BN Picture -- Not

[Guest Adono]

There's a review of Benjamin Nicholas over on maleescortreview. The review seems legitimate, but whose picture is that? Has BN changed that much?

[KMEM]

That indeed is BN's picture. He has lost about 10 pounds, let his hair grow and emphasized a different set of muscles; de-emphasizing others.

 

If you have red hair, let it grow and flaunt it. :-)

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[Philly Guy]

Has BN changed that much?

 

I wondered the same thing! I saw him about a year ago and did not recognize the guy in the pics. His new workout has made him look fantastic and much younger!

[curious2000]

Looks like getting your hand caught in the "plagiarism" cookie jar does a body good. I guess he decided to re-invent his image. I think this look suits him much better than the way he looked a few years ago.

[Louis]

Its very evident that Ben has been in the weightroom, and it appears that he is following an excellent training program. It takes a lot of work to get to where he is. I could still tell it was him by looking at his body, but its just more refined and defined.

The hair looks good, and the one good thing about long hair is that its easy to get rid of if he gets bored with it.

[Doug69]

The abs are completely (and quite badly) Photoshopped. Totally unnatural, especially for the angle of the rest of his body in the photo. Anyone who has ever used Photoshop can recognize a sloppy job.

[Guest pj4florida]

All I can say no matter about the critics he is still one awesome guy and one of if not highest preference. He always treate=s his clients as a friend and with the highest respect. Again all I can say he looks more awesome in real then his pics even start to protray and he has a personality to match

 

PJ4florida

[+ Lucky]

RE: Doug's Fantasies

 

So Doug, do you check the boards every day,or just every other day? No that I mind, but I did think that you had left us all behind.

[Vincent_Michael]

RE: Doug's Fantasies

 

N/A

[Epigonos]

RE: Doug's Fantasies

 

You know guys I would like to hear from just one guy who has spent time with Benjamin Nicholas and didn't throughly enjoy the experience. I HAVE spent an evening with this man and I had a fantastic time. This constant carping from people who don't care for his on line persona has become a tiresome bore. Give it a fucking rest!!!!!

[Guest alanm]

He always

>treate=s his clients as a friend and with the highest respect.

 

The "friend" thing seems to be included in almost every review now (in this latest review, Benji is described yet again as a friend). For those of us who have not hired him, like me, it's difficult to believe that all these "friendships" are going to continue after Benji ends his escort career.

 

Before all the Benji fans tell me I am crazy, remember that Doug has fully domumented how far Banji went in his blog to "cut corners."

[Epigonos]

Yeah I am perfectly aware of Doug's multiple expose's of Benjamin's foibles BUT they don't really have much to do with how the man treats his clients during their time together. It is true that some clients choose to delude themselves into believing that escorts become their "dear" and "true" lifelong friends and YES it is a dillusion. Nine times out of ten that dillusion is the clients imagination at play not the escorts intent. Sorry but I don't fit into that mold. I spent ONE outstanding evening with Benjamin Nicholas and though I consider him a great escort I do NOT consider him a near and dear friend.

[JT Brooklyn]

Well even though I do have the Distinction of Not knowing him, BUT being told to "Fuck Off" by him last year! LOL

 

Just because he likes to BLOG, but can't handle any Public Criticism, which apparently thanks to some was alot of B.S. BY B.N

 

"Photoshopping" I wouldn't find very shocking at all! But all the defender's can go on Paying his Bills and reading his whatever!

 

Rock on Boys! I'm sure your HIS closest FRIENDS! LOL

 

;-)

[KMEM]

Aren't we all critics who have never been with BN? That seems to be your usual slant, JT; nothing is real and everyone is out to get you if you don't protect yourself. True enough; especially when one feels that way; self fulfilling phophecies and all of that.

 

BN is an actor and escort by trade or training or desire. He seems to make almost all of his clients feel better about most every thing. Isn't that part of the job description?

