I Came, Says He.

[Guest Wildcats]

In today's review of Trevor Walsh from Toronto, the reviewer mentioned that the escort says to him that he came, when he strongly believes that he did not. This has happened to me on rare occasions, the latest being from an extremely attractive Chicago escort last reviewed by someone else very highly on 7/19 here. I did not see anything on the pouch. Obviously, the escort may have only wanted to cut short the encounter. Being relatively new to the client arena, I'd like to have an input from the more experienced others on what to do in this situation.

[+ nycman]

>I'd like to have an

>input from the more experienced

>others on what to do

>in this situation.

 

Give the Kid an A for effort and a variable

grade for acting skills depending on how

convincing he was. For me it's never been a big

deal whether or not the escort cums. The whole

idea is to get MY rocks off, not his.

 

I do enjoy it when an escort cums, but it does

not ruin my evening if he doesn't. I appreciate

the acting effort if he fakes it, but to me it's

a little silly and certainly isn't necessary.

 

Of course, recently I was with an escort who came

3 times in an hour and I was beginning to worry

that I was going to have to start faking it just

to keep up...lol

 

In summary, I grin and go on....

[Guest jdt]

>I'd like to have an

>input from the more experienced

>others on what to do

>in this situation.

 

What do you want to do? For the life of me, if you can't tell whether the escort came or not, what difference does it make?

 

Now, I can understand if you requested that the escort cum all over your chest or face, then yes, you should expect him to cum. And you can also tell when and if he does.

 

But if he is using a condom while penetrating you, and you have to look inside the condom afterwards to verify whether he came or not, then I really don't understand what difference it makes.

[N.N.]

I find it insulting to be lied to by an escort. I appreciate straightforward, respectful conduct--in other words, professionalism.

 

Maybe others have a different approach, but I don't hire an escort to pretend. For me, the value is that an escort provides a real-life event: he's with you in the room, you're having sex, and so on. If he doesn't squirt, so be it. I've seen some pathetically transparent acting on the part of escorts who tried to pretend that they'd gotten off. What's the point in that?

[Matt_Vancouver]

to come or not to cum, that is the question. Whether it is nobler to force a shot, or fake it.

I will admit that once I did fake an orgasm. OMG the peanut gallery murmurs.

Sometimes it's just not in the cards, and if someone wants you too keep fucking them until you've shot your wad, well after a couple of hours, sometimes it just ain't coming(pun intented) and your dick can get pretty sore and desensitised after a long session.

Anyhow, that said, sometimes if you've come several times that day(lucky you: ) the volume is deminished.

so he very well might have shot, or he might have faked it, does it really matter? Did you enjoy yourself? I know you can: ) Wildcat, don't make a big deal out of it, if you had fun, and you got your moneys worth, who cares if he got off?

matt(a really bad actor)

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Bilbo]

According to some philosophies, most notably, if I'm not mistaken, the Skydancing Tantric, the trick to achieving male multiple orgasms is to realize that the actual cream is only a part of the orgasm. There are such things as dry orgasms and if you can inspire an actual one in your escort, you are a darn fine lover. And, if instead of wondering if he is indeed lying to you, you allow it to empower you, then it will set you free to try for seconds and thirds. Of course, it might have been so earth shattering for him that he just couldn't do it again anyway. So, sore dicked loves can back off at that point.

 

Apropos of nothing, I believe that Tantrism also thinks that a good masseur will bring his client to the brink of coming. That is where there develope two schools of thought - the first one holds that you should let him come the sixth or seventh time and the other holds that you shouldn't let him come at all and only exjoy the wonderful, unending experience of the sensations of nearly coming.

[Guest Wildcats]

Matt: It was more enjoyable with you because your personality far compensates for anything else (of course, that rare moment you had was not with me). But as N.N. says, it all boils down to honesty. And with that escort from a large agency here (who I tried for the first time - and last), no matter how great he looked, after I left his place I felt like I've been taken. Body worship just does not get my rocks off.

