Setting up long distance appointments

[hiJinX]

Just need a common sense check for setting up an appointment for while I'm travelling. Please refute or expand on anything that should be kept in mind:

 

No way should I be paying before I get there (not even a "deposit")

Trying to work out details (with respect for legal limitations) before I get there is not unreasonable.

Corresponding a bit with escort beforehand in order to check for compatibilty is a good idea.

[jackhammer91406]

hiJinx,

Yes to all.

 

All of my experiences (VAST hah) has been while travelling. I have never sent money up front and I think the escorts who post here will agree that upfornt payment is only for when you have the escort travel to you.

 

As for trying to set up through email, yes you must be careful IMHO not to get too specific until after several contacts. I will give some specifics about me in my initial e-mail( height, weight, age, I am a top etc. ) and in that way I am telling the escort what I expect from the encounter.

 

I have always had a number of back and forth e-mails both to solidify the date/time but also to get a better sense of the personality of the escort. In the follow-up e-mails you may find the escort will be specific and then I feel it's ok to be specific in return.

 

All of that said, my experience has been that this will succeed about 50% of the time. Your expereince may differ. Of course reviews help and pay attention to whether there are negative reviews. Not just because they are negative, but there will often be clues there that will help determine if experiences will be similar for you. I have only hired one unreviewed escort and he was a keeper! I had a miss in the same city with a reviewed escort. Later in another city, I had booked three escorts for my trip. One well reviewed escort ended up a no show (after a number of e-mails) another was a disappointment (however there was a negative review, the escorts response to it seemed to indicate he accepted responsibility for the bad appointment) I still wasn't offered what had been clearly spelled out in emails. The third was a gem, as all previous reviews had indicated.

 

Good luck.

[AaronScottDC]

I totally believe that you should contact potential escorts before you make your travels and let them know what your expectations are and what your tentative schedule may be. If there is a particular escort you want to see, then just contact him. If you are not sure who you would like to meet, then send out emails to many different ones and wait for the responses to make your decision. When a potential client emails me and gives me an idea of the type of encounter they are looking for, I will always write back and let them know if I am available and if I am able to meet their expectations.

 

Of course, once you get to your destination, you may have to make certain changes to your schedule because of unforeseen circumstances. But, setting up a specific time and place to meet before hand is a must in my book. I am fairly busy and trying to juggle my schedule at the last minute doesn't always work out. However, if I know in advance that someone wants to meet me on a particular day and time, I can usually work around the appointment.

 

So, my suggestion is to contact the guy or guys you have in mind, let them know when you will be in their area, what you are looking for, how long you would like to meet, and where and then check in with them a couple of more times as the time of your trip nears. You certainly do not have to make a deposit with them unless you are expecting the escort to travel to you.

 

I hope this information helps and if you are going to be in the Washington, DC area, be sure to dress warmly because it is VERY cold here!

 

Aaron Scott DC

http://www.erados.com/aaronscottdc

202-531-1197

[ted]

For appointments when I am travelling(to a city where I haven't already met someone I like) I contact the escort(s) at least one week, but no more than 2 weeks in advance. Initial email contains essentials of what I'm looking for- day of meeting, length of meeting, location, specific time or flexibility of hours. If multiple escorts were contacted I weed on the promptness, content, and tone of the reply. Usually, if I email 3 or 4 initially, only 1 or 2 even answer so the choice is made quickly. I usually then do two or three emails and a phone call to finalize everything and get the vibe. I never pay up front. I almost always use the reviews here to choose those I contact. Unlike one of the escort rebuttals to a bad review posted today, I would never give my credit card number to an escort I haven't met and I've never been asked.

[KY_TOP]

All of the appointments I have set up have been Long Distance since I only hire when I travel and other than a local stripper, I do not hire in my hometown. I have had very good luck, out of about 15 different Escorts last year I had 1 No Show, and the rest were great. I start looking at reviews about 4 weeks before a trip and have made e-mail contact up to 4 weeks before my visit. My first contact is usually brief and I inquire as to their rate for a 2 hour date (I usually always hire for 2 hours). I usually get a response with the rate or requested "contribution" and a few questions about myself... this usually leads to what I prefer for the date. I've had a few ask for pictures, which I do not have nor would I sent if I did have them. An Escort has never refused to see me due to no pictures and instead have been satisfied with a description of myself.

