thank you time...

[+ Tom Isern]

i have just emerged from a dante-esque six months, a real journey into the mouth of hell. my mother was diagnosed with cancer in the spring and i’ve been flying back and forth since then, spending most of my time there. she died a few weeks ago. but i post about it here because i owe some serious thankyous.

 

first to this board and my client friends from here. without this “business” i would not have been as able to be as present to my mother, i simply wouldn’t have been able to go home as often. a special note of thanks to client buds in the minnesota and south dakota areas.

 

to friends and clients here who wrote with words of support. and daddy for letting me lean on his broad shoulders.

 

to anton of amsterdam, who by subletting my apartment for most of the month of august allowed me to spend all of that time at home.

 

to patrick bogan, who at the most traumatic moment stepped in to be my travel secretary. he even gave me free tickets to fly home. then he and his partner jc took care of my place and my dog for two weeks. they are like a cleaning and organizing white tornado when they blow into town. i owe you guys. i love you guys. i miss you.

 

to david-sf, who, in my absence, figured out without my asking him that my dog needed a weekly medical shampoo and just took it upon himself to make that happen. he also took care of my dog and apartment for two weeks. miss you, david! can't wait to see you again in january.

 

thanks guys! very much...

[josephga]

I'm sorry about the loss of your dear mother.

[+ Charlie]

Tom, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I am glad, however, to learn that there is a real support community among escorts.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Tom, I too lost a loved one to cancer and I know the affect that has on loved ones and care-takers. My prayers and thoughts go out to you as you continue along life's road, remembering always the good times and fun things you shared with your mother.

[edjames]

Tom,

 

So sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. I am sure she was glad that you were there for her when she needed you most.

 

I undertsand your loss. I, too, lost my Mother this year after 7 long years in a nursing home and me running back and forth to Florida every 6-8 weeks to check on her.

 

Take care!

 

ED

[Guest greatness]

I am sorry about your loss

 

I hope you can regain your strength and pray that your mother rest in peace.

 

i have just emerged from a dante-esque six months, a real journey into the mouth of hell. my mother was diagnosed with cancer in the spring and i’ve been flying back and forth since then, spending most of my time there. she died a few weeks ago. but i post about it here because i owe some serious thankyous.

 

first to this board and my client friends from here. without this “business” i would not have been as able to be as present to my mother, i simply wouldn’t have been able to go home as often. a special note of thanks to client buds in the minnesota and south dakota areas.

 

to friends and clients here who wrote with words of support. and daddy for letting me lean on his broad shoulders.

 

to anton of amsterdam, who by subletting my apartment for most of the month of august allowed me to spend all of that time at home.

 

to patrick bogan, who at the most traumatic moment stepped in to be my travel secretary. he even gave me free tickets to fly home. then he and his partner jc took care of my place and my dog for two weeks. they are like a cleaning and organizing white tornado when they blow into town. i owe you guys. i love you guys. i miss you.

 

to david-sf, who, in my absence, figured out without my asking him that my dog needed a weekly medical shampoo and just took it upon himself to make that happen. he also took care of my dog and apartment for two weeks. miss you, david! can't wait to see you again in january.

 

thanks guys! very much...

[operalover21]

i have just emerged from a dante-esque six months, a real journey into the mouth of hell. my mother was diagnosed with cancer in the spring and i’ve been flying back and forth since then, spending most of my time there. she died a few weeks ago. but i post about it here because i owe some serious thankyous.

 

first to this board and my client friends from here. without this “business” i would not have been as able to be as present to my mother, i simply wouldn’t have been able to go home as often. a special note of thanks to client buds in the minnesota and south dakota areas.

 

to friends and clients here who wrote with words of support. and daddy for letting me lean on his broad shoulders.

 

to anton of amsterdam, who by subletting my apartment for most of the month of august allowed me to spend all of that time at home.

 

to patrick bogan, who at the most traumatic moment stepped in to be my travel secretary. he even gave me free tickets to fly home. then he and his partner jc took care of my place and my dog for two weeks. they are like a cleaning and organizing white tornado when they blow into town. i owe you guys. i love you guys. i miss you.

