Has anyone fallen in love with the escort he hired...?

[Guest gam4sex]

Just curious if anyone has fallen in love with the escort he hired and have a LTR together ? Does something like that happen in real life or is it too far fetched ?

 

 

 

GAM4SEX

[Guest sdmuscl4hire]

This topic has been rehashed and gone over more than should you tip an escort

[+ deej]

Michael, thank you so much for your cheerful and helpful response to a relatively new poster on the board.

 

GAM4SEX, the short answer is yes. It has happened. Not often. But it has happened. And the subject HAS been thrashed through a LOT here.

 

Sadly, you can't search in the archives because for some reason they've gone missing. We have Daddy looking into the problem. (If anyone sees any stray archives wandering around, please smack them on the butt and send them home. :9) They should be back soon. Frankly, we just noticed the problem.

[Guest gam4sex]

sorry, i have no idea, i don't post here that often....

 

GAM

[BewareofNick]

>sorry, i have no idea, i don't post here that often....

>

>GAM

 

Well, I hope you will change that GAM. There are a lot of subjects here that I think bear repeating and this is one of them. To answer your question, yes, it does happen. Anytime you have human beings and sex invovled it is almost inevitable. I myself am guilty of falling in love with a massage boy. Once you have no $$$, you find out real quick that the 'love' can just be part of the game.

[Guest happyguy]

Yes, when I was young I would fall in love with an escort I hired all the time, but I knew that it was totally one-sided! The escorts involved were always really nice to me,even warning me not to do so, because this was only business for them. Although I am now in my late thirties, once in a while I meet a really nice escort and the same thing starts to happen. Some of my buddies tell me it says a lot about me - and they are probably right. Others say it says a lot about the escorts themselves, that they truly are great people.

 

I do believe (hope?)that it can happen that love can happen between a client and an escort, but I've never seen it!

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

Perhaps a more relevant question for us would be "has an escort ever fallen in love with a client?"

 

I have one (a GAM as it happens) who claims he has with me, and I am flying him over from Europe without formal remuneration to see if there is anything to his protestations. I know he hates escorting, so am I just a potential sugar daddy? I'm reasonably attractive, and he is very sweet (and really spins my dials!). I could easily reciprocate if his affection is genuine. So there might be something here. He claims all his other clients just treat him as "sexy meat", and that his Asian gay "friends" in the city where he lives aren't looking for relationships and just want to get in his pants.

 

It's all very new to me, though. I never expected to find love through an escort relationship, though I have never closed the door on the possibility. On the other hand, he's 25 and I am 18 years older than he is, and we have only actually met twice (with sparks!). Yet again he makes me write to him literally every day (with much silly romantic gushiness exchanged), so it would be a pretty high maintenance scam if it is one.

 

If anything comes of it and I end up taking him off the market, I will let you all know. ;-)

[+ Charlie]

You have made me really curious: if something does "come of it", will you continue to hire other escorts?

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

Not if he moves to Canada and stays with me (unless he wants to do threesomes, which strikes me as unlikely).

 

I don't crave diversity in partners, and he seems to be fully versatile. His looks also knock me out. I wouldn't have to hunt for sex anywhere else so long as he remained willing and enthusiastic.

 

I'm not claiming I have found my "one true love", but there aren't any contra-indications yet. We'll see.

[Guest DVS]

Well Gam4sex I have been guilty of falling in love with an escort. My only defense would be was that I really liked the guy and he was very sweet. Contrary to belief it actually had nothing to do with sex but more with friendship and partnership if that doesn't sound too lame.

 

Consequently I never pursued having a relationship because I knew it was one sided. I did however pursue being friends with no strings and expectations. Also I am not a sugar daddy. Today I am proud to say we are still friends and it looks like we are going to stay friends.

 

I will always have a special place in my heart for my friend but I will always respect that I am just that! Of course if he ever makes a move on me I will probably jump his bones in a heartbeat. }>

 

DVS

[Guest DevonSFescort]

>Not if he moves to Canada and stays with me (unless he wants

>to do threesomes, which strikes me as unlikely).

 

Just curious. Does Canada provide immigration rights for gay domestic partners? Just wondering what you'd need to do about his legal status, right to stay in the country, etc. That would be my only red flag, by the way, is the possiblity that he might be primarily interested in using the relationship as a way to expedite a move to Canada. Hope it's the real thing, though. Good luck...

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

>Just curious. Does Canada provide immigration rights for

>gay domestic partners? Just wondering what you'd need to do

>about his legal status, right to stay in the country, etc.

 

Good question, Devon. From what I can tell the courts here are swiftly forcing the hand of legislators in recognizing same sex unions and in retrospectively reading them into all laws that deal with common law relationships. The various legislatures are capitulating, some with better grace than others, and it probably won't be long before same sex couples will enjoy almost all the rights of married couples. This would include sponsoring the immigration of a spouse.

 

This is only marginally relevant to my friend, however, as he is a university student. So long as you have the money to study here, there are few restricitons to your coming to Canada for the length of your studies. If you succeed in getting your degree, you probably qualify for immigration, though you have to leave the country (a bus ride to Buffalo will do) to formally file your application. Given his nationality, he also doesn't need a visa to enter Canada freely as a tourist and stay for as long as six months at a time (renewable). The only restriction would be that he couldn't work here as a student or as a visitor until he got residency status as a landed immigrant. After three years as a landed immigrant, he could apply for citizenship.

 

>That would be my only red flag, by the way, is the

>possiblity that he might be primarily interested in using

>the relationship as a way to expedite a move to Canada.

 

He lives in a European country with a comparable living standard, and he has only the vaguest idea of what Canada is like (though he claims to like skiing). I don't think that would be an issue.

 

>Hope it's the real thing, though.

 

Me too. :-)

 

>Good luck...

 

Thanks.

[Guest gam4sex]

Esc_Tracker

 

come to think of it, it's risky business, not only will I be left with a broken heart, but an empty bank account too.....

 

 

Incidentally I went to school in Canada and spent almost 8 years there, never had the chance to check out the escorts scene when I was up there, but my friends told me they are much hotter than the ones in NYC........

 

GAM