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How do you write a letter like this? I don’t know and I hope the words find me to be totally honest and to be truth full I am scared writing this letter to everyone out there. This has been some of the best 8months of my life I must admit to you folks…but all good things must come to an end and with this chapter ending in my life comes a new begging with the man I love and more importantly my soul mate.

 

Some of you know me very well and have not herd a whisper of me falling in love but I am sure you might have guessed something was going on. Let me explain what has been happing in my life as of late.

 

I was on gay.com over a month ago and told some guy he had cute glasses and from there we chatted and chatted some more and then I called him…to my surprise from that moment on I was just thrilled to even speak to him! I was graced every time he sent me a txt message! I got to meet him one month ago for some dinner and tea…we hit it off! We had deep talks about life and I felt like I could see into this mans soul, I was about to go over and gave a much unexpected kiss to the lips…paused then gave him a real kiss. Once our lips locked one word hit my head like a ton of bricks….He is the ONE.

 

We dated a few times but it was as if our souls were not only meant to be together but knew each other….a few dates became all the time and everyday. I know some of this stuff I am about to write is sentimental crap so if you don’t like that stuff please click back LOL.

 

I started spending the night all the time with him even though he has a cat…as some of you know I am very allergic to cats and I got my medication in full gear to be able to spend the night all the time with this awesome guy…Correction my soul mate! I at one week of dating decided to jump over a cliff and just blurt out how I feel for him…So I got a Luis and Clark Bicentennial coin and a Gold American Eagle, I gave him the Luis and Clark coin and told him that this was a symbol of us...That we will be on a journey of exploration together from here on out and the Gold Eagle would give us wings to fly along on that journey. I told him then that he is the one, not just anyone but THE ONE! I was shocked and amazed to hear him say he felt the same but the best part for me was I already knew it in my heart of hearts.

 

I had some major issues to be worked out along the way for sure, One being escorting…I didn’t know how he would act when I told him I wasn’t going to quit this second for escorting. There was silence and then a pause, we came to an agreement. I could keep escorting but with a time frame…I am set to retire at the end of May. At the end of the summer he is most likely will move to another city once he finishes school….and I am going to follow him.

 

Last night I went to see a concert…and a few things hit me all at once…

 

As weird as this sounds I asked him to marry me and he said yes…now when is uncertain but it is going to happen I am sure of that.

 

I know allot of you say I should take my time and that patience is a virtue…but as many of you know and I am sure you can see by my typing I am not a very patent man and very intense! I have never been so sure of something in my life so I am willing to do anything for this person.

 

I will keep posting don’t you worry men as the Spelling Boy is always aware! It has been awesome and I am so great full that you have all taken me in your arms and given me so much mentally and privately! With this I must say the in is near for me!

 

LOVE YOU ALL!

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I'm devastated!! You've been on my list of guys I want to meet and now that chance is gone. :(

 

But, congratulations on finding someone. Very glad you'll still be active in the Message Center. I always enjoyed your posts (spelling and all). Best of luck and I hope you give this relationship your whole attention.

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Guest skrubber

Congratulations Vince. Although I only met you once I still think of our short time together with fond memories. Would have liked to seen you again but that's out the window now. Glad to see you're still spelling like a champ.

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Guest Mikel

Hey,

 

Best wishes...if you don't walk this road, you will always regret that you didn't. Most importantly, you need to learn to listen to your inner voice...for better or worse...you must learn all about that inner voice...and you can never correct a zero...you must give some response, your best guess...to that inner voice.

 

Wishing you well and a love that will multiply the intensity of your good times and sustain you through your challenging times...that would make you fortunate!

 

Mikel

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Michael-I hope that you have found your true love and total contentment. I wish you all the best. Since we couldn't break into the Philadelphia Mint. I know just how much the coins you gave meant to you. Please keep in touch and let us share in your love

 

Candyman

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VM

 

I am very happy for you. Enjoy every minute and cherish every second.

 

Sorry I never got to meet you professionally... but maybe someday I'll get to give you a platonic hug. Until then....here's an ehug!

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Me either...don't understand it...what's wrong with committing your love to someone for life...how is that selfish??? Oh well, different opinions about things is what makes life interesting. VM willkeep all things in perspective...I'm sure.

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