More from Reviews that make you want to puke...

[Guest 7Zach]

from that of Scott Addler today,

 

"One more thing I feel I must add is that in addition to his very well worth it fee I offered him assurance he had an A in the course without question. He quickly denied me that and assured me he'd be earning that on his own. I admire him not only for his physical aspects but his moral and ethical personality as well."

[Barry]

RE: Business Ethics 101

 

Well if this guy is legit, I certainly hope he is not teaching Ethics. Contacting Scott through his student ID email was out of line as well.

[Guest 7Zach]

RE: Business Ethics 101

 

well, i don't know what, but I obviously found something troublesome about this, but don't know exactly what. Maybe just too early in the a.m., but I guess I just find it inappropriate that a prof would hire one of his students, particularly a freshman.

And yet it's not equivalent to his trying to date the guy...

[duke37]

RE: Business Ethics 101

 

This review might have gotten by me, after all the professor could have just as easily been hiring the guy to mow his lawn. But the reviewers smirky recounting of the tale, and his oh-so-arch reassurance that it wouldn't affect his grade, gave me the creeps.

 

Frankly, I hope this review was made up.

 

Jeff

[Paul Revere]

RE: Business Ethics 101

 

I was also troubled by this review.

 

If the escort is an escort, and the professor hires, then I suppose if they are both adults, they are free to make a business arrangement. And yet, it seems somehow very inappropriate to be having sex with one of your students. Its a dangerous place to go for many reasons.

 

What was most troubling was the prefessor's promise of an A grade to the student, because the escort experience was so good. Maye he was joking, but that didn't really come across that way. Promising a grade for sex crosses the line, even if it was a busines arrangement. What if the escort experience had been bad, and they didn't click? Could the proessor threaten the escort with a C or D grade? This is wrong.

 

The escort showed true class by insisting that he would earn his grade in the class based on his academic work. Good for him.

 

The professor needs to re-think what he was doing here. It might be better if he waited until after the semester was over to engage this escort. You would think that someone who is teaching at a "prestigious" college would have learned better ethics over the years. Unfortunately in today's review, the professor comes across as a desparate predator.

[Guest Bitchboy]

RE: Business Ethics 101

 

Perhaps we're affected by the obviousness of this guy's assholism. What an obnoxious self-congratulating jerk. At least the escort has the excuse of being young. If this is a true review, I hope this bastian of higher learning gets his comeuppance soon. He's bound to fall eventually; these kind of clueless cretins usually have no idea they're walking on a ledge.:-)

[Scorpio]

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Maybe it's just me but I think Scott may be taking creative writing courses in college. I don't usually jump on the band wagon that "first-time" reviewers are bogus but that's my bet in this instance. Here are a few observations:

 

1. If the "professor" is pompous enough to refer to working at a "reknowned" university, one would think that he would know that renowned isn't spelled with a "k".

 

2. Clients in reviews (both first-timers) #7 and #3 state that they "eMailed" Scott, which struck me as quite an unusual way to type the word.

 

3. Review number #6 (also a first-timer) has Scott being randomly picked-up by a client on a cruise ship. If this and the professor are true, this young man certainly has some very interesting client stories to tell.

 

I just scanned Scott's reviews but most of them strike me as being slightly over-top in their descriptions, especially the ones written by first-timers. Then again I've be known to write a few reviews with maybe more adjectives than necessary, so maybe the professor exists and he is a jerk. But I don't think so.

[+ Lucky]

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>this young man certainly has some very interesting client stories to >tell.

And we get a lot of fun out of reading them, phony review or not?

:-) :9

[Guest Dan]

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>>this young man certainly has some very interesting client stories to >tell.

>And we get a lot of fun out of reading them, phony review or

>not?

>:-) :9

 

maybe it's true and the prof made it an extra credit assignment for scott to write his review for him!

 

Dan Dare

http://gaydar.co.uk/dandarela

[Guest JH]

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Scorpio you took the words right out of my mouth. I guess Mr Addler is taking creative writing class too!!

[Guest 7Zach]

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Scorp, I agree with you...the cruise review did not make sense, unless you believe the kid both volunteered he was an escort and taking a vacation. Maybe yes, maybe no, but that and the one today are both a little over the top.

My ignorance is enough to make me puke now. tks.

[Paul Revere]

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Me too.

 

I didn't read the rest of Scott Adler's reviews. But now that the inconsistencies have been pointed out by those with more pateince and powers of observation that I have exhibited, I now think that the review falls into the fake category.

 

Maybe Mr. Adler is working out his fantasies with fake reviews of himself.

 

I rescind my outrage at the, now obvoiously fake, professor.

[N.N.]

