Help finding good first time escort

[noviceny]

You guys were extremely helpful with info about preparing for first time bottoming. Now its time for me to take the plunge. I would really appreciate your help in finding someone who is good at this and cool with inexperience. I have done the escort thing numerous time, but have never kissed, sucked or fucked. Only really wanted to kiss one guy that Ive been with, but was too embarassed cause Ive only kissed chicks and knew I would be fumbling and awkward. If you would be so kind, help me out with a guy in the NY area. I have set my sights on the week of January 16th. It is part of one of my New Year's Resolutions to try and explore stuff I want but have always denied myself.

 

What Im about :

 

I dont know if you guys can tell from my posts, but I am incredibly cool :-) The one thing that I am not is polished. Many of you seem to be extremely well read and innately intelligent. I imagine that your manners and the way you speak (outside of the sexual realm), would be impeccable. The way I speak (although I, for the most part, do not write this way) is pretty NY Bronx...actually its kind of ghetto if Im with people with whom I feel comfortable. Straight escorts seem to be real comfortable with this, but I am nervous that I will be judged. I can, of course, speak appropriately for all occasions, but I would like someone with whom I can be myself, and not be treated less for it.

 

I am, by no means, an idiot or ignorant. I have a Masters in Clinical Social Work and have lived in NY, the Midwest and overseas. Traveled in Europe, Asia, Mexico, South America and Mexico (always alone...I love to do what I want to do and have gained a great feeling of independance from world travel without assistance or companionship)

I speak two languages and have a world view that I have found, is very different from guys/people my age (35) in the US.

 

I like to play around and have fun. I like my friends that I can laugh with and be stupid sometimes. I am definitely not a bufoon, but really like to laugh and just be me.

 

I am most definitely masculine, but social work has put me in deep touch with my own feelings and the feelings of others.

 

Attributes that I would like in an escort :

 

A kind person who is fairly intuitive, since I am easy to read and I can show what I like better than verbalizing it. Muscles are an incredible turn on for me, but no need to be a competitive bodybuilder. Good shape, solid, some cut are cool with me. Definitely an arms/chest/abs guy (in that order). I also find myself attracted to guys with confidence and who are a little bit of a show off. Love a guy who can flex and be a bit cocky :-)

 

Also, Like someone who is verbal and can talk a good game...I was always the one to tell my girl that I was gonna make her cum and it would be cool to have someone who could do that to me. Ive got a bit of an edge to me and it would be cool if the guy for me did also.

 

Guys that I have looked at, read reviews and are on my list. They are in no particular order :

 

1) Adam #3 - NYC

 

2) Eric - NYC

 

3) Mike Grey - NYC

 

4) Steven Draker - always thought this guy was great - posts, body,

reviews,etc. and it happens that he will be in NYC

that week...fate ?

 

I know this is a bit long and I feel like I just wrote a personal ad, but what the hell. Id rather give ya too much info than too little.

 

BTW, escorts can definitely give me suggestions if they know cool people in around NYC.

 

Thanks a lot

 

peace,

 

J

[Juan Vancouver]

Hey handsome!

I am so glad to read your post!

I have never hear of another new year's resolution that is more joyful and worthy. I really hope that you will find the right guy, and I hope with all my heart that that session will only be the hot beginning of a fulfilling sexual life for you.

 

Such a shame that we are so far away! I LOVE to spend time with not very experienced people. I find that process totally endearing and fun, and I LOVE to see the expresion on their faces when they learn something new about themselves... (Man, I am growing a boner writing this) }(

I can only share with you a very important tool to better this session with whoever you choose. It is a very magic mantra, used in Tantric practices... The mantra is:

"Give me a second... I need a little time to fully enjoy this..." It is to be repeated after a deep breath, whenever you are feeling rushed, shy, silly, or in pain. If you have to laugh, laugh. If you have to take a break, do so. Listen to your body and be assertive when sharing your needs. You escort will know that he has to respect that and create a safe environment for you to be totally relaxed and comfortable. Remember that the most important thing when exploring new things, is to fully be able to BE there. No pressure, no rush, no shame... After all, sex and intimacy is a constant process of mutual learning from each other.