 

I am presently making arrangements for a trip to LA in 3 weeks. I have 2 dates already setup and confirmed. A third did not want to schedule this far in advance without a deposit, which I advised I was uncomfortable with and did not wish to do. He said he understood and asked me to contact him 1 week before the requested date to schedule with him, which I still plan to do. (FYI: He stated he had, in the past, several Client NO SHOWS with dates scheduled far in advance.)

 

I hope my luck holds up on my LA trip.

 

KY...A long distance scheduler!

[Guest]

>All of my experiences (VAST hah) has been while travelling. I

>have never sent money up front and I think the escorts who

>post here will agree that upfornt payment is only for when you

>have the escort travel to you.

 

I would go even further to say that I wouldn't even pay upfront if the escort is traveling to me. The airline ticket is enough of a deposit (and risk on the part of the client, since the escort could take the ticket and bail). And even further--don't hire someone for travel unless you've met them...

[Guest Timtx76116]

I would also suggest that if you are traveling.....check with some of the services in the city there. Still dont pay in advance or send a deposit. Even though things get hectic here on a weekend, the bois are normally still available. I may have to drag them out of bed, or force them into the shower to wake them up......but they are normally available without a deposit.

 

 

Tim H.

"The little whore house on the prarie"

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

>>have never sent money up front and I think the escorts who

>>post here will agree that upfornt payment is only for when

>you

>>have the escort travel to you.

>

>I would go even further to say that I wouldn't even pay

>upfront if the escort is traveling to me. The airline ticket

>is enough of a deposit (and risk on the part of the client,

>since the escort could take the ticket and bail).

 

There is very little an escort can do with a ticket beyond take a trip. Unless, we are talking about a trip to someplace like Europe, a plane ticket, even from Los Angeles to any large city, or even less traveled city, is a small investment for what is presumably at minimum a one day appointment. With change fees of $100, an escort would net far less in simply pocketing the ticket.

 

I would agree, based on the experiences that some of my clients have described to me with other escorts, of the escorts not taking the trip, of taking a deposit, that a client may take a risk, but you ameliorate that risk through communication, through common sense judgment and through other cross-check methods, such as reviews and reputation of the escort. In every single instance which has been described to me personally, where the escort "bailed" on the client at a financial loss to the client, the escort either had no reviews, no reputation (SD A&F Jock Boi For Hire, for example, or NYC Polo Boi For Rent types), as opposed to say a "Rick Munroe" or "Gabriel (in St. Louis)" OR both.

 

On the other hand, the one time I accepted a plane ticket as the only deposit and was then forced to accept a check from the client, the check bounced and after a number of excuses (my roommate has mailed you another check, I will Western Union the funds, etc.) and six weeks have elapsed, I am not traveling to see anyone without a reasonable deposit. I had done so three times, including paying for my own plane ticket twice, two be refunded by the clients, without problems, but other than for regulars whom I travel with, I would not do so and after discussing this matter with a number of escorts, neither would they.

 

And even

>further--don't hire someone for travel unless you've met

>them...

 

From the escort perspective, this makes sense as well, although it is possible to travel with a perfect stranger, a large amount of communication, and not merely via e-mail, would be both encouraged and recommended.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

>>have never sent money up front and I think the escorts who

>>post here will agree that upfornt payment is only for when

>you

>>have the escort travel to you.

>

>I would go even further to say that I wouldn't even pay

>upfront if the escort is traveling to me. The airline ticket

>is enough of a deposit (and risk on the part of the client,

>since the escort could take the ticket and bail).

