Escorts who bareback

[MikeBiDude]

Long time lurker here...put rare poster with a question (or commentary).

 

I have been with, and have had friends visit with - escorts who freely offer to bareback. They either say "no problem", or "you're married so it's cool", or "just don't cum in me", or "these condoms get in the way sometimes" or something of that nature. It's been many years since I participated in bareback sex, and the last 2 times I did risk it were with escorts who offered it up bare with comments like those above.

 

I never wrote a review, because I know the escort gets "the last word" here, and that's fine. All the escort has to say is "I've never barebacked" and that's it, and the review is also then in doubt. So I've kept quiet.

 

On occasion I see reviews go up on nice, hot, friendly escorts here - and I KNOW they offer to bareback behind closed doors. I guess I'm just curious what - if anything - should be said, mentioned, etc.?? Is keeping quiet the best? Does it really matter anyway?

 

Just something I've been wanting to get off my chest.

[joel304]

The first escort I was with (through a reputable NYC agency) took my condom off during the act, stating that it hurt. Needless to say, I ended the session immediately. He was a nice, and seemingly intelligent 22 year old guy. With that behavior, he'll be lucky to see thirty!

 

I didn't review him.

[guptasa1]

I don't think barebacking is a wise practice to get into (unless between exclusive partners or in very safe conditions). That said, I know a lot of guys do this, and I feel it is their choice as long as both partners consent (not that I feel it's a good one).

 

Would I see an escort who I knew barebacked sometimes? Probably if I really liked the person and we talked it over.

 

But I would also make SURE he knew that I didn't and wouldn't bareback (and possibly ask if he knew his status, though that's of course no guarantee at all). If he wasn't comfortable with using a condom every time with me, then I wouldn't choose to be with him.

 

As far as the reviews, that's a touchy subject in itself. I had to review an otherwise very nice escort who removed his condom during sex without telling me (I noticed, but only AFTER the fact, though I did stop it pretty early). I didn't like reviewing him, but I felt I had to. (Now if an escort simply ASKED to bareback and I said no and he was fine with that and played safe from then on, I wouldn't mention it in a review. Nor would I if something nobody's fault happened [a condom breaking for example]).

 

Just my opinion.

[Southern Blue Suicide]

I was looking over M4RN during some free time and I noticed that Rob(studly4hire) mentioned Spunk Video in his ad. I'd never heard of the company and visited their site. He appears in their EXCLUSIVE Bareback Bedroom film. I find that chilling!

 

And I was super surprised at the number of guys I've seen reviewed on this site or listing on M4RN performing in bareback movies according to the casts lists on bareback movie websites.

 

In 5-10 minutes, I saw:

 

Sergio Real

 

Chris Neal

 

Alan Gregory

 

Flex Dion

 

 

That's very sad.

 

 

Wear those condoms

 

Do your homework before hiring

 

 

-mc-

[CT Dick]

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>Do your homework before hiring

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>-mc-

 

Why, MC? Are you going to be any less careful ('safe') with an escort who doesn't admit to barebacking than with one who is open about it?

 

As said before, the assumption is that every partner is poz.x(

 

Dick

[Vincent_Michael]

I have to laugh at all this “its shocking that he did a bare backing video” Gasp I have been stricken with fear that he may have something…Look they wouldn’t make videos like that if people on a mass scale didn’t buy them and I personally think videos without condoms are much hotter because I remember what bare backing feels like and damn it feels awesome!

 

As for an STD where all at risk and wearing a condom does not protect you from many STD’s in fact some condoms don’t even protect you from HIV…

 

Also the concept of only have unsafe sex with a partner whom you can trust is bogus as many people who have HIV get it from there partners because they trusted them all too much…Now that being said risk is apart of life and you have to go with it and be careful when you can but not freak out because someone is in a BB Video.

[+ deej]

Thank you for saying it, Dick.

