Just found out real name of escort

[cany10011]

...while cruising my facebook i just realized i am 1 degree of separation between me and an escort i've just been seeing...i know his full name now. It's funny how things can be revealed through facebook whether it's intentional or not. I think i'm just going to not pry and leave things as they are. It's better that way.

[Michael Wayne]

that is why I use my real name these days. people can find out if they want to. I run an honest business and am real nice to my clients so why should I lie about my name. That just speaks of slezziness. Also, from my point of view as an escort, I really think more highly of the clients who give me their real name. It shows they have read my reviews and know that I am trustworth and very discreet. Lastly, if they fly you in they have to know your real name so why hide it- unless you have something to hide. When I started in this business our profession was frowned on but now it seems we are celebrated as some kind of star. It is kind of fun being a pseudo-celebrity. I know many escorts are still ashamed of what they do but I am actually very proud of it. How in the hell else would a poor boy from the country meet and get to know hundred of ceos, doctors, lawyers, etc????

[josephga]

theres a few people i recognize even from this site on facebook. one even has their face cropped in their escort ads, but uncropped pics on facebook. I never mention this board, their ads or say anything to them about knowing they are the same person or persons i treat it as 2 separate identities.

[snake28]

I've had several escorts tell me their real name after we meet, and I always appreciate that. One even invited me to be a friend on Facebook. It's interesting to read his posts, and I'm glad that he wants me to know what's going on in his life.

[instudiocity]

My experience is if you're honest and open with an escort, they treat you like a real person - eventually telling you their names and things about their lives. I've socialized with my favorites and when it comes time to play, I go through the business setup, even if I have their personal contact info. Business is business and friendship is friendship. The two men I've done this with have told me they respected the boundaries, too.

 

And every now and again, never more once a year, I get to play with my friends for free...

[Traveler North]

I have known the real name of two escorts I see regularly for a`long time. And a new escort I started seeing this year has responded to one of my e-mails on a cell with his real name. However, I would never mention it to him unless he wants me to use his real name when we meet.

[Damascene]

I've known most my regular escorts real names. But escorts want some anonymity, don't use the same pictures on facebook and escort on. By the way, Rick and Derrick, nice kitty.

[Guest greatness]

Aww that's so sweet.. You are a nice guy too.. Kisses and hugs~~

 

I've had several escorts tell me their real name after we meet, and I always appreciate that. One even invited me to be a friend on Facebook. It's interesting to read his posts, and I'm glad that he wants me to know what's going on in his life.

[Guest greatness]

No checks?

 

You guys pay all in cash? No checks??? I know all of my escorts real name because of that.. ..?

[Rapaz]

You guys pay all in cash? No checks??? I know all of my escorts real name because of that.. ..?

I don't think i've even seen a check since 1996

[Steven_Draker]

I have given my real name in the past on a few occasions, until I was burned. A few years ago I've got a stalker who learned my real name and kept calling me in my hotel room in each city I was visiting. It got pretty annoying to the point that I had to alert the front desk and stop giving my hotel details freely out. Eventually things calmed down and the stalker disappeared. I learned the hard way to be more careful (almost paranoid, I realize) about giving my personal information. Following that incident I noticed that it's harder to give my trust. Unfortunately, those people known for their 'big mouths' and 'pillow talk' won't ever regain it back. "Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection."

[josephga]

You guys pay all in cash? No checks??? I know all of my escorts real name because of that.. ..?

 

allot of my massage clients paid me in checks too

[josephga]

I have given my real name in the past on a few occasions, until I was burned. A few years ago I've got a stalker who learned my real name and kept calling me in my hotel room in each city I was visiting. It got pretty annoying to the point that I had to alert the front desk and stop giving my hotel details freely out. Eventually things calmed down and the stalker disappeared. I learned the hard way to be more careful (almost paranoid, I realize) about giving my personal information. Following that incident I noticed that it's harder to give my trust. Unfortunately, those people known for their 'big mouths' and 'pillow talk' won't ever regain it back. "Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if it's broken, but you can still see the crack in that mother fucker's reflection."[/color]

 

 

that happened to me with putting my real name on my massage business. A guy came to me 3 to 4 times. i think nothing of it until i get a call from my mother. this guy was a lawyer. my brother sold his house and the lady's closing attorney was this lawyer. He noticed the resemblance the last name and didn't mind telling my brother he was a client as well as got jerked off on my table a few time.. I would never consider doing it again unless i used a fake name and a separate phone that's only used for that service.

[Guest Spanky]

I have given my real name in the past on a few occasions, until I was burned. A few years ago I've got a stalker who learned my real name and kept calling me in my hotel room in each city I was visiting. It got pretty annoying to the point that I had to alert the front desk and stop giving my hotel details freely out. Eventually things calmed down and the stalker disappeared.

 

Or maybe he just improved his stalking technique. Any stalker worth his salt knows that his subject should never realize he's being stalked. Take it from me. I've stalked a lot of people so I know how to do it right.

[Okliehomo]

What's the big deal?

 

I know the real names of almost all the guys that I have hired over the last 9 years. Had to buy plane tickets... I think only Trent Fosters, Cole Davis,Tom Isern and Draker made their own travel arrangements....and I was totally cool with that.... oh, and Jay Anthony... my best awful... he was super secretive... I think I had to send him a blank money order.... to his home address.... and when it didn't get there, I had to use a tracking number to that address and there it was... his much guarded secret.... never told him the flaw in his plan....

 

These days, I get birthdays, too. So, that whole age thing becomes a moot point....

 

Not that real names or real ages matter a damn to me. Kind of hard to stalk someone from Oklahoma.

