Hosting for traveling escorts?

[Guest Merlin]

The thread asking for advice about traveling escort expenses suggested an idea to me. Many traveling escorts say they are staying with a friend, which of course saves a lot of expense. There are undoubtedly nice guys in each city who would be willing to allow traveling escorts to stay in their homes or apartments free for a week or so. He would not expect much in return, just the pleasure of the escort's company for a week or so, not free sex necessarily. No incalls, I assume, and no use of the host's phone for business.

There would be some risk on both sides, but that risk exists each time an escort goes out to meet a stranger, especially in calls.

The trick is to find the guys willing to host. But what better place than here? Use one of the existing forums, or perhaps there could be a new forum for guys to indicate their willingness to host. Also a place for escorts and hosts to record good or bad experiences. It would not require a large number of hosts and could develop into a network of sorts.

[rvwnsd]

... There would be some risk on both sides, but that risk exists each time an escort goes out to meet a stranger, especially in calls...

 

I think some of that risk would be mitigated if the escort and client met prior to booking an extended stay.

[KMEM]

Step one. Meet for a short visit. Step two. Meet for an extended visit. Step three. Decide if it is mutually advantageous for escort A and client B to be host and guest during a visit with other clients.

 

The best way to have a friend is to be one.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Epigonos]

This is an interesting concept that I have never considered. One ABSOLUTE criteria would be that I know the escort well before making the offer. It would also be a MUST that I consider the guy a personal friend. Actually I know a couple of escorts with whom I would consider such an arrangement. I am also a firm believer that “NO PAY, NO SEX” thus he would be a house guest PERIOD. To make the offer and then expect side benefits would, in my opinion, be tacky in the extreme.

[+ purplekow]

I have had this arrangement in the past. Tony Pitt, not a big friend of the forum but a very hot looking guy, used to drive in from Pittsburgh and stay at my home. He would do outcalls. If he wasn't busy he would have his usual day of the gym and assorted other activities while I was at work.

I enjoy living alone but sometimes it is nice to have someone around the house. That was especially true when Tony would walk back from the shower, towel over his muscular shoulders and I would get to watch that hot ass walking back to his room. That was repayment enough.

[instudiocity]

The trick is to find the guys willing to host.

 

Double entendre?

[instudiocity]

I would do that too, provided that the expectations are clear. I remember someone in "the sunshine state" who offered me to stay at his place. However, he considered his bedroom to be worth the value of a two-person hotelroom. For that value he expected "services in return". I tried to explain to him that in an average hotelroom I could receive clients, while I couldn't do that at his place. The message didn't get through, he still thought he could compare his spare bedroom to a room in a four-star hotel and I politely declined.

 

Sincerely, Anton/Amsterdam.

 

Anton,

 

Would this "Sunshine State" person be one who partakes of the Early Bird specials at Denny's?

[adriano46]

Interesting thread on the Forum, and one that is very pertinent for me.

 

A few years back I accidentally ended up hosting an escort. He had njo idea of where I lived (e.g street), nor of my work and personal life, but was flown into the city the night before from his contry (this was Europe) for an overnight, which ws cancelled AFTER he arrived. At least the jerk who flew the coop left him the hotel room, but in one of the seemier parts of the city!

 

Next day, all alone and never before being o this city, hedecided to just try to call me at work. After some initial discomfort on my side, never wanting to be known so much by any escort... I met him to give him a tour of the city. Coincidently, he was roaming around near some monuments near my apartment.

 

I showed him aroun (frightened he would be noticed as he is a very famous European-Hungarian porn star), but finally felt, "Hey what the heck!"

 

Eventually took him to his hotel to check him out and get his luggage (as he had a night flight), and brought him to my home. While I showed him the guest room so he could shower and rest, I went out to get dinner, cooked and he awoke in time for dinner and then the taxt to the airport.

 

That led now to two other trips to the city for him, always staying in my guest room, and no other privilegels taken (on my part); only agreement was, "No IN calls."

 

Subsequently had two others who have done this. One wondered why I never tried to have sex with him (Oh..... the sight of him walking around the apartment in just the tighest underware was a great temptation to jump him every time we passed each other!!!). He more or leszs expected I would ask, and he would repay in kind, but I told him that my hospitality had no strings attached.

