Charm School for Escorts

[Tommy_chelsea]

After experiencing another disappointing appointment with an escort, I've come to the conclusion that some escorts need to attend a charm school. Some enterprising retired (or non-retired) escort could teach younger, and not-so-younger escorts how to interact with clients.

 

First-class escorts like Kevin Slater, David SF, Antton Harri, Tom Isern, etc., could educate their fellow escorts, on what goes in to making a good escort-client relationship, and why its beneficial to an escort to make a good impression in order to have repeat clients.

[JT Brooklyn]

"Chemistry" is a very hard thing to Master!

 

The Line between Charm and B.S. also takes a long time to Master!

 

Some "Working Guys" really aren't around that long to be really Successful!

[+ purplekow]

The Line between Charm and B.S. also takes a long time to Master!

 

Oh Brooklyn you say the most insightful things. So was that charming or bullshit?

[Guest greatness]

oh my

 

I thought

 

B.S. was something like Bachelor of Socializing...

 

 

"Chemistry" is a very hard thing to Master!

 

The Line between Charm and B.S. also takes a long time to Master!

 

Some "Working Guys" really aren't around that long to be really Successful!

[AdamSmith]

The Line between Charm and B.S. also takes a long time to Master!

 

Oh Brooklyn you say the most insightful things. So was that charming or bullshit?

 

purplekow, this sneering ill becomes you.

 

JT is exactly on. I think that may be the hardest part of the escort job, for many. Some I used to like just got to be too much (or, maybe, too little) on account of that.

[Tommy_chelsea]

Common Sense Versus Charm School

 

Hi Guys,

 

All your posts made me realize that "Charm School" was not the term I should have used. A better and more accurate term would be "Common Sense Tips for Escorts".

 

I wrote my post after another frustrating experience. I have written a review and hopefully Daddy will post it.

 

Lately I have found that some escorts are devoid of basic common sense. I think that some of them would do well in learning from some of their better-reviewed fellow escorts.

 

The escorts whom I named in my original post are all considered first-rate, because in addition to their sexual expertise, they know how to treat their clients.

 

If an escort needs to reschedule an appointment, he can contact the client and ask. If he's running late and won't be able to meet the client at exactly the appointed time, contact the client and let him know. If the client is coming to the escort's place, and the escort has a roommate who will be there, the escort should inform the client, so he won't be surprised. This is just common sense.

[KMEM]

Not to interfere with some of the seriousness of this thread but I could not resist mentioning that "charm school" in the military and for the airlines meant PC training. In the old days that are not that long ago, this mainly referred to how to treat the opposite sex. We have come a long way since those days and now seem to be largely engaged in delineating how to treat not only gays but "every" each other. All good.

 

At the risk of being VERY repititious, the 10 commandments and especially the golden rule seem to apply in the cases mentioned. If both the escort and the client treat each other as they would like to be treated, fun and frolic should ensue. At least, that would be my fondest wish.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[+ nycman]

Oh Brooklyn you say the most insightful things. So was that charming or bullshit?

 

If one can't tell the difference...does it really matter?

 

Making it sound and feel sincere...is the hard part.

[+ purplekow]

Adam I was not trying to be sneering and if it came off that way, it was not the intent. Rather, I think the difference between charm and BS is: If one believes it or if one wants to believe it, it is charming. If one doesn't believe it, it is BS.

[justaguy]

You're absolutely on point. Whether it's real or not doesn't matter as long as I walk away satisfied. Conveying the feeling of sincerity, I think, is the hardest illusion to pull off.

[seaboy4hire]

In my experience in the world (which might be limited compared to some) I have found that some are very smart common sense wise and some are very smart book sense wise. Most of the time it is one or the other. I think that many will see this if they have worked in retail or do enough people watching.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[skynyc]

Not just escorts

 

I was sent to "charm school" at age 10 or 11 to learn table manners, and "the basics of living in society". Still makes for great dinner conversation, and I still remember which fork to use...but Mrs. B would be distressed to know that my elbows are still usually on the table.

Back to the topic...it isn't just escorts who don't follow simple rules of courtesy. I find that most folks under 30 are pretty lax. Running late doesn't merit an apology let alone a call or a text. Was scheduled to take one of my college roommates' kids to dinner last week, and she didn't show. Got home to an email sent about ten minutes before we were supposed to meet. So I called an escort, who also didn't show.

I agree that working in retail or food service is a great way to learn how to treat folks, (and be treated.)

And at $250 an hour, at least, escorts should have a minimum of "common sense."