 

Regardless of what he does or does not do in the future, I think most of his clients are reacting to what he does now. I personally know that he has spent money on me or us during a visit. You can regard that as my money or as a discount of the fee but, regardless, he does not have to do it.

 

There seem to be two very different types of clients who hire escorts. One seems to hire for an hour or two for mainly sexual interaction. BN does not cater to that clientele but is fully capable of pleasing them. The other seems to be much more interested in the companionship offered over extended periods of time. That clientele BN does cater to and very well according to me and virtually all of his reviewers.

 

I do not know you at all except from your posts on the MC. Based upon that it would be easy for me to judge that you have a very limited and harsh view of life and of those who live and post regarding the escort world. Perhaps I am wrong but your view of BN is based upon the very same type of limited information.

 

Best regards,

KMEM

[+ deej]

You really are proud to present yourself as an idiot, aren't you?

 

>Well even though I do have the Distinction of Not knowing

>him, BUT being told to "Fuck Off" by him last year! LOL

 

AND....

 

You set us up for a conclusion but didn't make one. It appears that your conclusion is that you have special privilege having been told to fuck off.

 

Honestly, you deserved it. You can't consistently attack and expect no backlash. It's unfortunate that BN gave in to a moment of weakness but it appears you have a bit of a glass jaw here.

 

>Just because he likes to BLOG, but can't handle any Public

>Criticism, which apparently thanks to some was alot of B.S. BY

>B.N

 

Huh? What do any of these things have to do with the other?

 

BN's reaction to public criticism has been downright classy. He owned up to it, apologized, and then shut up leaving you to blather endlessly about his shortcomings. Shortcomings you admittedly know nothing about.

 

I'd say he's the winner here. He's showing a lot of class.

 

(CLUESTICK: that means you are not.)

 

>"Photoshopping" I wouldn't find very shocking at all! But all

>the defender's can go on Paying his Bills and reading his

>whatever!

 

Again, what does one have to do with the other? Do you have a point or are you just reveling in another chance to trash BN?

 

>Rock on Boys! I'm sure your HIS closest FRIENDS! LOL

 

Same here.

 

Before you respond, please put enough thought into your response to make a whole sentence. It will be a refreshing change.

 

It's time for your vendetta to end. It is a poison in this community.

[JT Brooklyn]

Vendetta? Wasn't that a Natalie Portman Movie? LOL

 

I never even responded to the F.U Remark Originally. I took the "High Road". This is the One & Only time you will ever see me even get involved in one of these "Never Ending" B.N. Discussions.

 

I guess "Boredom" must have really set in. It must be time to hookup with a NYC Hunk! LOL

 

Usually B.N. "anything" I donot read. Which I agree is a Great Option, given us all! LOL

 

Never Fear Boys.. I am back on The JT as always..."High Road"...LOL ;-)

[MiamiLooker]

>Hi Adono,

>

>At least two of his pictures are actually from him. They were

>also present on his website in July 2003 (yes, over 4 years

>ago).

>

>It's the black-and-white picture where he's sitting against

>the edge of a wall, and the color picture where he's sitting

>at the side of a river.

>

>That doesn't mean that the pictures are actually from July

>2003. They were present on his website in July 2003 (so they

>may or may not be older).

>

>This is not my opinion, just a fact.

>

>Indeed Philly Guy, he looks "much younger". :+

>

>Sincerely, Anton/Amsterdam.

>

>mobile : +31 6 2523 1001

>website : http://www.antonamsterdam.com/

>reviews : http://www.antonamsterdam.com/reviews.html

>

 

 

Anton

 

You should be careful about posting facts such as this about BN. You may find yourself the subject of a not-so-blind item posted by a classy blogger.

[Guest EuropTravl]

Kathy Griffin, Anna Nichole, OJ, Britney. His "classy" blog seems to have morphed into the poorman's D-Listed, JustJared or PerezHilton dot com.

 

(I know I know. Perez Hilton. How cruel!)

 

http://dlisted.com/files/wenn1607553.jpg

Brit-Brit being classy like Ben (from DListed).