 

The other, also a big porn star in his own right, was a complete wonder. He too knew of my work, but I trusted him. He came to visit, showed him the guest room, lai out fresh towels etc... He was a guest for the weekendjnust to sight-see, your around, and do some shopping. First night, after dinner and some walking aorund, he took a shower. We watched some TV, he checked some of his e-mails on my computer, and as I had to work, I went to bed. As I went to my room, he followed and I turned as he dropped his towel and asked "Can I sleep with you!"

 

Well, here I was NOT asking or demanding.. and damn well did not want to say NO! Spent a lovely weekend with him. IN this one glorilous case, the escort himself made the decision. I personally would have had more needed rest and sleep had he kept to the gest room, but it was a nice long weekend....

 

Bottom line, I knew each of these guys, trusted their discretion completely, and generally it was a "no strings attached" deal, except for the last who decided to leave me a tip I suppose for all the home-cooked meals and the tours. :-)

[uwsman2]

economics

 

I would think that a visiting escort would want to be staying at a place where he could host in-calls, otherwise it would really cut down on his potential business. The alternative would be to suggest to clients who could not host an out-call that they rent a hotel room, but that makes the session much more expensive and would probably deter many clients.

 

So this sounds to me like a workable solution only for an escort who is confident he can have a profitable visit subsisting solely on out-calls, which most likely means a guy who is a frequent traveler and has a fairly large base of potential out-call repeat business in a particular city.

[adriano46]

I would think that a visiting escort would want to be staying at a place where he could host in-calls, otherwise it would really cut down on his potential business. The alternative would be to suggest to clients who could not host an out-call that they rent a hotel room, but that makes the session much more expensive and would probably deter many clients.

 

So this sounds to me like a workable solution only for an escort who is confident he can have a profitable visit subsisting solely on out-calls, which most likely means a guy who is a frequent traveler and has a fairly large base of potential out-call repeat business in a particular city.

 

uwsman2

 

You are very right in assuming it would be more profitable if the escort was able to do "in" calls at his host's apartment. This would probably ONLY work if he was apartment swapping (see Anton of Amsterdamn's comments above), or staying with a feollow escort.

 

You also rightly point out that only an escort who has a pretty solid client base could do this where he strictly answers only "out" calls. But then too, many escorts do keep a record of clients in various cities, and are courteous enough to let them know when they are visiting.

 

The reason it is not so easy to let the guest/escort have "in" privileges is simple: there is the real fear of other clients roaming around someone's apartment, seeing photos, personal items, or anything else that refers directly to the host (who generally would want to remain anonymous to the guests..). And unless the host had a large home (not an apartment), there is a high logistic problem. Where is the host/owner of the property supposed to disappear to while the guest/escort is using the guest room?

 

I say this because I have already experienced as a client the angst when two or three escorts share a space, and all work "in" and "out". The first one to have an "in" call forces the other two out on the street - sometimes in the middle of winter. They sit in some coffee shop or bar waiting the signal that the coast is clear. And what of late night callers??

 

On one occasion, as I was at an escorts for a massage and fun, he and his roomate were having an argument that continued even while I was there - with the roomate lurking in the hallway and near the bathroom (the only one in the place), picking a fight with my own escort every time he went out to the kitchen for something, or when I had to sneak quickly into the shower as they argued in the kitchen. Bad experience.

 

Plus there is always the risk posed by the guest/escort using the telephone and/or computer of the host. One of my previously mentioned guests was with his partner who ran a gay escort service. They both used my computer, and when they left, my computer was a mess and it took me a few days to restore my own passwords, clean up their cookies on my computer, and get things back to normal. And NONE of us is so innocent as to think that some third "watcher" cannot have access to the places visited by the computer... It is, in a word... a risk.

 

Yes, it would be great to host escorts from out of town who visit here, and I fimly believe that the host cannot expect client privileges from the escort as this would add a lot of tension to the time the escort is visiting. It is of course absolutely necessary that client/host and escort/guest have already spent minimally a few overnights together and know and trust each other pretty well.

[Guest Wetnwildbear]

Ive always Wondered . . .

