Escorts Going Beyond The Expected (Non-sexual)

[+ Gar1eth]

So who are the nice guys of the escorts out there? Who have you been with that has helped you out of a tight situation--no double entendre meant? Who has gone beyond sex to do something thoughtful or unexpected?

 

I have 2 stories--I am sure there are more out there.

 

So story number 1--Patrick Bogan of Dallas fame--I am editing out most of the encounter details as that's not what this topic is about.

 

Patrick is a great guy. Last spring as I was going to meet him for the 1st time, my radiator light went on due to a possible leak. I was always having to refill the reservoir. I had taken the car in once and they couldn't find the leak. Anyway--red light goes on right as I was about a block away from Patrick's place. I was so uptight from the car that I didn't realize that I had stopped on the street right before Patrick's. He was on the phone telling me which place was his--and none of the landmarks were matching up. Well I finally figured out he was up one street--so we met. We had a 2 hour meeting which he graciously went over the time. If you want an attractive, athletic versatile guy, I recommend him highly--but to get back to the topic at hand--after our session to put the icing on the cake--or posssibly the cherry-- am I mixing metaphors here? --anyway there was a drugstore right around the corner. Patrick walked with me to the drugstore and helped me carry two bottles of antifreeze back to the car. He then stayed with me for a bit while I refilled the reservoir and made sure the car was running. Incredibly nice thing to do for me.

 

 

Story Number 2

 

A few years ago--I hired Trey Casteel, of Columbus, OH to treat myself for a birthday weekend. If any of you want to know--Trey is incredibly handsome and built--but just as important--he is a nice guy. He's someone you wish were a friend. So one of the days scheduled was my actual birthday. Now I am a night owl--but I am not a night owl who can then get up early--I need time to sleep. Trey is more of an early morning person. So on my birthday--Trey got up to go to the hotel buffet for breakfast. I just wanted to sleep. So Trey goes down to eat and probably for some alone time. He comes back 2 hours later with a tray of food to give me breakfast in bed on my birthday. He knew from our intial discussions that it was going to be my birthday and when it was--but I hadn't made a big deal of it on the trip--hadn't mentioned wanting breakfast in bed. He just came up with the idea and decided to surprise me.

 

 

So any other stories of thoughtful escorts out there.

 

Gman

[+ bigjoey]

there is a guy i see for weekends that is always doing nice things like grabing for the check at dinner or when we go to a movie, getting and paying for the tickets. we do weekends together and when i come home on friday, he has been there to meet me and has cooked dinner with groceries he bought himself. on a trip to his home town, he arranged for us to stay at a friend's condo so i would not have to pay for a hotel. he has never asked me for anything like going shopping and getting him a gift, in fact he has gotten me small gifts. yes, there is a nice fee at the end of our time but he has never hinted for anything more. i would tell the name except he is retired and i am his only client.

 

most other escorts are just "takers" and never think of doing thses simple inexpensive jestures. it is rare when another escort has reached for a check or even make a faux attempt to do so. i have had escorts hint about going on a shopping trip or what their favorite store is.

[KMEM]

I believe that BN picks up some meal checks and other tabs for his regulars. Of course, I am not present when he is with his other regulars but that is what he does when with me. It never appears to be an act or anything other than what he wants to do.

 

Best regards,

 

KMEM

[Guest zipperzone]

>I believe that BN picks up some meal checks and other tabs

>for his regulars. Of course, I am not present when he is with

>his other regulars but that is what he does when with me. It

>never appears to be an act or anything other than what he

>wants to do.

 

Do you think he writes it off on his income tax returns?

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[Guest skrubber]

Benjamin Nicholas has done so many nice things going beyond the expected for me I can't recall them all but will give a few examples.

 

Besides picking up the tab many times and carting my ass all over San Antonio Ben has

 

Picked me up at the airport

 

Driven five hours from Dallas to meet me for my birthday when AA stranded him

 

Played Laser tag with me

 

Made a consolation call to me over losing my dog

 

These are the things that really stand out but Ben is ALWAYS doing little things that are nice. The biggest thing he has done out of concern for me and my situation can not be relayed on this board but was quite unbelievable and much appreciated.

[KMEM]

>>I believe that BN picks up some meal checks and other

>tabs

>>for his regulars. Of course, I am not present when he is

>with

>>his other regulars but that is what he does when with me.