[+ Italiano]

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>>Do your homework before hiring

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>>-mc-

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>Why, MC? Are you going to be any less careful ('safe') with

>an escort who doesn't admit to barebacking than with one who

>is open about it?

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>As said before, the assumption is that every partner is poz.x(

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>Dick

 

 

KOODOS from me too, Dick.

[uptownmike]

Mr Michael:

Your grammar is atrocious and it's difficult to follow your thought

patterns, but it seems you disagree with those above.

 

THANKS for presenting a different point of view

[Vincent_Michael]

I understand it has bad grammar but so what this isn’t a letter to anyone I need to impress…serious common if you read what I wrote you will see that offer a different view only because it is almost comical at these men who write how BB Videos are bad and what not.

 

But I will try to improve the gramer

[Guest ncm2169]

Michael, I seriously hope your new "husband" understands you. Because this latest post makes NO sense at all. Good Luck in your new life!! }(

[HotdadENYC]

>I understand it has bad grammar but so what this isn’t a

>letter to anyone I need to impress…serious common if you read

>what I wrote you will see that offer a different view only

>because it is almost comical at these men who write how BB

>Videos are bad and what not.

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>But I will try to improve the gramer

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Don't mean to smash you any further, but I was under the impression that good grammer, spelling, writing and speaking were reflections of one's self-worth and not vehicles just to impress others. I find it a matter of pride that I speak and write well, read voraciously, dress well when appropriate, etc. Its a PERSONAL choice, and if I impress others in the process, then so be it.

 

To just toss a response out there, on this forum (or any other, for that matter) without regard for good form is analagous to growing mushrooms with the organic material we often call shit.

 

hd NYC

[+ deej]

>I was under the impression that good grammer, spelling

 

>I find it a matter of pride that I speak and write well

 

Then you of course know it's spelled grammar.

 

Your point is taken, but your Freudian Slip is showing. :+

[Vincent_Michael]

Ok point well taken that writing, spelling and speech is a good indicator of a man and what he can offer to the table however I have to beg to daffier when you say that it is a measure of self worth…I think it is a mans actions that speak louder than words. Trust me if you think dressing well and spelling well is your measure then something is totally off base…

 

Also remember this is an escort message bored not a letter a CEO.

[BobbyThompson]

Does it really matter if you mention it in the review? I don't think it will help nor hinder the escort's business or public safety. The reactions will balance each other out; equal parts determent and curiousity. That being said, it implies that there are degrees of safety that should be taken depending on the person, when really you should follow the same regimen with everyone. I hear people say quite frequently, "Oooo...be safe with him." As if to say, "Oh, don't worry about that one."

 

Scarily enough, you have to just accept that with sex you are taking a risk and if you don't find it acceptable then you should be celibate. Any doctor will tell you that that it is impossible to protect yourself completely from STD's and STI's. It's all about diligent safer sex and lady luck.

[BobbyThompson]

>Ok point well taken that writing, spelling and speech is a

>good indicator of a man and what he can offer to the table

>however I have to beg to daffier when you say that it is a

>measure of self worth…I think it is a mans actions that speak

>louder than words. Trust me if you think dressing well and

>spelling well is your measure then something is totally off

>base…

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>Also remember this is an escort message bored not a letter a

>CEO.

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I agree, Vincent, but all we have are your words. I think it is distracting people from what you are trying to say. It is completely negating the strength of your thoughts and causing people to instantly dismiss your post. It's like the first edition of Ulysses, which had over 10,000 typos in it until it was set in type by Frenchmen who didn't understand a word of what they were reading and pretty much guessed. If we have to decipher you, we're going to reinterpret your message. I'm sure that's not what you want.

 

(Sorry for the lofty simile)

[Vincent_Michael]

Yes you have only my word to judge me on here by true but it is common knowledge that my spelling sucks and grammar as well…do I need to explain why once more? I do call my self the Spelling boy as a joke as id hope someone with a slight intelligence would understand why.