 

I usually host as when I engage a gentleman caller it is usually for an exotic erotic

 

adventure involving a variety of accutrements. I dont like to haul that much luggage

 

around.

 

But I have always wondered - What do gentlemen callers who are traveling and hosting

 

in hotels, do between clients as far as Clean Sheets and what could be countless towels

 

for a number of clients?

 

Couple that with the traffic to a specific room,

 

don't the maids/mangement get interested/concerned?

 

 

I like to play, but not on someone elses unwashed cum-stained or worse sheets - or dry

 

off with towels which were used by previous visitors.

 

Any ideas?

[Guest Merlin]

Nevertheless, hosting may work for some escorts and clients. To begin, I suggest that when escorts place notes in the "Escort Travels" thread, they place a note that they are interested in communicating with individuals who are willing to consider hosting a traveling escort.

A potential host will, of course, want to consult the Reviews for that escort before going further.

Hosts, who have had a favorable or unfavorable experience, can presumable post a note in the Reviews section.

So, to that extent, the forums already provide part of the framework for such a system. What is needed is a forum combining these functions and allowing escorts to post a favorable or nonfavorable review of the host.

[adriano46]

Nevertheless, hosting may work for some escorts and clients. To begin, I suggest that when escorts place notes in the "Escort Travels" thread, they place a note that they are interested in communicating with individuals who are willing to consider hosting a traveling escort.

A potential host will, of course, want to consult the Reviews for that escort before going further.

Hosts, who have had a favorable or unfavorable experience, can presumable post a note in the Reviews section.

So, to that extent, the forums already provide part of the framework for such a system. What is needed is a forum combining these functions and allowing escorts to post a favorable or nonfavorable review of the host.

 

Merlin,

 

Excellent idea!!!

[instudiocity]

except for the last who decided to leave me a tip I suppose for all the home-cooked meals and the tours. :-)

You are a gem worthy of at least a tip!

[Guest pj4florida]

The thread asking for advice about traveling escort expenses suggested an idea to me. Many traveling escorts say they are staying with a friend, which of course saves a lot of expense. There are undoubtedly nice guys in each city who would be willing to allow traveling escorts to stay in their homes or apartments free for a week or so. He would not expect much in return, just the pleasure of the escort's company for a week or so, not free sex necessarily. No incalls, I assume, and no use of the host's phone for business.

There would be some risk on both sides, but that risk exists each time an escort goes out to meet a stranger, especially in calls.

The trick is to find the guys willing to host. But what better place than here? Use one of the existing forums, or perhaps there could be a new forum for guys to indicate their willingness to host. Also a place for escorts and hosts to record good or bad experiences. It would not require a large number of hosts and could develop into a network of sorts.

 

 

I have done this with many escorts and especially one or two escorts that were great friends that I was in fact seeing and knew very very well. I would bring him in for a day or two and then he would stay for a week or so and work. While entire time we actually slept together only one or two nights we actually not slept together if you so speak. It wasn't necessarily a set day. They then had no travel cost no airfare and no hotel cost and in my case no expenses at all. I usually ended up with actual lower cost and ended up since I was so flexible with better then a great time and most wanted to come back many times over. Even though I would hire or pay say a overnight rate and travel I ended up with much more totally again of their decision as I wouldnt even push what day we had fun. It was like spontaneous and based on if they worked that day or more importantly what we did if they didn't like go out and drink or whatever.

 

However I think the issue here is that most escorts don't drive or rent a car while visiting and in Tampa that is hard for outcalls and also fact I think traveling escorts primarily do incalls. That in my case was also an issues as I couldnt let anyone come to my place no matter what. I would even take them to calls occasionally or let them use my vehicles as almost most were great friends and some came even when not invited to work for me.

 

It was a great arrangement for me except fact they seemed to get very close so when I wanted to hire for a specific time it kinda after a while got to be a not so much a problem but kinda too close to be specific.

[Dave]

There are even more options.

 

In 2008 Kevin Slater and me did an apartment swap. I stayed at his place for a week, he stayed in mine the same week. I flew in a day before Kevin left so he could show me around his place. When he flew to Amsterdam a friend of mine showed him around my place.

