Barebacking Question

[Flower]

>> well there is douching, and general hygiene.

>>

>> what people like about barebacking?? the thrill.!!!!!!its

>>delicious man.

>

>I can see how spontaneity could add to the thrill, but in my

>case, the idea of my head covered in shit would make it hard

>for me to stay hard.

 

Not sure size is the issue, but rather the bottoms you've been fucking--pretty easy for them to clean out before hand and I'd just flat-out let 'em know you don't want to see any mess whatsoever. Immodium helps a lot and a lot of experienced bottoms eat it constantly. Accidents do happen, but unless you are always into first timers, they should be very rare -- just talk about it with him before you start--neither one of you what it to happen (I hope).

 

Flower :*

[ad rian]

On the taking loads thread, Barry's post about sending decoy emails to ask if escorts bareback, made we think of raising one of my curiosities here. As a generously endowed exclusive top, I am struck by how often something unexpected comes out on the condom after pretty heavy duty action. I really can't imagine having sex without a condom for that reason. It is pretty disgusting, and not very sexy to see a dirty condom, but I think seeing a dirty dick, would make me give up on anal sex entirely. My questions are these: What did people do before condoms? And why do people bareback today given this reality, apart from other leitimate health disincentives? And finally, is my experience common, or just a genetic aberation?

[Guest bottomboykk]

>is my experience common, or

>just a genetic aberation?

 

In order to answer your question, I'd have to know the exact measurements of said "generously endowed" member and see pictures of same! :9

[ad rian]

>In order to answer your question, I'd have to know the exact

>measurements of said "generously endowed" member and see

>pictures of same! :9

 

Sorry, I never measured it. (In fact, don't understand what the two numbers in advertised measurements mean. Answers to that too would be nice.) Believe me, I am not bragging, just reporting on the consensus of my escorts, and relaying my own observation about condoms. The first hurdle for a guy with a big dick is to find smeone who can take it, then the next hurdle is having to deal with the dirty condom. But, I digress . . . .

[Guest unlimited_horizons2002]

well.

 

check the vids from http://www.treasureislandmedia.com or http://www.gaslampvideo.com

 

well there is douching, and general hygiene.

 

what people like about barebacking?? the thrill.!!!!!!its delicious man.

[ad rian]

> well there is douching, and general hygiene.

>

> what people like about barebacking?? the thrill.!!!!!!its

>delicious man.

 

I can see how spontaneity could add to the thrill, but in my case, the idea of my head covered in shit would make it hard for me to stay hard. I am genuinely curious whether guys with smaller dicks don't have this problem, or maybe they just don't fuck that hard?

[ad rian]

>Not sure size is the issue, but rather

>the bottoms you've been fucking--pretty easy for them to

>clean out before hand and I'd just flat-out let 'em know you

>don't want to see any mess whatsoever. Immodium helps a lot

>and a lot of experienced bottoms eat it constantly.

>Accidents do happen, but unless you are always into first

>timers, they should be very rare -- just talk about it with

>him before you start--neither one of you what it to happen

>(I hope).

 

Actually, most of them are not first-timers, and most are generally quite clean. One guy has an incredibly clean ass, but we have very intense sex, and the one time that there was an accident, it seemed to be after a particularly intense session. I take your point though, but instead of saying something I just don't call again. I'd like to hear from the barebackers on this one too because even the random chance of an accident would make anal sex without a condom extremely unattractive to me. If anything, I would bet that my escorts are cleaner than the norm so I still think there must be a lot of people ending up with shit on their dick. If not, I really do wonder about size issues. Anyone else want to jump in?

[Guest elwood]

Ad rian........when in the top role..my experiences have been similar to yours though most escorts I have been with have been scrupulously clean. For so many reasons..barebacking is totally risky. People must have their heads in the sand on this. The depressing stats are still there on HIV and other STD's.I don't understand the younger guys especially..guess they did not go through the initial wave of AIDS and so they are re-inventing the wheel on this one. And of course esthetic and hygienic reasons to which you have alluded are also quite valid.

