Getting a Hard-on in a "Legitimate" massage

[scudman]

I know that this subject should probably be in the masseurs area, but there is not much traffic there and I haven't gotten much feedback from my post. I'm needing some advice on this issue, because I'm heading to a 5-star resort in a couple of weeks and need to know how things work before I sign up for another massage.

 

I'm fairly new to getting massages, so I have a naive question: How often do guys get hard-ons during what is supposed to be a legitimate non-sexual massage? I know that it's safe when the masseur is nude and the whole thing is supposed to be sensual, but what happens when you're at your sports club and you're getting a massage from a really hot (but probably straight) massage therapist and you feel yourself getting a stiffie?

 

This happened to me just today. The guy was gorgeous, but I was at a very straight suburban gym and I was fighting my hardest to keep my cock in check. I kept thinking about my grandmother and other deflating topics to try to keep from making a pup tent right there on the table. Obviously being on your stomach doesn't matter, but lying face-up was a real challenge

 

Just curious, I'd love to hear if you guys have similar problems. Maybe the masseurs see it all the time and don't care. I'd love to know, because I want to keep getting massages at my workout facility, but I want to be able to relax at the same time. Oh well, maybe I should just request the dykie female that also works there....

 

Sorry to be so lengthy--any advice?

[scudman]

I know that this subject should probably be in the masseurs area, but there is not much traffic there and I haven't gotten much feedback from my post. I'm needing some advice on this issue, because I'm heading to a 5-star resort in a couple of weeks and need to know how things work before I sign up for another massage.

 

I'm fairly new to getting massages, so I have a naive question: How often do guys get hard-ons during what is supposed to be a legitimate non-sexual massage? I know that it's safe when the masseur is nude and the whole thing is supposed to be sensual, but what happens when you're at your sports club and you're getting a massage from a really hot (but probably straight) massage therapist and you feel yourself getting a stiffie?

 

This happened to me just today. The guy was gorgeous, but I was at a very straight suburban gym and I was fighting my hardest to keep my cock in check. I kept thinking about my grandmother and other deflating topics to try to keep from making a pup tent right there on the table. Obviously being on your stomach doesn't matter, but lying face-up was a real challenge

 

Just curious, I'd love to hear if you guys have similar problems. Maybe the masseurs see it all the time and don't care. I'd love to know, because I want to keep getting massages at my workout facility, but I want to be able to relax at the same time. Oh well, maybe I should just request the dykie female that also works there....

 

Sorry to be so lengthy--any advice?

[Guest Kenny]

First of all, I agree with you that the message section gets very little attention... too bad but it really should be visited.

Now for your question concerning erections while getting legitimate massages. Relax. It happens many times and masseurs are well aware of this and in all probability will ignore it. The purpose of a massage is to relax and enjoy it. If you get a hardon, let it happen and try not to let it bother you...your masseur will ignore it. If he doesn't, then just go along with whatever he does with it. They probably see it 90% of the time.

[Guest Kenny]

First of all, I agree with you that the message section gets very little attention... too bad but it really should be visited.

Now for your question concerning erections while getting legitimate massages. Relax. It happens many times and masseurs are well aware of this and in all probability will ignore it. The purpose of a massage is to relax and enjoy it. If you get a hardon, let it happen and try not to let it bother you...your masseur will ignore it. If he doesn't, then just go along with whatever he does with it. They probably see it 90% of the time.

[scudman]

Thanks Kenny.

 

That's a relief. I agree about the purpose being to relax. Stressing out about an erection sort of defeats the purpose.

 

I appreciate the response.

[scudman]

Thanks Kenny.

 

That's a relief. I agree about the purpose being to relax. Stressing out about an erection sort of defeats the purpose.

 

I appreciate the response.

[Matt_Vancouver]

It happens all the time.

I was at one of the spas in Vegas with a client of mine, and had a massage. The guy was HOT, but obviously straight, well as he was doing his job, my dick sprang to attention.(hello the wind blows and it springs to attention) No problem while I was on my stomach, but it's a little hard to disquise my meat with a thin towel while on my back. Everytime the poor guy would get close to it, it would bounce uncontrolably. He just worked around it. I kept hoping he would lose all self control and rip the towel away, but nope: (

Afterwards I apolagized for my erm.... problem. He assured me, with a sly smirk, that it happens all the time.