 

There is very little an escort can do with a ticket beyond take a trip. Unless, we are talking about a trip to someplace like Europe, a plane ticket, even from Los Angeles to any large city, or even less traveled city, is a small investment for what is presumably at minimum a one day appointment. With change fees of $100, an escort would net far less in simply pocketing the ticket.

 

I would agree, based on the experiences that some of my clients have described to me with other escorts, of the escorts not taking the trip, of taking a deposit, that a client may take a risk, but you ameliorate that risk through communication, through common sense judgment and through other cross-check methods, such as reviews and reputation of the escort. In every single instance which has been described to me personally, where the escort "bailed" on the client at a financial loss to the client, the escort either had no reviews, no reputation (SD A&F Jock Boi For Hire, for example, or NYC Polo Boi For Rent types), as opposed to say a "Rick Munroe" or "Gabriel (in St. Louis)" OR both.

 

On the other hand, the one time I accepted a plane ticket as the only deposit and was then forced to accept a check from the client, the check bounced and after a number of excuses (my roommate has mailed you another check, I will Western Union the funds, etc.) and six weeks have elapsed, I am not traveling to see anyone without a reasonable deposit. I had done so three times, including paying for my own plane ticket twice, two be refunded by the clients, without problems, but other than for regulars whom I travel with, I would not do so and after discussing this matter with a number of escorts, neither would they.

 

And even

>further--don't hire someone for travel unless you've met

>them...

 

From the escort perspective, this makes sense as well, although it is possible to travel with a perfect stranger, a large amount of communication, and not merely via e-mail, would be both encouraged and recommended.

[VaHawk]

RE: Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

I have only flown one escort to DC to see me. Needless to say the escort was well reviewed here, and I knew just via emails, etc. that it would be okay to do so, even though this was the first time we were together. He did not ask for a deposit upfront, which was good, as I would never do that with someone I have never met, although I did buy the airticket up front. This in turn caused some problems as I had to rebook the ticket under his legal name rather than his escort name, but we trusted each other enough to do that. I guess sometimes you can just tell a person is trustworthy based on communication, which I can not stress enough as the most important aspect, in all regards, in any interaction between an escort and client! He took a chance on me, as I did on him, but this is probably not the norm.

 

I guess I am lucky in that I did this with someone who is totally honest, as I am. It worked out great for me, but I can honestly say that I have yet to encounter any other escort, that I feel the same way about. I would never do that again!!, but this escort is a special rarity in this business in my opinion!

 

Of course, if I had been with the escort before at his home base and knew he was honest and trustworthy, I would not have any qualms about sending a fee up front, but I would not do that with anyone I have never met or didn't have that level of comfort with one that I had met. If this is not the case, I don't see how anyone could expect the client to send an advance payment. No one should be expected, as the old adage goes, to "buy a pig in a poke".

[VaHawk]

RE: Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

I have only flown one escort to DC to see me. Needless to say the escort was well reviewed here, and I knew just via emails, etc. that it would be okay to do so, even though this was the first time we were together. He did not ask for a deposit upfront, which was good, as I would never do that with someone I have never met, although I did buy the airticket up front. This in turn caused some problems as I had to rebook the ticket under his legal name rather than his escort name, but we trusted each other enough to do that. I guess sometimes you can just tell a person is trustworthy based on communication, which I can not stress enough as the most important aspect, in all regards, in any interaction between an escort and client! He took a chance on me, as I did on him, but this is probably not the norm.

 

I guess I am lucky in that I did this with someone who is totally honest, as I am. It worked out great for me, but I can honestly say that I have yet to encounter any other escort, that I feel the same way about. I would never do that again!!, but this escort is a special rarity in this business in my opinion!

 

Of course, if I had been with the escort before at his home base and knew he was honest and trustworthy, I would not have any qualms about sending a fee up front, but I would not do that with anyone I have never met or didn't have that level of comfort with one that I had met. If this is not the case, I don't see how anyone could expect the client to send an advance payment. No one should be expected, as the old adage goes, to "buy a pig in a poke".