 

My best wishes to you, and lots of success!!:9

[+ glutes]

>1) Adam #3 - NYC

>

>2) Eric - NYC

>

>3) Mike Grey - NYC

>

>4) Steven Draker - always thought this guy was great - posts,

>body,

> reviews,etc. and it happens that he will be

>in NYC

> that week...fate ?

>

 

Of the 4, I'm only familiar with Mr. Draker. He is a top drawer, first class gentleman.

When you say 'verbal', I can't imagine him topping you while he yanks on your earlobe saying "Squeal like a pig!". He is worldy, and very, very intuitive.

Peace Novice

[Guest Smoothee]

Seems like the perfect guys for you are Derek Ross and/or Rick Munroe. Great bodies, amazing kissers and funny as hell. Go for it!!! :9 }( ;-)

[Epigonos]

Hey Noviceny great to hear you are ready to take the plunge. I can't recommend Dane Scott highly enough. He has all the qualities you seem to be seeking. You can reach him at 917-575-6746 or DaneScottNY@aol.com. He has numerous excellent reviews on this site including one from me. You will have a GREAT first experience with this guy.

[Lankypeters]

Ross and Munroe are great, I agree. Very inventive, they deliver.

 

You might also try Ross at NYC's Maximum. He has beautiful, solid arms, shoulders and chest and a big, beautiful succulent dick. He's very friendly,engaging, straightforward -- zero attitude -- and knows how to please.

 

All three are good for first-timers, or any-timers, really.

 

Lankypeters

[Lankypeters]

To clarify the above -- perhaps some confusion therein with two guys named Ross. By Ross and Munroe, I refer to Derek Ross, partner of that great scribe and hot teddy, Rick Munroe. Derek is a top, perhaps a consideration for a first time, since he's good at taking the lead. (No offense, Rick; great dancers know the beauty of being on the bottom of a dip (or a dick); just ask Ginger Rogers.)

 

Ross at NYC's Maximum is the nom de dick of one of their top escorts.

 

Two guys named Ross -- either one can be more than enuf.

[noviceny]

Thanks a lot guys !!!

 

I have added Derek Ross and Dane Scott to my list. I looked up Ross from Maximum escorts and he looks cool, but Id rather not go through an agency. Id rather go directly to the guy and talk to him myself.

 

I actually never though of Derek and/or Rick...I dont know why I keep thinking they are not in NYC...have read some of Derek's reviews and he sounds like a very cool guy. That is very important to me : the coolness factor. Sense of humor is definitely there too, which is a great plus.

 

I think I will stick with my list and go from there. If anyone has someone who they think is just incredible, or wants to recommend one of these guys on "The List" let me know.

 

I figure that I will narrow it down to two guys and then contact them, to speak with them personally.

 

Guys, you hooked me up...good looking out fellas !!!

[Funseeker 22]

If you`re a little on the nervous side (natural way to be) then I think Steven would be a great first time experience.

He can be as mild and as wild as you want and that body !!!!!!. :9

[pierrot]

I think you should consider that there is a lot of hype here for escorts that post often on the message board. Steve Draker might be great, I don't know, but Rick Munroe is probably not for you. I found him disappointing, he no longer looks like his photos, and is a bit chunky and bear-like. I got the impression you were looking to be topped, and Rick is definitely a bottom. He also only does oral (though he does that quite well) unless you make specific pre-arrangements. Derek, is a top, and last I saw him was still muscular and in good shape.

The only one of the guys you mentioned that I've seen is Mike Grey, and he is everything he advertises: great bod, definitely top and aggressive, well hung. I think he'd be a good "fit" for you.

[Rick Munroe]

>Rick Munroe is probably not

>for you. I found him disappointing, he no longer looks like

>his photos, and is a bit chunky and bear-like. I got the

>impression you were looking to be topped, and Rick is

>definitely a bottom. He also only does oral (though he does

>that quite well) unless you make specific pre-arrangements.