[Louis]

While some people may think that the picture of BN that accompanies his review on the other web site is Photo Shopped. I would have to disagree. I have hung around weight rooms, weight trained myself and taught people how to weight train, and know that what you see, is the result of hard work. He changed his weight training routine, and he mentioned in his blog that he was going train differently, and was going after a different look. That was several months ago, and given the amount of time that has passed, I have no doubt that we are seeing his body.

[Vincent_Michael]

To BN'S defence I have seen clients who are in my mind nothing more than life long freinds...I live with an ex client who I consider a very dear freind! This does not happen all the time but I can say it does indeed happen.

[+ Lucky]

Here's a hint I picked up about BN"S new look in a blogger's gossip report:

 

Did anyone catch his new re-worked face, hair and body at the recent RSVP cruise? Holy cow. What a difference 13 years (and a lot of surgery) makes. He's gone with a bleached bobbed do’, obviously done some tinkering with his schnoz and now has a creepily-unlined face for a man his age. He obviously visited the body shop and got the Linda Tripp-treatment. Apparently he was tired of visiting Abercrombie & Fitch and feeling so old!I really think it’s only a matter of time before he comes out as a post-op tranny, complete with Swavorski rhinestone headdress, Noxema Jackson fringe and some hot 6" stilettos. Can you imagine a drag queen with that kind of escort knowledge? TV deals galore.

[SAdler]

Far be it for me to get involved or maybe I missed a joke but I couldn't find this supposed blogger you're quoting. I would have been interested to see who would be so venomous so I wasn't another possible target.

 

In fact, every time I googled a part of your excerpt it turned out to be a portion of BN's blog with certain words replaced. The Kato commentary re lines, the marcia clark re plastic surgery, star jones drag queen with legal knowledge.

 

Was this intentional irony of plagiarizing or are you saying that he stole this stuff from someone else too? Inquiring minds want to know, were you that bored?

[+ Lucky]

You Googled all of that? And you think I am the one with extra time on his hands!

 

Scottie, it's called parody, and people with a sense of humor, which I am sure includes BN, will get a chuckle out of it if they read Ben's blog first.

 

I would do a parody of your blog too, Scottie, if my eyes didn't glaze over after the first three sentences of self-obsessed gibberish you write.

[SAdler]

>You Googled all of that? And you think I am the one with

>extra time on his hands!

 

Four sentences dear. Cut and paste into a toolbar already on my screen. You're the one that had to search through and piece it all together.

 

>Scottie, it's called parody, and people with a sense of humor,

>which I am sure includes BN, will get a chuckle out of it if

>they read Ben's blog first.

 

I found it very amusing. Perhaps you're reading my commentary as an attack which really leads one to question why you're so defensive about it? I even commented in advance that maybe I was missing a joke since you did say that it was in someone else's blog.

 

Personally I don't typically read the aforementioned (especially gossip sections) because of my personal opinions on gossip and the like. Probably why I didn't realize it was a spoof.

 

>I would do a parody of your blog too, Scottie, if my eyes

>didn't glaze over after the first three sentences of

>self-obsessed gibberish you write.

 

Sorry you feel that way, although blogs initially started off as live journals. Pardon me for not really wanting to treat it any different. But considering a lot of my work is parody or comedic, your saying that you can't improve upon it is all the kudos I need. Thanks.

[seaboy4hire]

>The abs are completely (and quite badly) Photoshopped.

>Totally unnatural, especially for the angle of the rest of his

>body in the photo. Anyone who has ever used Photoshop can

>recognize a sloppy job.

 

I can't speak if the abs are real or not but I am sure many of us who have pics up have played with the lighting to either play up or even play down things that we do or do not like. I've done it myself on my pics but that is all I've done is play with the lighting. This isn't anything new for pic advertisements, it's been done for ages now. But I am sure that if his picture is way off someone who hires him will make mention of it. Just my half cents worth.

 

Hugs,

Greg

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