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[gcursor]

In general, do guys feel more stimulated and "excited" when they go after people that might be deemed "unattainable" in one way, shape or form (i.e. straight, whatever) (I believe that some guys will admit to the secret thrill they get in doing that)

 

So then how do they react when going after somebody who is "attainable" (maybe somebody at the bar who is lonely and unattached)? Is it less thrilling to pursue that person?

 

How does an "attainable" guy turn themselves into an "unattainable" to raise the excitement/thrill level for the pursuer?

Gcursor

[+ purplekow]

Just say No.

[+ Tygerscent]

I am most turned on by guys that have a certain scent... most recently Polish guys are fucking driving me wild~ Making me so fucking boned up crazy sexy wild hungry in Love with Polish guys I want one like a boyfriend... We could eat Kielbasa together~ I want to live here in poland~ but... whatever...you r not asking that.

Attainability has very little to do with my attraction to either male or female sexual partner... It has more to do with their scent and the size or their pupils and facial expressions... how we connect on various levels.

I've had lots of straight unattainable men/women... on various levels of unattainability: socially, sexually, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually... ethnically... in what sense do you mean???

You mention as part of your question "lonely or unattached"... do you mean socially withdrawn/ self absorbed? Intimately ambiguous or handicapped/ Socially deviant?

I find sociopathic and criminally deviant minds, people with no conscience or compassion unattractive... is that what you mean?

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In general, do guys feel more stimulated and "excited" when they go after people that might be deemed "unattainable" in one way, shape or form (i.e. straight, whatever) (I believe that some guys will admit to the secret thrill they get in doing that)

 

So then how do they react when going after somebody who is "attainable" (maybe somebody at the bar who is lonely and unattached)? Is it less thrilling to pursue that person?

 

How does an "attainable" guy turn themselves into an "unattainable" to raise the excitement/thrill level for the pursuer?

Gcursor

[+ honcho]

I feel self-conscious and intimitdated interacting with ``unattainable'' guys ... sometimes difficult to do the theatrical trick of suspending disbelief ...

[gcursor]

thanks

 

Um..no Tyger..that's not quite where I was going. you've answered the question adequately in the first part of your response.

thanks,

Gcursor

 

I find sociopathic and criminally deviant minds, people with no conscience or compassion unattractive... is that what you mean?

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[justaguy]

Short answer: No, I don't go after guys who are unavailable. Life is too short to waste time on that effort.

 

Long answer: I think what you might really be asking is what makes a man attractive, or sexy. For me the answer is an easy and natural self-confidence . Some of the sexiest men I've ever met have been anything but the eye candy I post in the gallery. However, the way they carried themselves was everything. In a lot of ways the cliche is true: you're sexy if you believe you are.

[NYTomcat]

Short answer: No, I don't go after guys who are unavailable. Life is too short to waste time on that effort.

 

Long answer: I think what you might really be asking is what makes a man attractive, or sexy. For me the answer is an easy and natural self-confidence . Some of the sexiest men I've ever met have been anything but the eye candy I post in the gallery. However, the way they carried themselves was everything. In a lot of ways the cliche is true: you're sexy if you believe you are.

 

I honestly agree with just a guy 100% I've taken too many years defining men as my league out of my league or beneath me. Its no way to judge people. Some of the best sex and best times have been with people I would not classify as the unattainable or even attractive by standard criterion.

 

I also hate the way gay men will chat up a guy while constantly shopping for some better eye candy to dump him for. Sorry. I've learned I have far better sex with someone I find stimulating for more than just appearance. Hell I've found it in myself too. I'm far from the classically attractive but I have my benefits and know that no one is unattainable.... and if they think they are. ... their unwantable anyway. I'd rather have the guy with a great sense of humor a sexy dirty mind and the willingness to try new things. Give me an adventurer who isn't afraid of life and ill show you a truly sexy man

[Diverdan]

I never seek out someone who is "unattainable", although over the years some who thought they were God's gift to the world were anything but that. I believe that Tomcat has the best approach to these situations. I once had an encounter with someone who everyone said was unreachable and untouchable. It turned out that he used that persona because he was afraid of rejection, and was actually very shy and not at all confident about himself. Somehow, we managed to strike up a friendship and became "friends with benefits". I learned never to judge on first impressions and to try and look behind the public persona. True there are some guys for whom there are not enough negative words to describe them, but many of the guys who want to appear unatainable are desperate to have friends. You may be surprised if you ignore some of the posturing and negative vibes and get to know them as individuals.

[RexAll]

I also hate the way gay men will chat up a guy while constantly shopping for some better eye candy to dump him for

 

 

I have a question about this. So this is supposedly- or at least stereotypically- how gay men act. At least that's what all the movies and TV shows usually depict. But don't straight males do this too with women? It's what you see all the time on TV shows and movies-- at least those depicting adolescent and young adult straight males. So is this a true depiction of either straights or us? Could it be more of a product of the type of person who goes to bars to find hook-ups rather than being particular to either straights or gays? Would we imagine the same thing happening as frequently in either a straight or gay male who was at a church mixer to meet people?

 

Rex