RE: More from Reviews that make ...

 

If the story is true, the professor was risking exposing the

college to a scandal and possibly a lawsuit. He was also

risking losing his job and ending his teaching career in

disgrace. A professor having sex with a student while he/she

is in the prof's class is generally considered to be improper,

and a college often wouldn't hesitate to fire a professor

in a case like this.

[SAdler]

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WELL --

 

CRACKING MY KNUCKLES.....

 

This is going to be one hell of a creative writing assignment for me apparently. First off.....for those of you involved in any past postings about me in the negative or those of you in this one I have one thing to say.....

 

YOU NEED HELP!!!!! You REALLY need help. Go outside, go to a club, a bear meeting, hell jump on a treadmill but get your ass away from the computer and find something better to do than trash someone without the ability to defend themselves. The only time I ever find out that I'm being trashed on a board is when my clients that know me better and care about me give me a heads up! Oy. The review isn't posted but for 16 hours and already theres a long thread about it.

 

OK -- Now that I'm done with that. Luckily I had my midterm today, in an unrelated class, so I have no homework tonight. As for my accusations, I don't know when I would have TIME to write such involved stories with adjectives and themes and denouvement when I'm writing twelve page papers every night. THATS NOT THE ISSUE. I HATE HAVING MY INTEGRITY CALLED INTO QUESTION.

 

If ANY of you people actually knew me or had spoken to me in advance you would know that I'm the FARTHEST thing from a self promoter even when other people are doing it for me. According to a previous thread I think that begins with my family geneology to Grace Adler, it ends with a would be client promoting me (in his own way) but my issue was that he had never even met me in person. I had a problem with that because it wasn't honest. Of all things in the world I am an honest person and the fact that anyone could doubt that or even think they have two words to say on the subject without having met me both shocks and disgusts me. (While I'm not taking creative writing you're right, I am an excellent writer -- oops, did I just self promote?) :7

 

Now it is time to address the concerns -- which I really don't give a fuck about I just feel the need to address them -- of the council of all important assholes defiling me. Ooh, did I just hear a cat growl? I'm getting catty, please somebody restrain me.

 

Let's start with Scorpio because I LOVE lists

 

1. Nobody ever said anything about teachers being perfect. People sometimes just type and proofread later. The word renowned is one of those weird words. Did it also occur to you by some twist of fate that the nk is less than half an inch from the n? Hmmmm -- the word typo comes to mind but that's just my guess. Nobody ever said anything about what department the teacher was in. Class dismissed.

 

2. Word has a great deal of plugins as do other writing programs. I have noticed many incoming letters to me and from me are autoformatted. You'll also notice in many computer magazines it has just become a trendy method of typing the word. But I'm sure I'll just get more shit for writing that so I'll await it expectantly.

 

3. Honey, if discretion wasn't key for me I would have tales to tell you that would knock the diapers off your ass. I live a high life and I live it on the edge. Escorts have a personality. You're familiar with gay-dar? Think of it as escort-dar. I can spot a fellow business man across the Abbey or Rage in a second. A seasoned cient can easily do the same.

 

Lucky -- Neither good nor bad, your soul has been spared.

 

Dan -- Cute. I like humor eMail me some time and I'll give you a discount. Heh heh. Don't you LOVE sarcasm?

 

JH -- If you're going to be pathetic and respond to this thread, at least be original and while you're at it spell my name right.

 

7Zach -- You too need original thoughts. I've addressed the concept of edar. As for the over the top...maybe they just really enjoyed their time with me. Did that occur? Hmmmm....there's a thought. I mean, as I recall my first reviewer had far more than simply the 5 very popular escorts he reviewed under his belt and he described me as "king of the cocksuckers." I hate to self promote again but maybe I'm good enough for people to take time and write about it.

 

Paul -- How sad. Until I realized you had jumped on the bandwagon I was gonna write something semi nice for you but in reponse to both. ME TOO? Jesus people come up with your own commentary if you're going to gossip. As for the ethics theme of this piece. After the meeting I had SPECIFICALLY asked my professor not to write a review of this for his safety and mine. And especially after his comment about the A I told him I thoguht it best we wait until ext quarter to meet again. And in response to a possible grading down...in college the professor does have the last say in a grade so its QUITE easy for him to boost it up but realistically your TA grades all of your work and does the grades. A professor just lectures and if there is a discrpepency of a TA grade in the eyes of a student THEN he changed the grade higher usually. If he were to take the A I will be getting and mark it down THAT will raise eyebrows at the university.

 

And to any other comments I really have no desire to answer personally, he's really a nice guy and shame on all of you for the word predator. I did it all on my own free will and I will sum all this up with my thesis.

