A Poll--Of Sorts...

[Guest TFNH]

Since I contacted you privately before your post you already know my feelings about this, but for the public record...STAY, keep contibuting, and I am glad that you have reconsidered your position.

[Guest DCescortBOY]

Yes, I know. I promised to find my very own cyber-Saint Helena & banish myself. I'm actually still leaning that way. In speaking with some people privately, it has been brought to my attention that there may be some members of the board community who might be sorry to see me go. It seems SOME misguided individuals enjoy my postings--even those with which they disagree--and appreciate my contributions (which often present the "other side" of the proverbial story).

 

This brings me--finally (hey! longwinded isn't necessarily a bad thing!)--to the point of this post. I'm initiating a poll. Should I stay & contribute, or should I leave permanently? EVERYONE is welcome to weigh in. NOONE will be contacted (by me) privately. There will be NO negative consequences to voting either way.

 

PLEASE, only vote by replying to this post. The choices are: 1) STAY and 2)LEAVE. Anything equivocal or "I really don't care" will NOT be counted in the tally. If you say "Stay, but change" or "Leave, but think about returning" ONLY the stay or leave part will count. Each person gets one vote; everyone's valid vote (stay/go) counts. I however, will not be voting.

 

I have no preset expiration for the poll. It will end when the thread gets buried in the dustbin for lack of new messages.

 

Thanks. I'd really appreciate full participation. :-)

[Justice]

I vote for you to stay[/nofont].

[Guest DCescortBOY]

Addendum

 

I've decided that anyone who says "I don't care" will count as a LEAVE vote.

[Guest cp8036]

RE: Addendum

 

Stay

 

is nice to hear your side of the story. Sure you can speak for many escorts. Dont worry if some people get their panties in a knot. We cannot please all the people all the time.

[+ deej]

I vote stay which will probably surprise you. I may disagree with you often, but I'm as glad to have you around as I'm glad to have ALL members of our community around.

 

Pull up a chair and grab a beer from the cooler. Put your feet up. Relax.

 

Now let's dish! LOL!

 

It's just us boys here.

 

(If I was more into the leather or "dominance" thing I'd say SIT, UBU, SIT!)

 

Just hang with us babe. We're really not that bad.

[Boston Guy]

Stay.

 

You bring value to this place and I hope you take away something useful as well.

 

We are separated by 30 years in age and experience and see life through different eyes. But I often find your posts interesting and thought-provoking.

 

In all honesty, there are times when you are too quick too judge or too quick with an unkind or careless comeback -- in my opinion -- and, as you know, I might have mentioned that once or twice before. :-)

 

I think this can be a difficult place for an escort and knowing when and how to respond to threads must be challenging. I've seen a lot of escorts crash and burn in here.

 

Many times, I think it's because of something that lots of us do here. It's the same thing that one of my boyfriends and I used to do: we'd say something or do something and convince ourselves we knew exactly what the other one was thinking. And then we'd get mad at him for thinking that. When everything cooled down, it would usually turn out the other person wasn't thinking that at all and it was all over nothing. (We finally promised each other not to do that any more.)

 

Since you can't see or hear the people on the other ends of these threads, I think it's easy to simply misjudge what's written. Usually, in this kind of case, I go away and come back later and see if I still feel the same way about what was written. Time does make a difference.

 

But all of this is just my opinion. Have faith in yourself. Don't take too much stock in my opinion, or anyone else's for that matter. Believe in yourself and trust your own judgment.

 

And relax and have fun.

 

BG

[+ bigjoey]

stay----your point of view adds alot to the postings.

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

Hmm, well my views are well known (at least to Ethan) but I notice the suspicious absence of message number 4 for this thread. Is this a hanging or dimpled chad, Deej? ;-)

 

Esc-Tracker

[Guest WetDream]

Stay -- but read BG's post at least twice.

[Bilbo]

Stay

 

However, I don't see how you can say that you won't feel oddly in the future when you are conversing with someone whom you know tried to vote you "off the island." You might want to print out BG's suggestions for ready reference at such times. I mean, there are certain people here whom I would assume would vote for me to leave and I already sometimes loose my cool at them way too easily without having that particular assumption confirmed.

[Barry]

STAY. I have enjoyed reading and even sparring with you. :-) The board needs diversity and you add to that.

 

I echo what others have said about cyber talk. It's only words, completely unattached to voices, intonation, facial expression and body language. So easily misinterpreted. We all need to remember that when in the environmnet.

[Guest DCescortBOY]

why does it say 10 messages, but only 8 show up?

i'm concerned that some of my detractors aren't being givin the opportunity to have their voices heard.

 

DAMNIT! THIS IS THE LAST TIME I LET SOME FEMALE DEMOCRAT FROM PALM BEACH COUNTY DESIGN MY BALLOT!

[Guest DCescortBOY]

i can say with certainty that i wouldn't hold a grudge against someone who votes me off. there's no million dollar prize i forfeit if i leave.

again, no negative consequences to suggesting that i leave.

 

also, and i don't mean this to be any kind of slam against BG, but, i'm quite happy being myself. i'd no sooner print out his suggestions than i would ask julie andrews to approve my actions.

[Guest Kevin 2]

STAY We don't need to lose anymore escorts from this board.

PS ...Have you guys noticed this guys cock? OMG I'm surprised he doesn't passout when he gets a hard on, DAMN that thing is HUGE! ;-) And I swear I'm NOT a size queen!!

[Losgatan]

DC,

 

By all means, please stay. One of the main benefits of this board is the sharing of viewpoints and concerns between clients and escorts. I may not agree with everything you post, but I will certainly consider and respect it.

 

As for the few malcontents here who delight in shredding other participants, I can only suggest that you ignore them. That's what I've been doing for the past several weeks. I want to enjoy myself here, not engage in mudslinging contests.

[Guest jc92103]

Can You send me a pic before I vote? Just kidding !!...STAY!!

[N.N.]

Stay.

[NASAguy]

I'd say to you what I would say to everyone who ever posted (including some who appear to be on the almost universal "dislike" list such as WorldEscortSean or Nick): STAY. Even though I can be terribly frustrated by certain posters, I would not want to silence them.

Having said that, I would add, FORGET THIS STUPID POLL. Make up your own mind and do want YOU want, not what others think you should do. What makes this center interesting is the free thinkers (such as WorldEscortSean and Nick, lol) and not the sheep.

[Guest biga]

STAY-the more views the better

[Guest Zach DC]

Please stay.

[Guest spendlove]

Are all escorts this self-absorbed, or is it just the ones who frequent this message board?

[Guest Esc_Tracker]

>Are all escorts this self-absorbed, or

>is it just the ones

>who frequent this message board?

>

 

By and large, those escorts who stay on this message board (many visit and soon flee) are those who can put up with gratuitously insulting asides.

 

Esc-Tracker

[Guest regulation]

Spendlove, some of the escorts who frequent this message board are quite decent chaps. You can tell them from the others very easily. Their posts are usually about something other than themselves.

[Guest spendlove]

From what I've seen, anyone who posts here has to put up with gratuitously insulting remarks. Is there some rule that says escorts should be exempt from this?