>It

>>never appears to be an act or anything other than what he

>>wants to do.

>

>Do you think he writes it off on his income tax returns?

 

To the fullest extent allowed by the IRS, yes.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Lewis H]

Great topic. I like to think that these things happen because good escorts are empathic people who are just that - people. They do what they do not because of what they are (their profession) but WHO they are.

 

On one hand you can argue that it's just good business to maintain good client relations by going above and beyond. How different is it from a lunch meeting with a business partner who wants to get the check? It's a gesture that can be seen as an investment in goodwill. But it's also nice to believe that they appreciate you as people, and want to do things for you as a result.

 

I love the breakfast in bed story - that's a great way to start any day, let alone a birthday.

[JT Brooklyn]

Well being a practical Guy IF and it ain't gonna ever happen, I layed out at least 2K IF not more for Food etc..I would expect the guy to definitely do a few Nice things..Like offering to do my Laundry!

 

For those who wish to not realize it, any out of pocket spending done by said "Working Guy" is being Paid Back somewhat at the end of the exspensive weekend and also it can possibly guarantee a Regular Client Status!

 

As for the Working Guys who say they are treated like QUEENS "Weekend after Weekend" at 2K or more a pop..I do believe the QUEEN part! ;-)

[KMEM]

JT--You are so cheap as to be unbelievable. You wouldn't recognize a nice gesture if it slapped you on the ass. Good luck to you anyway.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[CF]

For me, it's Brandan Steele. I've always felt a special bond when I was with him. He has a way of putting smiles on peoples faces even if they're strangers.

You have a sense of not being forgotten when your date is over. There's always that weekly email, that's there to just say hello (6 years and counting) or a greeting card for the holidays sharing some private feeling and news.

Once I asked him about why he spent so much time on line emailing people he had never met, even when it was obvious he possibly never would. He relayed a story about someone he had written constantly over the course of a year. He felt he never was going to meet this person, but also felt the person needed someone to just listen and reach out too. We left the story alone at this junction, but it did stay on my mind for the rest of our date. Before the end of our night, I had to ask whatever happened with this particular person. His response>>I'm sitting with him right now. I was blown away then, and I still am today. Brandan, just seems to be a person that never changes. An old and giving soul, that exudes kindness and never lets you feel you're forgotten or alone. I'm sure a lot of people that are reading this right now, who know Brandan or have never met him thru anything but emails, are going to relate to what I've just shared. CF

[AdamSmith]

One of the nicest over-and-above things an escort ever did for me was on an overnight hire. We met at my hotel, had an introductory quickie session, then went out in his car to dinner. Got to the restaurant, found it unexpectedly closed, drove around and around looking for another decent restaurant. Finally the escort, rather than settling for eating at some dive, drove me to his house and cooked a great meal. Unfortunately I can't answer the OP's question of who this was -- while he was cooking, the guy asked me NOT to put this in a review or forum, lest everyone expect it of him!

[JT Brooklyn]

KMEM..Don't confuse getting slapped on your ass as a kind gesture!

 

In these CIRCLES it's considered part of the "Full Service" Package you've Paid for! ;-)

[whipped guy]

Actually I thought JT's comment not only had a ring of truth to it, but also was even somewhat urbanely droll...

 

Still, should not all this ass slapping business belong in the fetish forum? This from someone who has often paid for such a "full service" package...

[+ Oliver]

A couple of instances come to mind.

 

Raul G Manzo: The first time I saw him was two years ago in Palm Springs. While he was here, I sustained an injury (caused by my own stupidity and clumsiness :+) which necessitated treatment at a local emergency room. He (and a saving friend) transported me there, stayed with me for the entire six (seven?) hours, commiserated with me, jollied me with deprecating humor, saw me home, and then stayed another night just to comfort me, though I really was unable to do anything. In my book – way “beyond the call of duty”. And speaking of books, he has gifted me with at least two book treasures after subsequent engagements. The man truly gives of himself.

 

Jason Carter: In his most recent visit he demonstrated his total dedication to professionalism, but also adjusted my TV (the people were fat), tutored on proper laundry technique (and, yes, JT, did the laundry ), played co-host to a large gathering, and helped to clean up afterward. All that in addition to what he was here for, which he also did to perfection.

 

These are just two examples of the type of men I have been blessed to be with.

