Visiting Escort Dilemma- Higher Rate does not equal Better Service...

[cany10011]

I see 2 guys on a weekly basis; however, whenever a new visitor comes to down that is extremely hot, i'm always curious to meet the new guy, often at a rate that is higher than the regular guys. My regret is always that the encounter is never as hot or as pleasureable as I expect it to be. I always communicate my likes and dislikes but when it comes to the actual encounter, it seems that the escort is either tired or just reacting/accomodating and not really "there". Could it be that the escort is overbooked and moving from one appointment to the next? I would expect that at the higher rates (i.e.,350) that they would be fresh, clean, and ready for the appointment.

 

I know as guys, we always like "fresh meat" but I sometimes feel there's more satisfaction with tried and true regulars who already know your likes and dislikes with whom you've already achieved a high level of intimacy. Wonder if anyone else has this same feeling?

[jimboivyo]

Live and learn. I see only a few guys, who I travel with almost on a near-constant basis. I know them, they know me, we're comfortable. Why would I want to ruin that and start at square one by seeing someone brand new?

 

Find your regulars. Stick with what makes you happy. Focus.

[Diverdan]

And I thought "variety was the spice of life"... ? The irony of this situation is that sometimes the new guy becomes a regular, but it is sort of like eating vegetables. you may not like one of them until you try it, and not all of them will be to your liking... but every once in awhile... it might even become your favorite... good luck sampling.. just know that they will all not be winners....

[JoeyBryant]

Live and learn. I see only a few guys, who I travel with almost on a near-constant basis. I know them, they know me, we're comfortable. Why would I want to ruin that and start at square one by seeing someone brand new?

 

Find your regulars. Stick with what makes you happy. Focus.

 

That was a bit patronizing...if the guy wants to meet a new escort, then I believe he has every free will to do so. New doesn't equate to disaster. Besides, if clients never seen anyone new...then alot of us traveling escorts would be in trouble. But of course, such a thing is non-existant and the unknown is always more exciting. But in the same sense, I know it can be more comfortable to meet with someone regularly.

 

Another thought, I had someone tell me before: "I usually go to the same Barber for about 2 years...and then I look for a new one as they began getting lax once they know they've got your business. A new barber is going to work hard to keep your business...." And looking back, I think he had a point...

[Michael Wayne]

As an escort in New Orleans I see this all the time. The traveling guys come in always at least 100 dollars higher than me but my clients always end up telling me that they were a waste of time and money. One in particular won't even send out (much less post) a face pic. I wonder why? Here is a hint to all the clients out there" If an escort will not show his face clearly and recently yet asks for more than the the cute guys who do show their face ask for: why would you hire the new guy? I am all for traveling yet I believe the rates these guys ask for are too high for the low level service they provide. I could sit here and write 200 stories of horrifying disappoinments my clients have had with traveling escorts. When I travel I find out what the top 3 guys in a market charge and try to come in a little less than them and deliver a great product. Mikey @ http://www.rentboy.com/mikey9nola1

[JoeyBryant]

When I travel I find out what the top 3 guys in a market charge and try to come in a little less than them and deliver a great product.

 

Are you selling boxes of cereal? LOL...totally kidding, sounds like a good idea.

 

However, back to rates...I don't feel traveling guys charging more is a bad thing. Leaving overhead aside, there's just more to traveling than sitting home (duh). But of course, having more than just 1 hour booking may compensate for that.

 

Although I cant speak for anyone else, lets not make it seem as if all traveling guys are like hotel star levels...the more you pay the less you get. The results of one may be different than the other.

[Steven_Draker]

travelling escort: let's not put them all in one box ;-)

 

... when it comes to the actual encounter, it seems that the escort is either tired or just reacting/accomodating and not really "there". Could it be that the escort is overbooked and moving from one appointment to the next? I would expect that at the higher rates (i.e.,350) that they would be fresh, clean, and ready for the appointment.

 

I think that's a bit of a stretch. Often people like to categorize and put things in a box. The reality is that the world we live is much more diverse than that. Not all traveling escorts charge $350 and up, are tired, arriving not fresh/clean and provide you with an unsatisfactory experience. I wouldn't generalize when making such statements. I invite you to write a review of the actual experiences you described. Welcome to the Forum.

 

Cheers, Steven ~

[Steven_Draker]

I am all for traveling yet I believe the rates these guys ask for are too high for the low level service they provide. I could sit here and write 200 stories of horrifying disappoinments my clients have had with traveling escorts. When I travel I find out what the top 3 guys in a market charge and try to come in a little less than them and deliver a great product.