As it turns out my client, who chose someone else, got a nice slow hand job! I guess I made the wrong choice.

Matt(doing the tent dance)

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Matt_Vancouver]

It happens all the time.

I was at one of the spas in Vegas with a client of mine, and had a massage. The guy was HOT, but obviously straight, well as he was doing his job, my dick sprang to attention.(hello the wind blows and it springs to attention) No problem while I was on my stomach, but it's a little hard to disquise my meat with a thin towel while on my back. Everytime the poor guy would get close to it, it would bounce uncontrolably. He just worked around it. I kept hoping he would lose all self control and rip the towel away, but nope: (

Afterwards I apolagized for my erm.... problem. He assured me, with a sly smirk, that it happens all the time.

As it turns out my client, who chose someone else, got a nice slow hand job! I guess I made the wrong choice.

Matt(doing the tent dance)

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest WetDream]

Matt: think in your case it is more a "teepee" dance.

[Guest WetDream]

Matt: think in your case it is more a "teepee" dance.

[Guest biga]

Just spoke to my BF about this, he worked as a professional masseur in a health club for a couple of years and he says that at least 50% or more of the guys he saw got a hard on during the session on several occasions people even came during the sessions much to their embarrasment he also said that at one point he used to try and make every male client hard during the massage without even going near their dick so i wouldnt worry about it too much i bet there are some stories to be told ! cheers A.

[Guest biga]

Just spoke to my BF about this, he worked as a professional masseur in a health club for a couple of years and he says that at least 50% or more of the guys he saw got a hard on during the session on several occasions people even came during the sessions much to their embarrasment he also said that at one point he used to try and make every male client hard during the massage without even going near their dick so i wouldnt worry about it too much i bet there are some stories to be told ! cheers A.

[Guest biga]

PS should explain that this was a "straight"health club with "straight"clients.Sorry 2 much sunshine .Cheers Andy

[Guest biga]

PS should explain that this was a "straight"health club with "straight"clients.Sorry 2 much sunshine .Cheers Andy

[+ nycman]

When I was a kid in the late 70's/early 80's I got my hands on an exhaustive sex education book for teenagers. It had many transcripts from "rap sessions" where teenagers talked about various topics (periods, masturbation, etc.)

 

There was a section on males going through puberty and getting erections at "inappropriate" times (i.e. chemistry class). One kid said that he dealt with this problem whenever it "arose" by thinking about non-sexual things....like volleyball.

 

Yep, you guessed it! Now over 20 years later, whenever I get a massage and I start to feel an erection coming on....Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball. It doesn't really work anymore but I get a kick every time I catch myself thinking...Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball.

[+ nycman]

When I was a kid in the late 70's/early 80's I got my hands on an exhaustive sex education book for teenagers. It had many transcripts from "rap sessions" where teenagers talked about various topics (periods, masturbation, etc.)

 

There was a section on males going through puberty and getting erections at "inappropriate" times (i.e. chemistry class). One kid said that he dealt with this problem whenever it "arose" by thinking about non-sexual things....like volleyball.

 

Yep, you guessed it! Now over 20 years later, whenever I get a massage and I start to feel an erection coming on....Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball. It doesn't really work anymore but I get a kick every time I catch myself thinking...Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball.

[Guest bottomboykk]

Like others have said, it's perfectly normal. And who knows, it may lead to something fun. I now have a great relationship with a masseur who's mostly straight, but likes to play on occasion. The first time I used his services, I was completely nude, and I was trying so hard not to get hard. I finally decided "what the fuck," and I let nature take its course, and I got fully hard. He asked me if I'd like him to finish the job, and he started jacking me off. I then started to play with him, and we started sucking each other. That was the extent of it that first time. Now, he automatically gets nude when we start, and it always ends up with him fucking me long and hard up my ass. We have a lot of fun. (In fact, I'm getting majorly hard thinking about him, and realizing it's time to call him again!!) He's married with 6 kids, and says he doesn't play with other guys (who knows if that's true), but he always gets hard as soon as we start the massage (he does a great massage, too).

 

The moral of the story is, let nature take its course, and see what happens. Regardless, don't worry about it.