 

As for Typos common I can’t tell you how many posts I have seen criticizing me for spelling and grammar then they have there own typos as well and often are worse then my own.

[BobbyThompson]

Vincent, I was trying to avoid that sort of behavior, or at least try and veil it, but that's the second time you've called me stupid all the while managing to mangle the English language beyond compare.

 

If I were your keyboard, I would throw myself off the highest bridge I could find.

[Vincent_Michael]

Bobby Please don’t call your self stupid as I never did...I have never once ever called you stupid. In fact I only once said you’re a blond nothing more nothing less. If you want to walk away from my posts thinking I am calling you stupid fine but please don’t imagine words that I never posted on and then claim it to be true.

 

Maybe it was in all that hard deciphering that you had to do when reading my horrible posts due to my grammar and spelling?

[JT Brooklyn]

IMHO..I think we have some Escorts, who have to much time on their hands..We went from a serious topic BB'ing..to a Communication Snafu! I am sure if you ask all the guys taking all the drugs to stay alive, they would not say "I would do it all again"..A conversation between the guys "AFFECTED"-INFECTED, would definitely be of more use in making decisions! :+

[augustman]

I find that Bobby and VM are on the same side the main subject of this post, despite the bickering. But first to address the side post of V-M’s writing style. It was the first thing that attracted me to him and he is as he is no more, no less. His writing style works great in the subject areas that require a bit of lightening up or on everyday life. Where his style is detracting is when a more serious subject matter is discussed and he is trying to make a point. And in this case point well taken, just more difficult to read and maybe put better by Bobby. I think it is very important to continue to receive input from the escorts on all these subject matters regardless of the level of English used. So V-M I hope you continue to post even after you have left the field good or bad English. Bobby and the rest of guys please continue to post, we need your side.

 

As note to keep my English grammar and spelling up to snuff I have been writing my posts in word first and copy them into here to clean up the bad spots.

 

V-M and Bobby are correct and I would have thought most clients would know that if you continue to use escorts, no matter how well you know them the risks are there for all the diseases. As was discussed at great length in an earlier post “How do you know if an escort has STD’s”. How do you know the guy or gal at the bar you pick up has anything. I would say if this were your number one concern than please don’t hire again. Buy some porn toys and have fun at home. To be appalled at porn industry that they may allow this,

PLEASE! I thought I was naïve. When you drool when that cum shot smacks a guy in the face and maybe hits him in the eye. What is the difference between that and going bareback? What about the shots that does not get on film. You think none of them finds and opening. Couple of weeks ago that happened by me to the escort I was with, I forgot to say careful I could shoot with some distance. Wham got him right in the eye. I was mad at myself for not being more careful, but the escort did not get angry with me. There is no question there is allure to barebacking. If you are concerned then if I were you I would look at the bare back sites. You will find some well-known escorts listed there. Plus how many times when I read a review do I see the client has tasted or swallowed the whole load?

 

I had a very well known escort on this site on the second time we met convince me to bottom for him bareback. I did it, did get tested twice since then and all is fine. But I was way to nervous after so I have chosen to not do it since. But I do not think anything less of the escort just that I have decided not to do bareback . I have thought about doing it again, but common sense has said no. But that hardly means that I think I do not run a significant increase in catching a disease or for that matter passing one onto the escort. Hopefully, I have reduced my risk, but I am not going to be celibate.

[Guest ChgoBoy]

Excuse my ignorance, but what is an STI?

[Barry]

>Excuse my ignorance, but what is an STI?

 

Sexually Transmitted Infection

 

Barry

[Guest ChgoBoy]

>>Excuse my ignorance, but what is an STI?

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>Sexually Transmitted Infection

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>Barry

 

Thanks Barry!

[Vincent_Michael]

JT I totally agree I have way to much time on my hands right now and I want everyone to assume that someone is HIV+ so they use protection I just had to make some jokes on this subject as well.