 

LOL :7 As my friend from Long Island would say, "Oh jeez!" I think the guys I've topped (recently and in the past) would be surprised to hear that I am "definitely a bottom." I also do not "only do oral," and it's common knowlege from my posts and reviews that yes, when I bottom, I prefer to know in advance because I like to be sure I'm super clean (I wish everyone thought like that). Anyway, if you were disappointed, I'm sorry about that.

 

As for the not-so-flattering remarks about my body...all I can say is that the camera will have to come out of hibernation to disprove them, as Mike Grey had to do recently when someone made the same claims about him. I don't know when we supposedly met but I told anyone who hired me during a certain period last year that I wasn't in my best condition (if you read my review # 49, that client even says: "Rick had warned me that he wasn't in tip-top shape because of an injury he'd sustained earlier in the summer and his inability to work out much while he recuperated. He looked great to me, somewhere in his 30s, as advertised." Ironically, he also states that I topped him. :o ).

 

Well, thanks for the pleasant New Year reading.

[Rick Munroe]

>have read some of

>Derek's reviews and he sounds like a very cool guy. That is

>very important to me : the coolness factor. Sense of humor is

>definitely there too, which is a great plus.

 

Speaking as someone who spends almost 24 hours a day with Derek, he's definitely got a great sense of humor (and if anyone says, "He must have a great sense of humor and nerves of steel if he spends 24 hours a day with Rick," well...I guess I'll have to agree ). Yes, I'm definitely biased but you're right -- he is a cool guy. That's what first attracted me.

[NewComer]

I have been with nearly every one of the escorts mentioned in your post. For your situation, I recommend Adam #3 - he was one of the first escorts I ever spent time with and was outstanding in his performance. I felt very well taken care of. He meets all of your criteria from looks, to sex, to personality. Have fun.

P.S. Rick Munroe does, indeed, top and quite, quite well. Haven't seen him for ages, but have GREAT memories.

[abiggone]

Hey guy, I was with Rick and Derek on Tuesday, Dec 21st at their place. Rick and Derek are the ones for you. Both studs are in great shape and look hot. Rick does way more than oral. (He is the best at oral)I highly recommend the studs to anyone. (Although I would like to keep them for myself) (I am their third) If you want a fanfuckingtastic time hook up with these studs. Jason

[+ friendofsheila]

Dude - do NOT fail to give us a post on who you chose and how it went!

 

Best of luck!

[jimmer]

Hi,

 

I respectifully beg to differ. I've been with Rick (and Derek) a couple of times during the past few months, and Rick looks great and pleases as much as ever. He is not a bronzed Chelsea boy, but he has never pretended to be! ;-)

 

Derek, as always, is a winner, too!

 

Jimmer

[noviceny]

Friend of Shiela,

 

Bro, you dont think I would have all you guys give me info and then not tell you what happened ?!? Of course I will tell you what happens. However, I have always been fairly discreet about specifics. That doesnt mean I would say, "Yeah it was awesome...I got laid big time and I felt great !!!" I would not give a post like, "And when his long, veiny cock hit repeatedly hit my prostate, I shot continous loads until I was left spent and exhausted under his tght, muscular body."

 

 

Also, I am not the type to put "all of my eggs in one basket." Its possible that I dont have a good time cause Im too repressed or some other such reason. Im not the kind of person to say, "Well, Ill never get fucked again." I definitely dont put that kind of pressure on myself (or anyone else). My first time with a girl was a fucken disaster (but kind of cool and funny...very Malcolm in the Middle- esque) but I continued having sex with women for another 23 years !!

 

Everyone,

 

Thanks a lot for all of the info. I will spend a good part of the rest of this evening reviewing my info. If anyone knows where I can see recent picks of Rick and Derek, let me know. I have recent pics of the other guys and that would be great. Again, the body is not the most important thing for me, but the right body type would be helpful...very helpful...damn, who am I kidding...I get hard when guys flex at the gym...body is important :-)

[ted]

I would also recommend Steven and the other guy who I think fits your wants is Jon Ramsey. He will be in NY that weekend too. He is more muscular than Steven if the muscle part is important, but more limited in what he does

[pierrot]

This is the second time in this thread you have posted details of an experience with Rick yet I couldn't find a Review written by you. For your convenience, here's the link... http://www.male4malescorts.com/forms/submitreview.htm [/font color]

 

Glad others had great experiences with Rick, but I did not.

