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One of the toughest things to find, in my experience, is a bondage escort who meets the following requirements:

1 - Has his own dungeon or access to a play space that is well-equipped and private. Some of the guys well reviewed on this site who are willing to do bondage with some SM say "outcalls only."

2 - Is willing to take the time in advance for a thorough discussion through email, on phone or in person, of what one is looking for in a bondage escort. My experience is that some guys are just not good conversationally. It takes a certain personality to sit a guy down and discuss what their limits are and what their fantasies are in order to construct a satisfying scene.

3 - Has the judgment and imagination to do a terrific bondage scene that is planned out but includes enough spontaneity to be exciting for both parties. This includes the ability to "read" the bottom and figure out what will work and what will not - a combination of intuition and keen powers of observation.

 

I've had some success over the years, but also some strike-outs in terms of finding really good bondage escorts in NYC.

The successes have included Master Victor (to whom I go back for a session about once a year) and Reese Rothmeier (who is, unfortunately, no longer escorting). The limitations were that Master Victor's play space is a bit cramped, and Reese's was a bit too sterile. On the other hand, Victor as great at what he does, and so was Reese. Finding guys in that league is rare and lucky. But I don't like to go back to the same guy too frequently, because even the best of bondage escorts may fall into patterns that are too predictable, and for a bondage scene to be maximally rewarding there has to be a certain element of surprise.

 

Does anybody have information to share about who are the good bondage escorts that are worth trying to get an appointment with?

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Yes, thanks, I checked back and saw them....

I had actually tried to set up a session with him once, but it turned out that his "ex" is a good friend of mine and he didn't feel comfortable doing it... and at the time he was using a picture of somebody else in his ads, which is why I hadn't recognized him in the ad. The pics he's using now seem genuine, to the best of my recollection.

But I'm hoping guys who read these boards will have things to say about other bondage escorts in the NYC area.

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Usman2 & Uwsider! Good buddys! I was a “Reece Regular” as well… There has indeed been a “void” ever since Reece emailed me to inform me of his retirement. Reece was a great guy who was extremely good at what he did. I have yet to find anyone as talented…

 

My most satisfying “post Reece” experience has been with Adam Faust. He specializes in fisting but is into BDSM as well. I’ve seen him three times. He is an intelligent and sane individual and read me perfectly from day one. Not as gratifying as Reece, but a decent facsimile. He is small in stature and not physically imposing. In addition, he has no separate playroom and does not have nearly the equipment that Reece had, but enough to please quite nicely.

 

I have hired Radar. The experience was interesting but not totally satisfying. He never read me properly… I think the best S&M tops have had experiences as bottoms along the way… Reece certainly did… This gives a special insight that allows one to gauge the bottom’s pain-pleasure zone. Radar never found my zone. He was too concerned with what turned HIM on.

 

Now this happened on our first and only time together. I am considering a second session, but if it occurs, there will be a long detailed discussion prior so we are on the same wavelength. I think he needs to get more input from the bottom’s point of view… On the other hand, Reece was a very wise individual. He knew exactly what you wanted before you even knew that you wanted it!

 

Other problems with Radar include the fact that his albeit temporary Chelsea location is a pigsty. The so-called dungeon is his bedroom! It is a fifth floor walk up (sound familiar?) but what a dump. He plans to move to a new location with better facilities, but I’m not sure when that will take place.

 

Still, he is a decent guy… So I might give him another try… Also hot, very hot… The thought of his firm butt alone makes me want to give him another go around! Regarding his photos, he told me that the original ones were quickly taken a while back in the middle of the night and did not accurately reflect his present condition… but who knows!

 

I have also hired Cole Davis. However, he is essentially retired. I emailed him over the summer and he said to give him a call. I never did.

 

I tried Cole Ramsey… He didn’t have a clue regarding what to do… A total waste of time and money!

 

I never tried Master Victor. Is pictures do nothing for me.

 

I've heard pro and con about Matt Green... a lot of negative things about him personally... not sure if they are true or not... never hired him.

 

IF ANYONE HAS ANY OTHER INFO OR SUGGESTIONS REGARDING BDSM ESCORTS IN NYC PLEASE ADVISE!!! THANKS!