[JT Brooklyn]

Well Oliver is most definitely one of the most Liked Guys on this site! Hell I would do his Laundry AND separate the Whites! ;-)

 

P.S. Brandan is one of the Sweetest guys around. Florida is very Lucky to have him!~ ;-)

[Lankypeters]

>A couple of instances come to mind.

>

> Raul G Manzo:

 

When I saw Raul he ripped off my shorts during our hot, hot session. I'd worn an old torn pair, hoping he'd take the cue and finish them off. I didn't bother putting them back on as I headed home. Later on he e-mailed that I'd left them. He offered to get together for coffee and bring them along. I said he could hold on to them in case he met someone who might get off on sniffing them.

 

We met in New York and he offered to show me Chicago, making it clear no fee was involved.

 

A really nice and hot guy.

 

If he and Anton of Amsterdam are acting when they have sex, they should win Oscars tomorrow night. They really get into it. Was with someone (nameless) the other night and had a satisfactory session. Reflected later that he did TO me, but really wasn't GIVING. If that makes sense.....perhaps it's part of the professional transaction that all you have to do is to TO.

[+ Oliver]

...Hell I would do his Laundry AND separate the Whites! ;-)

 

You're hired!!! (That's for laundry duty! )

[Guest zipperzone]

JT - I know exactly where you are coming from.

 

The thing that bugs me the most about weekenders are the escorts that expect EVERYTHING paid for. I know that when I am arranging for one, all the expenses such as dining and entertainment are for my account. Last month I arranged a weekender, flew the guy in and was, in my estimation, a gracious host.

 

The thing that killed it for me - and I admit this was very small - the guy said he wanted to pick up a pack of gum, $1.29, and he stood there with the gum in his hand until I paid for it. Who is the cheap one here?

 

Would I ever book him again? Not in 50,000 years.

[KMEM]

Zip-

 

Escorts should pay for their personal items, like gum. It would be appropriate for clients to treat escorts like guests in their homes for extended stays and escorts should act like guests. That can mean different things to different people. Clearing the dishes might be acceptable in one home but helping wash them might not. It would depend upon the homeowner and how they viewed things. It can never hurt to offer, however (to wash or help wash the dishes).

 

Of course, those that do only hourlies can only hope both parties remain civil during their brief encounter. Rude is out this year.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Chuck50]

I have had a lot of Favorites who have been special and going above and beyond the call so to speak:

 

 

The 1st: Stef Lacoste so many times I cant go into them all.

Vegas Boy Dave of Happy Memories.

Kristian when he was in Houston also known now by other names he is a sweetie.

Yes BN

Yes VM

Double Trouble aka Adrian Hart(orlando) for so many things

 

and once again Stef one of my all time friends. First, Finest,Funiest and Fittess. HUGS Chuck

[Lankypeters]

Several years ago I used to hook up regularly with a guy named Brad, who worked all the agencies in New York, but chiefly Chelsea Guys (when they offered quality men).

 

We used to share a joint before we started. One afternoon, he left an envelope for me with a joint and a thank you note for the previous night's tryst.

 

Sweet guy. Anyone know him? Know where he is? Hasn't been in sight for years.

 

He wanted to be a writer. Maybe he's at the Oscars tonight.

 

 

Lankypeters

[JT Brooklyn]

Oliver..That's cool! As long as I can "watch" your Hunky AVATAR do the rest? :9 :9 :9

[JT Brooklyn]

ZIP..Totally Agree! I'm sure we all agree, the "Working Guys" who think they are hanging out with an ATM should never be invited back!

 

I see some around here feel that laying out "Big Bucks" also includes kissing a certain amount of Butt outside of the Sex Stuff physically of course and should be done?

 

There's Gracious Hosts and there's Gracious SCHMUCKS!

 

Sorry but I for one am a Very Nice Guy..BUT not a very stupid guy when the B/S starts rolling! ) ;-)

[JT Brooklyn]

Well now that he's Retired and we have really been good friends for a number of years now..I will say that Mark/Chicago who alot of the guys around here have met over the years, was my most Pleasureable and RARE Weeknd visitor on several occasions in NYC.

 

He definitely was the opposite after going out many times and sharing whatever expenses, wherever we went and also his offerings in little things he did when together.

 

***Enjoy the OSCARS Guys!!!! Congrats to him! I think I just gave Mark/Chicago "The Working Guy Lifetime Achievement Award"! ;-)