 

GET LIVES. FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO THEN TALK ABOUT ME DAMNIT! I hope I haven't offended anyone (that didn't deerve it) too much and I truly hope that people will want to get to knwo me and understand that I'm really a wonderful person that enjoys what he does and hates being talked about when I can;t defend myself. So please stop forwarding a societal stereotype of gossipy queens and be real men and if you wanna call me a lying sack of shit, at least do it to my private eMail [email protected]

 

THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

 

Scott Adler

[bluenix]

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>WELL --

>CRACKING MY KNUCKLES.....

>

>THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

 

Thank God. An escort dishing it back. Well done.

 

The only thing I can't quite reconcile: a prof of many years experience, one supposes, being both a predator AND an idiot.

 

Please tell me that's rare.

[Guest 7Zach]

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great reply, Scott. you made good points. thnk i will take up bear wrestling, but only with black bears...grizzlies are too tough. btw, i once heard a lecture by the guy who first demonstrated that the temperature of black bears decreased during hibernation. he was bandaged on his arm, huge wound still healing on the side of his face. in any event, he explained that the only way one can determine the termperature of a bear is with a rectal thermometer. so he put berries down in front of the bear, which was hibernating, and then strung them out about 10 feet in front. he then woke the bear up, the bear saw the berries, and started eating them, and finally stood up to walk up the line. at that, he stuck the thermometer up the bear's butt. and that explained the arm and the face gash.

 

incidentally, bears don't just sleep through the whole winter, but actually get up some from their sleeping; i hadn't known that either.

 

that said, i stand by the initial remark that the review is troubling at best...you're both consenting adults, but i think the prof is an idiot for doing it, based on reasons you raised, and again, in the post immediately above. different issues of power, but when all said and done, i think you have the most power cuz of the damage you could do to the prof. let me know in 10 years if any damage done to you. best.

[Chuck50]

RE: Reviews that make you want to puke...

 

BRAVO SCOTT A Hugs Chuck

[+ deej]

NOTE

 

[h3]

I deleted a post from this thread because it broke the rules by betraying a personal confidence and including personally identifiable information. It is unfortunate that the unmoderated poster does not take his position in the community seriously.

 

Strike one.

 

Take a cold shower, boys, or we'll lock the thread.

[/h3]

[SAdler]

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>If the story is true, the professor was risking exposing the

>college to a scandal and possibly a lawsuit. He was also

>risking losing his job and ending his teaching career in

>disgrace. A professor having sex with a student while

>he/she

>is in the prof's class is generally considered to be

>improper,

>and a college often wouldn't hesitate to fire a professor

>in a case like this.

 

The professor is probably and idiot for what he's done but as I've said, I set rules with him and that issues has been cleared up. There's really no lawsuit possibilty there. Nothing has happened that has legal premise. But anyway

 

;-)

 

The bear anecdote was interesting. Thanks. BTW -- I'm sleeping with my manager at my retail "day job." I said I was honest, never said anything about ethical. However, much like this situation, I'm getting nothing out of it but good head Thanks again to everyone....ESPECIALLY Deej

[+ deej]

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>Thanks again to everyone....ESPECIALLY Deej

 

The cold shower recommendation applies equally to you babe.

 

Please only post messages once. See the message center rules (linked above) for information about how the queue works.

 

Thanks!

[Guest]

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>Go outside, go to

>a club, a bear meeting, hell jump on a treadmill but get

>your ass away from the computer and find something better to

>do than trash someone without the ability to defend

>themselves.

 

What a drama queen! Apparently, you do have the ability to defend yourself (why wouldn't you?). And, college boy, it's "without the ability to defend himself." Are you sure you're writing twelve page papers every night?

 

> As for my accusations, I don't know when I would have TIME

>to write such involved stories with adjectives and themes

>and denouvement when I'm writing twelve page papers every

>night. THATS NOT THE ISSUE. I HATE HAVING MY INTEGRITY

>CALLED INTO QUESTION.

 

My dear, everyone hates to have his integrity called into question. Nevertheless you're in a field of business not known for its angelicaly honest members. Also, the entire situation described was highly unethical, if it really occurred. I can't imagine that there's a university or college in this country which allows professors to have sexual relations with their students (certainly not UCLA or Caltech, if that's the "renown university," and I don't know of any other "renown universities" in the LA area). If a professor really did contact you while you were in his class, you should have simply deferred meeting with him until the end of the term (at the very least--or politely refused).

 

>If ANY of you people actually knew me or had spoken to me in

>advance you would know that I'm the FARTHEST thing from a

>self promoter even when other people are doing it for me.