[+ deej]

Anal sex and the ensuing "accidents" have been around since long before condoms were invented. It's simply a fact of life. Straight men have to put up with "that time of the month" and gay men have to put up with poopy dick. Sex can be messy.

 

The best prepared bottom can still be messy. The really good ones watch their diet so they are more controlled (or "regular") to begin with, which minimizes the chance of accidents but they'll still happen.

 

If you're really that squeamish about a little fecal matter on your cock, don't put it in the hole. <shrug>

[Bilbo]

RE: Dick Measuring

 

First, get as hard as ever you can. Then pray that it stays all the way hard as you measure it with a cloth (metal ones from hardware stores not recommended) tape measure. Although, if you don't, and since you won't have any clients feeling cheated by doing so, you can feel justified in adding as much as an eigth or a quarter inch to your final outcome. This will probably happen as this is probably going to feel sillier than it feels sexy. Measure along the top of the dick, since measuring along the bottom, though it comes out longer, has long been seen as a cheat since no one is sure where to start the tape. Start the tape on the conveniently placed (Thank you, God, for your many blessings!) pubic bone. go all the way to the tip. If you have trouble defining the tip, go to the beginning of the piss slit. That's the measurement for your length, usually the first and longest of the two numbers listed.

 

Next go around the biggest part of your cock - widest, thickest, whatever - usually, would ya say, about half way down the shaft? or maybe right at the bottom? If the latter, don't include any sack. - measure the girth of it (remember to swell just as you do it - see above) by putting the tape measure around the cock perpendicular to it.

 

Am I right?

[+ Axiom2001]

RE: Dick Measuring

 

deej's response is "spot on" as they say it "downunder"!

 

Just don't fuck if what you cite in this thread is a problem!

Or make sure that your bottom has cleaned himself before receiving a gigantic, turgid endowment.

 

Barebacking is taboo! EDUCATED people, not deliberate risk takers, know the reasons!

[Guest bottomboykk]

>The best prepared bottom can still be messy.

 

How very true. Sometimes no matter what you do to clean up, shit happens! It's very embarassing for the bottom, and especially so if the top freaks out.

 

 

>The really good

>ones watch their diet so they are more controlled (or

>"regular") to begin with, which minimizes the chance of

>accidents but they'll still happen.

 

Sometimes that doesn't help. Various medical conditions can cause problems no matter what you eat.

 

 

>If you're really that squeamish about a little fecal matter

>on your cock, don't put it in the hole. <shrug>

 

Well put. Either get used to it, or don't top.

 

And, may I add, don't make the bottom feel bad if IT happens. He already feels bad enough.

[Guest Ant415]

<And, may I add, don't make the bottom feel bad if IT happens. He already feels bad enough>

 

Good point. I don't bottom a lot for the reasons above. I am too tense and worried about an accident.

 

On a related note... I was fucking this one guy, who was a very clean, very able bottom. We took a rest from activities, and he accidently farted. Maybe it was because of the quietness of the moment, but I was startled to the point of small scream. It was funny later on, but I am sure I made him feel worse then he already was. I felt bad for my reaction.

[guyinsf]

I find it nearly impossible not to fart if I've been getting fucked. All that air being pushed in my ass has to come out sometime. Ideally it doesn't happen until "the deed" is done and I'm in the restroom, but sometimes farts, like shit, just happen.

[foxy]

Maybe poop on a dick is a message from God?

Naaaaa...

[ad rian]

>If you're really that squeamish about a little fecal matter

>on your cock, don't put it in the hole. <shrug>

 

The original point had to do with barebacking. Isn't there a difference between a little fecal matter oin your condom, and a little fecal matter on your dick? Allowing for accidents, I can deal with the former if infrequent, but the latter would turn me off. Even after this post, I still don't get why anyone would bareback given that possibility without even considering the health issues.