 

to david-sf, who, in my absence, figured out without my asking him that my dog needed a weekly medical shampoo and just took it upon himself to make that happen. he also took care of my dog and apartment for two weeks. miss you, david! can't wait to see you again in january.

 

thanks guys! very much...

 

Condolences on the loss of your mother. And thank you for such a nice post thanking the people who helped you out. It was heartening to read. Hoping you are "carrying on" as they say. Peace.

[Luv2play]

Tom, Sorry to hear about your mother but it sounds like you had a wonderful support group of friends from the escort world. It shows another side to this business. Take care.

[+ David-SF]

Honored

 

It was with the greatest honor to have been one of the few providers you invited into your home in NYC so that working in Manhattan could be affordable.

Your generosity and kindness and your supportive friendship to me personally has always been one of the great gifts of being in this business.

Please consider anything I could do to help you in a time of need an unpayable debt.

I am touched that you consider me a friend.

2010 is a new start for you Tom I look forward to being a part of your journey again.

To lose of your mother is something I cant begin to comprehend. I am here for you anytime you need me, its the very least I could do.

 

Besides sharing my breakfast with your dog is the joy of my day.

Let just try to keep him out of the condoms from now on

xoxoxo David

[GoodFella69]

Dear Tom,

Words cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss. Know in your heart that your mother was blessed by having an amazing, caring son like you.

Peace to you.

[+ Gar1eth]

i have just emerged from a dante-esque six months, a real journey into the mouth of hell. my mother was diagnosed with cancer in the spring and i’ve been flying back and forth since then, spending most of my time there. she died a few weeks ago. but i post about it here because i owe some serious thankyous.

 

first to this board and my client friends from here. without this “business” i would not have been as able to be as present to my mother, i simply wouldn’t have been able to go home as often. a special note of thanks to client buds in the minnesota and south dakota areas.

 

to friends and clients here who wrote with words of support. and daddy for letting me lean on his broad shoulders.

 

to anton of amsterdam, who by subletting my apartment for most of the month of august allowed me to spend all of that time at home.

 

to patrick bogan, who at the most traumatic moment stepped in to be my travel secretary. he even gave me free tickets to fly home. then he and his partner jc took care of my place and my dog for two weeks. they are like a cleaning and organizing white tornado when they blow into town. i owe you guys. i love you guys. i miss you.

 

to david-sf, who, in my absence, figured out without my asking him that my dog needed a weekly medical shampoo and just took it upon himself to make that happen. he also took care of my dog and apartment for two weeks. miss you, david! can't wait to see you again in january.

 

thanks guys! very much...

 

 

Tom--I am very sorry to hear about your Mother--and I am glad you were able to spend time with her. I know she must have appreciated your love and support.

 

I don't want to take away anything from the posting on your loss--but from my own personal experience--I also want to let people know that Patrick Bogan is a stand up guy. SO as not to take away from your post, I will start my own thread on this (in the Deli).

 

Again my condolences on your loss--"May the remembrance of your Mother always be a blessing to those who knew and loved her"

 

Gman

[+ Tom Isern]

thanks

 

thanks guys. yes, one of the joys of escorting has been meeting wonderful people like anton, patrick, jc, and david. these guys have been a blessing in my life...and in so many ways that i can't really articulate here. so to them and to all of you who shared on this thread another big thank you from the heart.

[Guest andrewd]

Many heartfelt thoughts, prayers and good energy being sent to you, your family, and your mom's friends. Especially as we are approaching a time of the year when losses such as yours Tom, are even more difficult to bear. Much love to you...

[+ Tom Isern]

one more thing...

 

hi guys... i forgot to mention in this post that word has gotten back to me (thank you david-sf) that i've developed a minor reputation for being difficult to contact and book over the past 5 months. i also had to cancel a few appointments as i was called repeatedly back to the midwest to visit my dying mother--i was there more than i was here over that time. if i missed you or canceled on you...sorry. please understand the difficulty of the situation. life is stabilizing and i'm back in the city permanently. so thanks for thinking of me, and phone me up!