[CT Dick]

My favorite lie was the escort who grunted and heaved and sighed, telling me that he has "body orgasms" that are dry but just as intense as a regular orgasm.

 

Yup.

 

Dick

[Guest DickHo]

These orgasms do exist...I have them all the time, no joke!

[Traveller]

>These orgasms do exist...I have them

>all the time, no joke!

>

 

There you go, bragging again. On a different (let's call it Ricardo Montalbonish) note, what do you think of Buck, the new cock, I mean escort, on rentboy? Ya gotta trust a pic, doncha.

 

Later.

 

PS. As I've got to be in the City this weekend, Tom (the bigger the better) or Chris 3? Any other suggestions?

[Guest DickHo]

>what do you think of Buck, the new cock, I mean escort, on rentboy? Ya gotta trust a pic, doncha.

>

 

Is it live or is it Photoshop?

 

>PS. As I've got to

>be in the City this

>weekend, Tom (the bigger the

>better) or Chris 3?

>Any other suggestions?

 

Chris #3 is too short for you but he does have big wanker.

I recommend Kurt--he's got everything you like.

[Guest jeffOH]

Traveller...my best friend, Jason Markus, lives in Chelsea and is

by far one of the best escorts in the city. You can read his

reviews under NYC. Big, muscular German man, stunningly handsome

and a 9"x7" cock. Zero attitude and really enjoys his work. He's

very in-demand...so plan ahead if you decide you want to hook up

with him. Your best bet is to try calling him...tell him Jeff

referred you.

 

JasonMarkus9x7@aol.com 212-675-8912

 

Jeff4hire@aol.com

[Guest Charon]

I had a similar experience with Jon Ramsey, though in fairness, the whole thing just wasn't working. I wasn't as up to it as I'd hoped, and he clearly wasn't into kissing and topping. I wrote it off as a bad fit.

 

A fine line between chemistry and competency I guess.

 

I'd suspect if this is an issue, it's usually indicative that things are not going as well as hoped already.

[Traveller]

>Chris #3 is too short for

>you but he does have

>big wanker.

>I recommend Kurt--he's got everything you

>like.

 

 

Chris 3 is a bit short, but has great reviews, and I like the look (and, of course, the piece). More importantly, how did I miss this Kurt. Excellent suggestion. I wonder just how much I can get away with. I feeling very varietal.

 

Later.

[Guest Jason Reardone]

http://www.JasonReardoneEscort.com

 

Well puttttt (sorry I stutter when i come)! Matt has a point, I have only one thing to add. If the "coming" was so important then did you notify the escort before hand. Many clients ask me for "xyz" ahead of time. I'm a bit of the emotional type (not like Tammy-Faye Baker emotional but very sensitive to my partner and surroundings), I hope the experience is as natural as any "hookup" or intimate evening out on the town would be. Sometimes you feel like getting a "nutt" sometimes you don't.

 

I always ask if you want the coin operated "jason" or the "real" jason.

[Guest Wildcats]

RE: >These orgasms do exist...I have them

>all the time, no joke!

>

 

Either:

1. It's mental or psychological (i.e. Tantra philosophy?). I didn't hire that escort to practice his Buddhist Tantrism on me.

2. It's vaginal orgasm (meaning you're XX); though should also have secretions.

3. You've had surgery with removal of the epidydimis, prostate gland and seminal vesicle.

4. Your cum goes retrograde into the bladder because of a urethrovesical valve malfunction. It's no joke!

[Traveller]

>3. You've had surgery with

>removal of the epidydimis, prostate

>gland and seminal vesicle.

>4. Your cum goes retrograde

>into the bladder because of

>a urethrovesical valve malfunction.

 

I love it when you talk dirty to me.

 

Later.

[Guest DickHo]

You are correct: I am a Buddhist Tantrism transexual with a hyperactive sugically constructed vagina in my butthole.

 

Jeez, lighten up!

[Guest Blatchford]

A major kick for me is giving as much pleasure as I get, so when an escort comes with me I take it as a compliment and I'm very happy. But hey, worry about it? Let's be serious, guys . . .