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Master Victor is definitely an acquired taste... which I have acquired. The first time with him, I wanted to pursue a total fantasy that involved not seeing him until the scene was finished, so we arranged for him to unlock the door as I was coming upstairs to his walk-up apartment. When I entered, he would be hidden from view in the darkened room, give me various commands and blindfold me from behind to get the scene under way. We had plotted that part of it out through detailed email exchange and phone calls, leaving the following steps to his devising after I had explained the various fantasies I had. The result was an incredibly hot session that could never be repeated, of course, because at the end the blindfold came off and I saw what he looked like. He is a good looking guy -- better in person than in the pics -- but not if you are only turned on by muscle and darkness - he has a very fair complexion, red hair and is tall and rangy, strong but not hard-muscular. In my experience, Master Victor is an imaginative bondage artist and particularly skilled at flogging....

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Actually, I think it is very rare for a guy to hire himself out as a bondage/SM bottom, although of the handful of bondage escorts I've hired in the past, the best have been guys who later told me that during their "learning phase" they had considerable experience as bottoms. If a guy's livelihood is renting out his body, he has to take care not to damage it in ways that could endanger that livelihood, and I think getting tied up and worked over might put an escort out of commission. Perhaps more importantly, as another thread in "Ask the Escort" today pointed out, even an escort who enjoyed being an SM bottom would justifiably be leery of agreeing to be tied up and played with by a new customer! You are really putting yourself at somebody else's mercy, and no knowing what might happen with a stranger.

Actually, when I think back to that first scene I had with Master Victor, I'm stunned to think that I actually did it. The pent up need in me must have been quite overwhelming by the time I hired him. But the fantasy we enacted really required extraordinary trust on my part, and I was doing it without having met the man, just reading his website, a handful of reviews on this site, and lots of email plus a few phone conversations. I guess that's where this site is so valuable. After reading his first few reviews and talking with him, I concluded he was somebody who could be trusted to thrill a novice bottom without inflicting permanent injury. He's a man who respects limits and is pretty intuitive about figuring out what they are, even without being told directly, which is what you wanted in an SM top.

I guess I'm talking myself into booking another session with him, but the prior comments about Adam Faust and his reviews have certain piqued my interest... The limitation there is he only does bondage/SM and fisting but does not get into sex with clients. Master Victor is very well hung and knows how to lay pipe....

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Regarding escorts being on the receiving end:

 

Reece once described to me a flogging session that he had to endure as part of his training. In essence he had to experience every type of flogger that his “instructor” had in his S&M arsenal. I begged him to put me through the same paces. However, he allowed me to be subjected to only a mini version of the drill, as he came to believe that the full version was actually somewhat irresponsible and bordered on lunacy… In this case having been on the receiving end as a bottom gave him that special insight which allowed him to fine-tune his own skills as a top, which meant knowing where trustworthiness ended and insanity began. In fact, while he used “safe words”, he became so skilled at reading the bottoms reaction and body language, that they were hardly necessary.

 

Still, once I would like to try the “other side” so to speak, but I really doubt it would actually be satisfying… still having not been there I can’t say for sure… Though a “flip-flop” S&M session might be an interesting scenario allowing one to experience the best of both worlds… Though I seriously doubt that would ever occur with an escort. As a client being out of commission for a few days is no big deal. In fact feeling a slight “after-burn” is part of the excitement. However, as “uwsman 2” has implied, no escort in his right mind is going to take the gamble of trusting a “novice top” to work him over. Heck, in retrospect I don’t think I would want to take the risk of irritating or infuriating any BDSM escort… especially if under normal circumstances you are going to be in the receiving end!!!

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Sir Kirk goes back and forth between NYC and Florida https://www.adam4adam.com/profile/view/hotboy4rub

Talk about ancient history as I reread the revival of this thread... but fast forward to 2018. Unlike so many many years ago I now feel quite comfortable playing the Dom. However, getting to the point of this thread... Excellent suggestion by @pubic_assistance!

 

Interestingly, and as I have posted previously in other threads, I met Kirk in NYC several years ago in a non- hire situation at the Bondage Club in NYC. He is about as knowledgeable as they come regarding BDSM and a nice guy to boot. . Here is his Rentmen link which should also give his current location as he does indeed toggle between NYC and Fort Lauderdale, FL:

 

https://rent.men/WhosNext

 

Kirk was a past Mr. Ramrod Fort Lauderdale. I recently met the current Mr. Ramrod in FL. He told me that Kirk was hanging up-side-down :eek: in his garage. With any luck he was just kidding. In all seriousness. Highly recommended when he is in either location.

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