[noviceny]

Had a shit load of free time on my hands to research and make decisions, so I think Im gonna push my deadline up to this week (by Friday).

 

Thanks a lot for your help...Im crazy nervous, but must keep to my New Year's Resolutions.

[Rick Munroe]

>This is the second time in this thread you

>have posted details of an experience with Rick yet I couldn't

>find a Review written by you. For your convenience, here's

>the link...

 

Unfortunately, Barry, he won't be able to because he says the event took place a year and a half ago, and reviews are only allowed back three months. But perhaps all of this has something to do with what pierrot posted on June 25, 2003 in the thread entitled "Submitting Good, Mediocre, and Bad Reviews":

 

"I, too, have hesitated to write a negative review. In my case it was because the situation that turned out to be not so great for me was not entirely the escort's fault. I didn't communicate enough with him beforehand about what I wanted, so I was disappointed when he wouldn't agree. He was nice about it, and certainly honest. But I didn't think it was all my fault. His description led me to make an assumption that was wrong. I just chalked it up to one of those "now I know" experiences."

 

"...I've actually had four escort experiences and in each of them I learned something about what to ask, how to arrange things, etc. It's not all immediately obvious, I must say, and I think escorts could help a little more sometimes."

 

So, pierrot, it sounds like, at that time, you were still learning how to communicate with escorts, and it also sounds like you had some difficulty in each situation. If that first escort you mentioned was me, then there are a few possible explanations. When someone asks me to top them, and I ask if they are "ready" (i.e., cleaned out) and the answer is no, then yes, I politely suggest we do something else (and there are a myriad of other things to do). And as I've already said, if I don't know in advance that the client wants to top, there's a possibility I won't be ready myself (but if it's at my place, I've excused myself for a few minutes and done what I had to do). There's always a give-and-take and most of all, I hope, mutual respect and honest communication, and on my part, the desire for the client to be happy.

 

Maybe I should have gone to law school after all!

[Guest ortrud45]

I would go for Adam #3! Read his reviews ... they speak volumes!

 

ortrud45

[pierrot]

Yep, Rick, that's exactly what I was referring to when I wrote that. I did not write a negative review at the time because I agreed that the miscommunication about what I was looking for was partially mine. What I didn't say then was that I thought your photos were misleading. I only brought it up now, not to insult you, but because I thought this guy looking for advice should know. Very possibly you were in a different period a year and a half ago, and have since toned up again. I don't doubt it. But the photos here and on Rentboy have been posted for at least a couple of years.

I notice Barry, whoever that is, deleted the rest of my latest posting. Ok. I'm not interested in disputing this further.

[Rick Munroe]

A year and a half ago was June 2003. Here is what I looked like on June 24, 2003 at 3:13 AM (my digital camera automatically dates the photos):

 

https://www.rentboy.com/rbs/1551/pictures/1551_21.jpg

 

And here is another shot from that same session that I had planned to use in my solo ads, but decided that I preferred the photos I was already using:

 

http://members.aol.com/rickandderek/june2003.jpg

 

I have updated my photos every year since I began escorting, except for this past year, 2004, when I was busy with school and not actively seeking to expand my clientele (things are different now ;-) ). I don't appreciate your continuing this nonsense, espcially when your memory is not very good. But thanks for giving me the inspiration to take new photos again...I have dreaded the camera since I was a little boy and my mother documented every day of my life with her 35mm SLR. :o

[abiggone]

Hey, I was with Rick and Derek in Dec. 2004 and he looked great. They were my Christmas present and I was so pleased. If you can't communicate what you want then you have no right to complain about what you didn't get. Jason