 

Part of being in business as an escort is self-promotion. My own opinion, for what it's worth, is that you probably do write some of your own reviews. If you want to refute the observations made by some of the other posters, go ahead. But we all have the right to our own opinions.

[SAdler]

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>What a drama queen! Apparently, you do have the ability to

>defend yourself (why wouldn't you?). And, college boy, it's

>"without the ability to defend himself." Are you

>sure you're writing twelve page papers every night?

 

Apparently someone didn't read my message. I wasn't simply referring to myself in this situation. The whole idea of these posting boards is to attack people behind their backs whether they be male, female, or multiple people. In today's day and age we use politically correct terms, therefore themselves applies.

 

FURTHERMORE -- Why did you find it necessary to respond yet again and further this problem. You had every option to eMail me privately but you played the snickety old fag that needed to find something to do so they bitched.

 

>My dear, everyone hates to have his integrity called into

>question. Nevertheless you're in a field of business not

>known for its angelicaly honest members. Also, the entire

>situation described was highly unethical, if it really

>occurred. I can't imagine that there's a university or

>college in this country which allows professors to have

>sexual relations with their students (certainly not UCLA or

>Caltech, if that's the "renown university," and I don't know

>of any other "renown universities" in the LA area). If a

>professor really did contact you while you were in his

>class, you should have simply deferred meeting with him

>until the end of the term (at the very least--or politely

>refused).

 

And you are obviously a member of a coalition that perpetuates my business so you're no angel either so please Mr. Teapot, stop calling the kettle black. The purpose of this site is so nobody be judged UNLESS they've experienced the person.

 

I am quite unethical. I never claimed not to be. I believe I mentioned that at the end of my novel. I also never claimed that my school encouraged or allowed a relationship with a professor. However, I don't see where you get off telling me what I should have done. My life is mine and mine only. I can make my own choices as a grown up. You aren't my daddy and I'm not into the whole scene anyway. I wanted that experience because I saw it as fun.

 

>Part of being in business as an escort is

>self-promotion. My own opinion, for what it's worth, is

>that you probably do write some of your own reviews. If you

>want to refute the observations made by some of the other

>posters, go ahead. But we all have the right to our own

>opinions.

 

Your opinion is worth nothing. That was a little blunt of me sorry. But realistically it's true. I believe it's the ninth amendment that states that everyone is guaranteed their rights until they impose on the rights of somebody else's. The same principle is here. It's one thing to accuse me or have thoughts...if there is really obviously a reason but bitterness and idiocy is really not legit.

 

OK -- I guess I'm done for now. And I hate cold showers Deej, I prefer them to be hot and steamy.

[duke37]

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You had every option to

>eMail me privately but you played the snickety old fag that

>needed to find something to do so they bitched.

 

I think Scorpio in post#6 in his second point noted that "eMail" is an unusual style of spelling. So far the only two people I have seen use it that way is the reviewer and Scott. While not at all conclusive, it lends credence to the idea that the review is a fake.

 

I hope the review IS a fake. I have a very high opinion of college professors and would hate to be disillusioned. Heck I'm just getting over that stunning "Santa Claus" revelation. :-)

 

Jeff

[Guest]

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>>What a drama queen! Apparently, you do have the ability to

>>defend yourself (why wouldn't you?). And, college boy, it's

>>"without the ability to defend himself." Are you

>>sure you're writing twelve page papers every night?

>

>Apparently someone didn't read my message. I wasn't simply

>referring to myself in this situation. The whole idea of

>these posting boards is to attack people behind their backs

>whether they be male, female, or multiple people. In

>today's day and age we use politically correct terms,

>therefore themselves applies.

 

If you want to be politicaly correct, you can write "...than attacking people who can't defend themselves." If you write "...than attacking someone..." then you have to finish with "who can't defend himself." Ask your English professor.

 

>FURTHERMORE -- Why did you find it necessary to respond yet

>again and further this problem. You had every option to

>eMail me privately but you played the snickety old fag that

>needed to find something to do so they bitched.

 

I was mainly opposed to the way in which you defended yourself. The phrase "he doth protest too much" comes to mind.

 

>And you are obviously a member of a coalition that

>perpetuates my business so you're no angel either so please

>Mr. Teapot, stop calling the kettle black. The purpose of

>this site is so nobody be judged UNLESS they've experienced

>the person.

>

>I am quite unethical. I never claimed not to be.

 

I don't have any ethical objections to someone either being or hiring an escort. What I find unethical is either (1) having sex with one's college professor or one's student, or (2) writing one's own reviews. I don't think "an honest escort" is an oxymoron. I think there are a lot of honest escorts out there. You, however, are among those who aren't.