Taking it hard and fast

[chrismac]

I love to watch porn scenes where a big hot hung hairy top plows into a tight little bottom with the force and speed of a steam locomotive piston, but when I've tried that on myself - that HURTS! :'(

 

I know, you're supposed to ease into it, get used to the feeling, use copious amounts of lube (can't have those condoms tearing now), wiggle onto it, etc. And I've tried all that over time, but a really hard pounding just can't feel comfortable. Does anyone really love the feeling - or is it one of those "pleasure through pain" types of experiences?

 

Any tips or pointers? If it could feel as good for the bottom as it does for the top, I'd be in piggy heaven.

[Rick Munroe]

Sounds like you need to remove the word "hung" from the equation...have you tried Rod Hagen in LA?

(that was meant in a good way, I promise...that's how he advertises!) :*

[Guest jeffOH]

Plenty of lube and maybe some lube with a numbing agent in it. Try to get as much practice as possible. Also, if it does start to hurt, just think how good it is probably feeling to the guy pounding your

ass. I think that after a while, the pain turns to pleasure more quickly.

 

Let us know of your progress.

;-)

 

JEFF

jeff4men@hotmail.com

[chrismac]

Also, if it

>does start to hurt, just think how good it is probably

>feeling to the guy pounding your

>ass.

 

Yeah - I've tried that too; trick my brain into enjoying the action by thinking of how much the other guy likes it - it works to a certain extent, especially if the other guy makes noises like he IS enjoying it and gets a little verbal with me.

 

I have found that if the guy can kiss me and apply some liberal tongue to my face and ears in the process the pain goes away almost immediately - but for many guys that's like asking them to pat their heads, rub their tummies, and do an Austrian knee-slapping dance at the same time.

 

Maybe that's why I always look for guys taller than I - they need to be able to reach my face while executing the missionary position manoeuver.

[chrismac]

>Sounds like you need to remove the word "hung" from the

>equation...have you tried Rod Hagen in LA?

>(that was meant in a good way, I

>promise...that's how he advertises!) :*

 

Are you saying he might do better than you and Derek? ;-)

[Guest Les]

Slow is the only way to go...gotta feel those strokes...ooo I'm getting myself hot.

:*

[jack]

About an hour and a half before the meeting, stick a well lubed dildo, like, a six incher up your ass for about fifteen minutes. Then, the real thing, will really be the real thing. Nice. Love it. Expecially with the deep kissing and slow jerk off. Good luck.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Everything I know about fucking ....

 

>I love to watch porn scenes where a big hot hung hairy top plows into a tight little bottom with the force and speed of

>a steam locomotive piston, but when I've tried that on myself - that HURTS! :'(

>

 

I learned from watching old falcon porn vids .... But after becoming a pro, I also worked hard to develop my technique and tricks. I like to fuck aggressively: my favorite questions to a prospect are "how hard?" and "how long?" with "how deep" being not far behind ....

 

>Any tips or pointers? If it could feel as good for the bottom as it does for the top, I'd be in piggy heaven.

 

Ask to be rimmed. Ask for foreplay. One of my favorite things to do is to go down on the guy - first of all, with me it is often unexpected and I like the element of surprise and secondly it helps relax the client in a different way. After some time of this I like to take my fingers and get some of the spit I have used to lubricate your cock with so that I can insert them inside you. I start with the smallest and work different ones in and out, changing back and forth, and if you like verbal, I tell you that I am opening you up for what is to come.

 

Ask him to be very patient. A good top, even when not an escort/client relationship, should never intentionally cause pain. The lining is very liable for tear and damage. Plenty of lube should be used, before AND during. I always say: how are you doing and I repeat myself if I feel that they are saying "OK" in a desire to please me as opposed to pleasing themselves. Or I go ahead and pull out and apply GENEROUS amount of lubrication. HOWEVER, the fact of the matter is that pulling out and then taking it again may be for those few seconds, more painful.

 

It really just takes patience and practice.

 

Toys and butt plugs can work, but I prefer to do that myself without the use of rubber or latex. I don't think the client should prepare for time with me other than, of course, the appropriate amount of preparation to eliminate the possibility of smell or mess.

 

Finally, paying attention to you, your ears, your neck, your nipples, rubbing the side of your legs, massaging your back if your face down, in short making clear that you are not just a recepticle in his treatment of you sexually and as a person do as much for your mental preparation as your thinking about how much being inside you feels wonderful around, on and to my cock. Good luck -- and practice, practice, practice.

[Bilbo]

RE: Everything I know about fucking ....

 

I agree. It doesn't sound like you are getting nearly enough foreplay (and duringplay - is that a word?). I would never think of entering a guy whom I hadn't opened up to take three fingers at the same time. We often say opening up with finger play, but DiSantis reminded me that we don't often specify what we mean by that.

 

Surprise you're Daddy with giving him foreplay - even tops have nipples, etc. - give him enough hints that it is a reciprocal game no matter what you call it, and then if he doesn't play with you enough to relax you, just plain out tell him to. If that doesn't work, you might want to find another "old man." }>

[Rick Munroe]

RE: Everything I know about fucking ....

 

>After some time of this I like to take my fingers and get

>some of the spit I have used to lubricate your cock with so

>that I can insert them inside you. I start with the

>smallest and work different ones in and out, changing back

>and forth, and if you like verbal, I tell you that I am

>opening you up for what is to come.

 

You're a fucking pro, DiSantis. Damn, baby. :9

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

The words of love

 

>> my fingers

>>some spit

>>your cock

>>inside you

>>back and forth

>>what is to come.

>

>You're a fucking pro, DiSantis. Damn, baby. :9

 

I would blush but that would imply I felt any sense of shame or that I had any belief that modesty was in any way a virtue.

[chrismac]

RE: The words of love

 

I think I really should have called this post, "The Unbearable Tightness of Being - Me"

 

Was with a nice guy last night who opened me up real easy-like. He then proceeded to pound me like baker's dough missionary style and when he leaned over to wear out my lips with his fast and furious tongue I lost my load all over both of us. I guess it's an art.

 

He also gave me my first hickie which will be a lasting memory tattoo for as long as these things last (I hope it's faded before I'm home for Easter Weekend lest I walk around all weekend in turtle-neck tops which will arouse some amount of curiosity this time of year in Southern California) - but that's another thread altogether.

[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

RE: Taking it hard and fast (JUST HOW I LIKE IT!!!)

 

Actually that is always fun!

Yes it does hurt, but that is when the mental turn on of being "taken" comes into play!

I Like em well well hung and very rough....nothing like having a REALLY big one just ram it in..., I scream bloody murder every time and wiggle and buck around in an almost thrashing manner, but after about 3-5mins the pleasure comes in , as you realize there is no choice but to Give it up completely and totaly and just let the top have his way with your lil hole!

(woof! down boy!!! wank wank...LOL)

Christopher

 

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[Guest LiLBlondBoy]

RE: Everything I know about fucking ....

 

wuss!!!! Take it like a man!!!

j/k

LOL

Chris

 

 

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