[Guest]

RE: Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

>There is very little an escort can do with a ticket beyond

>take a trip. Unless, we are talking about a trip to someplace

>like Europe, a plane ticket, even from Los Angeles to any

>large city, or even less traveled city, is a small investment

>for what is presumably at minimum a one day appointment.

 

The escort can use the value of the ticket to go somehwere else, usually with some forfeiture of the value (I think $100 is a bit high, but even then, it's $100 that didn't come out of the escort's pocket). Of course, it's a minimal investment for a one-day appointment, but it's a substantial investment when you consider that there's no guarantee that there will be any meeting at all! I mean, just look at the inconsistencies with escorts' ages as shown on older reviews and on the escorts' own websites! Many escorts are not the most honest people on the planet--and a client is not always going to be able to tell who's honest and who's not.

 

> In every single instance which has been described to

>me personally, where the escort "bailed" on the client at a

>financial loss to the client, the escort either had no

>reviews, no reputation (SD A&F Jock Boi For Hire, for example,

>or NYC Polo Boi For Rent types), as opposed to say a "Rick

>Munroe" or "Gabriel (in St. Louis)" OR both.

 

Funny that you should mention these two. We've never heard any untoward stories about Gabe, but Rick admitted pocketing $1500 about a year or two ago, on a client he never even met. He claimed he deserved the $1500 for the time he spent planning the week-end they were going to have together... Caveat emptor.

[Guest]

RE: Deposits - Prior Knowledge / Regulars

 

>There is very little an escort can do with a ticket beyond

>take a trip. Unless, we are talking about a trip to someplace

>like Europe, a plane ticket, even from Los Angeles to any

>large city, or even less traveled city, is a small investment

>for what is presumably at minimum a one day appointment.

 

The escort can use the value of the ticket to go somehwere else, usually with some forfeiture of the value (I think $100 is a bit high, but even then, it's $100 that didn't come out of the escort's pocket). Of course, it's a minimal investment for a one-day appointment, but it's a substantial investment when you consider that there's no guarantee that there will be any meeting at all! I mean, just look at the inconsistencies with escorts' ages as shown on older reviews and on the escorts' own websites! Many escorts are not the most honest people on the planet--and a client is not always going to be able to tell who's honest and who's not.

 

> In every single instance which has been described to

>me personally, where the escort "bailed" on the client at a

>financial loss to the client, the escort either had no

>reviews, no reputation (SD A&F Jock Boi For Hire, for example,

>or NYC Polo Boi For Rent types), as opposed to say a "Rick

>Munroe" or "Gabriel (in St. Louis)" OR both.

 

Funny that you should mention these two. We've never heard any untoward stories about Gabe, but Rick admitted pocketing $1500 about a year or two ago, on a client he never even met. He claimed he deserved the $1500 for the time he spent planning the week-end they were going to have together... Caveat emptor.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Change Fees For Airlines

 

>The escort can use the value of the ticket to go somehwere

>else, usually with some forfeiture of the value (I think $100

>is a bit high, but even then, it's $100 that didn't come out

>of the escort's pocket). Of course, it's a minimal investment

>for a one-day appointment, but it's a substantial investment

>when you consider that there's no guarantee that there will be

>any meeting at all! I mean, just look at the inconsistencies

>with escorts' ages as shown on older reviews and on the

>escorts' own websites! Many escorts are not the most honest

>people on the planet--and a client is not always going to be

>able to tell who's honest and who's not.

 

The major airlines require a $100 change fee to change a ticket. I personally cannot imagine someone changing a $298 ticket in order to save $198 to fly elsewhere, at their own cost, and forfeit a 24 travel fee which would be far more substantial. In addition, in the three instances where clients told me about escorts who did not show, in nearly every instance it was simply due to drug use on the part of the escort and due to little, if any, prior investigation by the client, in addition to selecting escorts without reviews or reputations.