 

From a MD in NOLA:

 

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[doitb4ugo]

I for one have had some very memorable sessions with travelling guys. I tend to mix my regulars with escorts who travel to Boston on a regular basis. It give me access to a greater variety of guys and experiences.

 

I have not run into any issues such as those described. I tend to book the same amount of time for both my local guys and the travellers (2-3 hrs). As a student in the college of sex, I find visiting professors to offer a new and unique perspective on pleasure...It is all about who you are with, not whether they travel or not...Travelling guys, come in all flavors and types. Vive la difference,

[uwsman2]

Over the years I've found a handful of traveling guys who are great to be with and whose fees are comparable to the local boys here in NYC. I have one local guy who is terrific and who I see a few times a year, but when our calendars match up I like to see one of the travelers from time to time and occasionally experiment with a new guy - usually somebody who posts regularly here on Daddy's forum and to whom I'm attracted by their personality as well as their looks. So far, I've only had a few disappointments with travelers who were tired. Making an appointment with a visiting guy may be the only way to experience some of the Daddy's "all stars".

 

Staying at hotels in NYC is expensive, so I can understand the traveler who calculates that he can only make NYC profitable by booking multiple appointments in a day or being able to charge a day-rate or overnight rate for a long session. And the traveler has to cover his airline expenses as well... So it's not surprising if travelers charge more than local guys. Just seems logical.

[cany10011]

Thanks

 

Over the years I've found a handful of traveling guys who are great to be with and whose fees are comparable to the local boys here in NYC. I have one local guy who is terrific and who I see a few times a year, but when our calendars match up I like to see one of the travelers from time to time and occasionally experiment with a new guy - usually somebody who posts regularly here on Daddy's forum and to whom I'm attracted by their personality as well as their looks. So far, I've only had a few disappointments with travelers who were tired. Making an appointment with a visiting guy may be the only way to experience some of the Daddy's "all stars".

 

Staying at hotels in NYC is expensive, so I can understand the traveler who calculates that he can only make NYC profitable by booking multiple appointments in a day or being able to charge a day-rate or overnight rate for a long session. And the traveler has to cover his airline expenses as well... So it's not surprising if travelers charge more than local guys. Just seems logical.

 

Thanks to all for providing a different perspective. I truly appreciate looking at things through the experience that you've all shared.

[adriano46]

I know quite a few traveling guys from Europe who visit the US (mostly NY but also FL, CA and NV) and more often than not we have discussed how they come up with their rates, which tend to be in the $300-$350 area.

 

For one thing, as has been mentioned, they are not in a position to find cheap or reasonable housing, and so end up rooming in someone's apartment who is something like their male madam and demands a part of their "fee" or a flat rental for the time they are there which can be for some of them quite high.

 

Another consideration: many guys in Europe make meetings for 2 hours and then up (rare to hire a guy for only an hour). They would charge Euros 200-250 for 2 hours, and then only Euros 600 for the night.

[CowboyUp]

Why I Pass on Most Escorts Just Passing Through...

 

The handful of traveling escorts I've hired in Houston and Dallas charged more (sometimes much more) than the local guys and the services provided were usually rushed and mechanical (left me feeling like I was just a mere fraction of their daily quota of clients). This is not intended to be an indictment on all traveling escorts--I'm sure some of them are superior at their craft. But, those I've hired charged more and promised more than they delivered. I presume their higher overhead expenses force them into scheduling a daily "revolving door" of clients in order to be profitable. That's why I mostly stick to hiring the well-reviewed, tried & true, hometown guys.

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[scottspearsxxx]

In our current state of the economy, I try to ride with the times and offer what I consider a reasonable rate when I travel to see someone.

[Bart]

Since I mainly see traveling guys I think a lot of generalizations were made here that do not apply across the board.

The best was from Diverdan as variety is the spice of life. I have had my duds, a few too many of late but the gems are just out of this world when you uncover them.

Some guys handle travel better than others. Rates have never equated to service. That is why presentation of his ad and your communications with the gentlemen should be the primary source.

I live in an area I can only bring guys in or travel to a closer larger city and not thrilled visiting a private residence unless I know the gentlemen. I have found most traveling gentlemen to be great to deal with. There are many times that the traveling gentlemen charge less much to the angst of the local gentlemen. The phrase "drain the resources" has been posted against a few traveling gentlmen.

At the end of the day value is in mind of the buyer and each gentlemen handles their service different and I dont think price is always reflective of that. Many times a gentlemen coming from a city with a higher cost of living like NY or SF come to a market thinking that their NY price will fly and many times it does not. That is why the smart traveling guy will look at the market and comptetiion first and see what gentlmen with the types of offerings and presentation that is comparable are charging and come in accordingly.

 

But I love the variety.