say they're in their mid-to-late thirties are lying.

8. If an escort is still escorting in middle age, it means that he has a LOT more going for him than his ability to stay in shape.

9. I don't care how cute he is, how pretty his face or irresistible his cock, most young men are not interesting in bed. Not to me, anyhow, perhaps because I am far and away from their notion of "hot".

 

And so forth and so on.

[btmstudnyc]

Will, I have only one reply to your 9 (and I dont mean your inches)

 

1. CUM OVER, I'm YOURS.

 

 

JIM

[Will]

But what about 1 through 8?

 

As for cumming on over, believe it or not, I've seriously considered doing just that!

[Spida]

I have not been with many escorts at all.. I am 30, I seem to be more attracted to the older escorts. I think there are many reasons.. Experience, the thought that they will be easier going, not have an attitude.. I don't know.. I am also very attracted to an older guy who it hot.. Even more so than a younger guy that is hot!! Maybe it is a daddy fixation.. Or maybe it is just the thought that we all get better as we get older.. At least that is my hope... So far so true for myself..

[tedbear]

When I was a twink in my 20's, I preferred men in their late 30's and 40's. I still do. The only difference now that I'm in my late 40's is that I've added guys in their 50's to the line-up.

 

I want a guy who looks like a man. I want a guy who's figured out his spot in life. I want a guy who's learned how to make another guy feel good because he's had enough experience to know what he's doing.