 

I think it worked out splendlessly. I had no expenses for "housing" in New York, Kevin had no expenses for his stay in Amsterdam. If escorts do that more often, then travelling will be lots more worth while. Sure, it takes a bit of good will and some organsation, but I think that this community has more opportunities than we're using right now.

 

wow- what an awesome idea. i would be up for swapping like this if the other escort had a pretty nice place, and was in a city that attracted me (NYC, philly, miami to throw out a few...)

 

we could even do the other guy a favor and recommend him to, say, ten or twenty of our best local clients, during the time we'd be away!

 

my own place is very private, clean/modern design, spacious, and has lots of things needed for incalls - tons of clean sheets, fluffy white towels, great lighting, and even some gear (for example, there's a restraint system under the bed.) because i only use it for escorting, there are no personal effects there, which in a sense makes it seem more like a hotel than an individual's residence. hit me up, fellas - let me know if you want to discuss a possible swap!

[macguy247]

I'd do it...

 

I've thought about this before and I wouldn't mind hosting an escort in my home, especially if I had already been with them before. Of course, I'd check reviews for them before letting them stay and I'd rather that they didn't do incalls at my place, but I certainly wouldn't mind letting a trustworthy person sleep in my guest room. Would you recommend offering your home to previous escorts that you've been with? I think it might be a bit weird to just offer it out of the blue.

[Mark Gordon]

Apartment Swapping

 

I am also interested in hearing from reputable escorts in major cities in America and around the world who would be interested in apartment swapping. I have already been in touch with a few guys about this. In a few weeks, I will be in possession of a luxury 1+den condo on the edge of Toronto's gay village.

[JoeyBryant]

I remember someone in "the sunshine state" who offered me to stay at his place. However, he considered his bedroom to be worth the value of a two-person hotelroom. For that value he expected "services in return". I tried to explain to him that in an average hotelroom I could receive clients, while I couldn't do that at his place. The message didn't get through, he still thought he could compare his spare bedroom to a room in a four-star hotel and I politely declined.

 

One reason I left Florida (aka, the sunshine state) is because anyone who had a space to rent out wanted to try and get every dime they could out of you. Whether it was thru ridiculous security deposits, 2x the rent upfront, etc...

 

I ended up losing a good friendship down there because one of my best friends decided to play landlord everytime I came into town to visit.

 

Otherwise, the housing swap sounds like a great idea!

[JoeyBryant]

On the flip side...after reading more replies, I'd only consider someone elses place if I could do incalls.

 

I have been in this exact situation, where a guy invited me to stay at his place back home in Miami....I'd have my own space, wouldn't have to pay, I could just relax and save money, etc.

 

But the drawback was I couldn't have anyone over. I know he would not be ok with me having guys over. In fact, last year I had an outcall for around 10 PM, and he started fussing about whether I'd be up all night going in and out.

 

I know people are funny about their space. The only option I'd go for here is the housing swap. People always tend to invite you over filled with promises of a worry-free stay, but as soon as you show up with your luggage, then all of a sudden plans change, roommates arrive early, and family members get sick.

 

Thats why, I'd rather just be on my own time in my own room...even if that means paying a bit more. But with the swap, atleast its a mutual thing...you got me, I got you and vice versa...

 

Yes, Im interested in swapping! So if you wanna come to the Alamo anyone...send me a message

 

edit: well, I wont say ANYONE...but if we've seen each other around here enough, yes I will consider it LOL. Hey Mark, I've been wanting to go to Toronto for like...ForEVer!

[Guest MasculineCute]

Wow ... what a classy man

http://www.rentboy.com/CutieMascuine

[Guest MasculineCute]

I have had this arrangement in the past. Tony Pitt, not a big friend of the forum but a very hot looking guy, used to drive in from Pittsburgh and stay at my home. He would do outcalls. If he wasn't busy he would have his usual day of the gym and assorted other activities while I was at work.

I enjoy living alone but sometimes it is nice to have someone around the house. That was especially true when Tony would walk back from the shower, towel over his muscular shoulders and I would get to watch that hot ass walking back to his room. That was repayment enough.

 

Wow ... what a classy Guy

http://www.rentboy.com/CutieMascuine