 

Okie

[instudiocity]

You guys pay all in cash? No checks??? I know all of my escorts real name because of that.. ..?

 

I always pay in cash. It's untraceable.

[adriano46]

I don't think i've even seen a check since 1996

 

Me too!!!! I manage to live without a checkbook; prefer cash over credit card.

[adriano46]

Kind of hard to stalk someone from Oklahoma. Okie

 

That is priceless and very funny! I too learned names when sending air tickets or booking other reservations; many of the guys I met over the years for more than a one-night stand offered the name. That said, I make a point of never doing a "search" (Google, Facebook or otherwise) on them, respecting their private life (and expecting the same from them).

[bobchitown]

I know the names of probably half the guys I see. One signed his real name to an email by mistake, another had the name by his buzzer, one time the doorman had to call up, etc. Ironically, one Guy I was closest to and trusted. Completely (now retired) was intensely private and I only know his stage name. That's cool. At least one escort does or could know all about me since I accidently responded to a message from the wrong linked email account. We had a good laugh about it. Such is life.

[Guest alanm]

In my experience, even very well-known escorts have given me their real names, home addresses and home phone numbers after the first successful overnight. Maybe they have good radar & know how to judge whether a person is a threat, or not. I should start acting a little crazy and unpredictable, guess I am a boring client. LOL

[AdamATL77]

...while cruising my facebook i just realized i am 1 degree of separation between me and an escort i've just been seeing...i know his full name now. It's funny how things can be revealed through facebook whether it's intentional or not. I think i'm just going to not pry and leave things as they are. It's better that way.

 

It is probably left as it is. An escort will tell you his real name when the time comes. There is also the possibility of stolen pictures and you are actually looking at someone else's facebook page.

 

Personally, I never use my real name on the internet until it is for a transaction that I have to list it. I'm much happier being known as Adam and I'm sure my clients are too. Hear are some questions anyone who wants to know an escort's real name should ask themselves: why does it matter, would you like an escort prying into your life to find out your real identity, do you really want to risk pissing off someone who knows you intimately, what would be your reaction if someone you didn't recognize approached you by name as if he has known you?

 

Finding the real identity of an escort or client before he gives it does risk making you look like a stalker in his eyes - even if it's his fault for leaving his name where it wasn't suppose to be.

[cany10011]

Just coincidental and nothing else...

 

It was never intentional. I just saw that he was invited to a party of a mutual friend last weekend and the pics from the party was posted with him and his "real name". We may or may not run into each other socially but most likely will... as this mutual friend is one I share a place in fire island with.

 

I guess I'll cross that bridge when the time comes. It's not a big deal whether I know his real name or not. It's more important that he's a reliable professional who keeps his appointments and returns calls in a timely manner. It was just surreal seeing him out of context when I just had an appointment the night prior. In fact, I ran into him at a bar last week but didn't say hi to him because it might have been awkward. I decided that I wouldn't proactively go up to say hi to him but if he came up to say hello that I'd be ok with that. I respect him and didn't want to blow his cover especially with his and my friends there... "oh, how do you know each other?? wink wink, nudge, nudge..."

 

It is probably left as it is. An escort will tell you his real name when the time comes. There is also the possibility of stolen pictures and you are actually looking at someone else's facebook page.

 

Personally, I never use my real name on the internet until it is for a transaction that I have to list it. I'm much happier being known as Adam and I'm sure my clients are too. Hear are some questions anyone who wants to know an escort's real name should ask themselves: why does it matter, would you like an escort prying into your life to find out your real identity, do you really want to risk pissing off someone who knows you intimately, what would be your reaction if someone you didn't recognize approached you by name as if he has known you?

 

Finding the real identity of an escort or client before he gives it does risk making you look like a stalker in his eyes - even if it's his fault for leaving his name where it wasn't suppose to be.

[Epigonos]

I use my real name with ALL the escorts I hire. I have always believed that if I was unprepared to have what I was doing in private made public I had damn well better not be doing it. Would I want my hiring activities know to my family and friends -- NO but I am prepared to deal with the situation should it happen.

All of the escorts I see on a regular or semi-regular basis have seen fit to give me their real names. Some of these names I have needed to know because of travel arrangements others were simply provided because I am so open about my own personal information. The one escort I know who was most cautious about give me his real name finally did so. Interestingly I still find in easier to use his professional name because that is how I have know him for so long. We laugh about this all the time.

[EZEtoGRU]

I never hide my own identity as a client. However, I can understand why many escorts would want to use a different name.....at least until they get to know you better and trust you. I met an extremely hot Bulgarian rentboy in Madrid this year. He uses an alias for his escort activities. Had recently been burned by a stalker client from Italy who, frankly, was terrorizing him. He finally went to the police and hired a lawyer. The client actually threatened to kill him......kind of the "if I can't have you no-one can" mentality.

 

The escort is "gay-for-pay" and smokin' hot. However, he is clear from the outset that this is a professional arrangement only and that no long term love affair will ever come from these encounters. The italian just could not accept it. Unfortunately, the Bulgarian had shared lots of intimate information about his life with the Italian, and the italian guy used this information in very ugly ways against the escort. In May, the Bulgarian escort and I were in Black & White bar together in Madrid and the Italian guy appears and was making a huge scene. Security had to get involved. The Bulgarian is now much more cautious.

 

Moral of the story. Escorts are correct to be cautious.

[wayout]

It really doesn't add anything to know each others real name no matter how long or number of times we have met. If I need to have their real name for travel arrangements then that is something necessary but I never refer to him by his real name unless he would asks me to. We can enjoy each others company no matter what we call each other and I don't feel any loss of intimacy not knowing his real name. I certainly understand and respect the need for privacy and discretion so its not big deal to me.