[Guest bottomboykk]

Like others have said, it's perfectly normal. And who knows, it may lead to something fun. I now have a great relationship with a masseur who's mostly straight, but likes to play on occasion. The first time I used his services, I was completely nude, and I was trying so hard not to get hard. I finally decided "what the fuck," and I let nature take its course, and I got fully hard. He asked me if I'd like him to finish the job, and he started jacking me off. I then started to play with him, and we started sucking each other. That was the extent of it that first time. Now, he automatically gets nude when we start, and it always ends up with him fucking me long and hard up my ass. We have a lot of fun. (In fact, I'm getting majorly hard thinking about him, and realizing it's time to call him again!!) He's married with 6 kids, and says he doesn't play with other guys (who knows if that's true), but he always gets hard as soon as we start the massage (he does a great massage, too).

 

The moral of the story is, let nature take its course, and see what happens. Regardless, don't worry about it.

[Guest]

Wow. I guess I've never really had a totally legitimate massage, least of all a straight one. I always thought straight guys got massages from women. Maybe I'm wrong on that? They offer massages at my gym, but I haven't availed myself, because I assumed I'd have to get a massage from a woman. In straight clubs, do guys usually get massages from other guys? God, how heterosexuals confuse me! :-)

[Guest]

Wow. I guess I've never really had a totally legitimate massage, least of all a straight one. I always thought straight guys got massages from women. Maybe I'm wrong on that? They offer massages at my gym, but I haven't availed myself, because I assumed I'd have to get a massage from a woman. In straight clubs, do guys usually get massages from other guys? God, how heterosexuals confuse me! :-)

[CT Dick]

A (18 yo+) high school boy getting erect in chemistry class sounds so arousing.

 

Everytime I want to get hard, I'll think "Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball."

 

Dick

[CT Dick]

A (18 yo+) high school boy getting erect in chemistry class sounds so arousing.

 

Everytime I want to get hard, I'll think "Volleyball, Volleyball, Volleyball."

 

Dick

[fedssocr1]

I used to go to a legit massage place downtown from time to time. All of the guys working there are gay and they advertize in the gay paper. My masseur is an adorable little guy who does a great massage. I never fought the erection. He says it's perfectly normal and not a big deal. I figure he's seen lots of them. He never touched it though and was always very professional...other than blabbing away about his personal life the whole time. I haven't been back there in a while...

 

I also used to have massages from a guy who escorted for a while and then switched to just massage. He was doing the required hours to get certified. It was kind of a grey area though I think with him. He never refused when I asked him to get naked (he was an exhibitionist for sure, and drop dead gorgeous) and he'd let me suck his cock while he finished me off by hand. Unfortunately he got a boyfriend and gave up the massage thing. Now he's a real estate agent. He's was great at massage though and a very nice guy. Ahhh, memories.

[fedssocr1]

I used to go to a legit massage place downtown from time to time. All of the guys working there are gay and they advertize in the gay paper. My masseur is an adorable little guy who does a great massage. I never fought the erection. He says it's perfectly normal and not a big deal. I figure he's seen lots of them. He never touched it though and was always very professional...other than blabbing away about his personal life the whole time. I haven't been back there in a while...

 

I also used to have massages from a guy who escorted for a while and then switched to just massage. He was doing the required hours to get certified. It was kind of a grey area though I think with him. He never refused when I asked him to get naked (he was an exhibitionist for sure, and drop dead gorgeous) and he'd let me suck his cock while he finished me off by hand. Unfortunately he got a boyfriend and gave up the massage thing. Now he's a real estate agent. He's was great at massage though and a very nice guy. Ahhh, memories.

[+ deej]

>I've never really had a totally legitimate massage,

>least of all a straight one. I always thought straight

>guys got massages from women.

 

You know, I've tried to avoid responding to this but it keeps coming back to me and I'm not sure how to word the response.

 

We (the gay community) spend a lot of time saying that the stereotype (of the gay community) isn't what we are.

 

And in the same breath we perpetuate other stereotypes that are convenient. Str8 men get massages only from women, black men have big dicks, muscle guys are big-ole bottoms, etc.

 

If we want the str8 community to take us seriously, shouldn't we drop a few of the stereotypes from our side as well?

 

I'm sorry. I'm not saying this well. Don't mean to be accusatory or whiney, but well, I'm being accusatory and whiney. ;-)

 

The sooner WE drop the categories, the sooner THEY will.