 

Secondly, honesty in a profession should be judged, at least in my opinion, in such instances on matters more like did the escort perform as expected and agreed, did the escort appear in total appearance as HE presented himself, etc. Using merely the age issue, where this particular SITE is REPLETE with references by numerous clients that men in their late 20s and early 30s are "too old" is akin to saying strippers are dishonest for breast implants. It is, frankly, a by-product of consumer demand, not of professional integrity, or lack thereof.

 

Finally, I am not going to rehash anything about anyone personal on a THREAD that does not relate to personalities. My comment was that anyone such as myself, Jeff in Ohio, Michael Brandon in Los Angeles and Palm Springs, Rod Hagen, also in Los Angeles, or any other escort who has a professional reputation, including Rick Munroe, is that these individuals would be less likely than someone who was using a moniker which one could easily delete or hide under (Chad #4, Alex #6, Timmy #22, Lance #77, etc.) or the standard AOL type screen names such as A&F Jock Boy For Hire, which will not and do not stand the test of time, as was pointed out in the thread about paying $300 for escorts, are people who will take more care in doing anything with a perfect stranger which will harm their professional standing and reputation. THAT point, which is pertinent, still stands.

[FrancoDiSantisxxx]

Change Fees For Airlines

 

>The escort can use the value of the ticket to go somehwere

>else, usually with some forfeiture of the value (I think $100

>is a bit high, but even then, it's $100 that didn't come out

>of the escort's pocket). Of course, it's a minimal investment

>for a one-day appointment, but it's a substantial investment

>when you consider that there's no guarantee that there will be

>any meeting at all! I mean, just look at the inconsistencies

>with escorts' ages as shown on older reviews and on the

>escorts' own websites! Many escorts are not the most honest

>people on the planet--and a client is not always going to be

>able to tell who's honest and who's not.

 

The major airlines require a $100 change fee to change a ticket. I personally cannot imagine someone changing a $298 ticket in order to save $198 to fly elsewhere, at their own cost, and forfeit a 24 travel fee which would be far more substantial. In addition, in the three instances where clients told me about escorts who did not show, in nearly every instance it was simply due to drug use on the part of the escort and due to little, if any, prior investigation by the client, in addition to selecting escorts without reviews or reputations.

 

Secondly, honesty in a profession should be judged, at least in my opinion, in such instances on matters more like did the escort perform as expected and agreed, did the escort appear in total appearance as HE presented himself, etc. Using merely the age issue, where this particular SITE is REPLETE with references by numerous clients that men in their late 20s and early 30s are "too old" is akin to saying strippers are dishonest for breast implants. It is, frankly, a by-product of consumer demand, not of professional integrity, or lack thereof.

 

Finally, I am not going to rehash anything about anyone personal on a THREAD that does not relate to personalities. My comment was that anyone such as myself, Jeff in Ohio, Michael Brandon in Los Angeles and Palm Springs, Rod Hagen, also in Los Angeles, or any other escort who has a professional reputation, including Rick Munroe, is that these individuals would be less likely than someone who was using a moniker which one could easily delete or hide under (Chad #4, Alex #6, Timmy #22, Lance #77, etc.) or the standard AOL type screen names such as A&F Jock Boy For Hire, which will not and do not stand the test of time, as was pointed out in the thread about paying $300 for escorts, are people who will take more care in doing anything with a perfect stranger which will harm their professional standing and reputation. THAT point, which is pertinent, still stands.

[ad rian]

RE: Change Fees For Airlines

 

>The major airlines require a $100 change fee to change a

>ticket. I personally cannot imagine someone changing a $298

>ticket in order to save $198 to fly elsewhere, at their own

>cost, and forfeit a 24 travel fee which would be far more

>substantial.

 

Good point, but I had a recent experience involving frequent flyer miles where the escort almost chose on his own to come a day later, informing me that there were no change feed on tickets from my redeemed miles. He also chose to change the departure date ostensibly to pursue other "business" interests. In the end, he came as scheduled, and we had a good time, but this was a bit of an eye opener to me. There are risks here that I had not considered before.

 

>Secondly, honesty in a profession should be judged, at least

>in my opinion, in such instances on matters more like did the

>escort perform as expected and agreed, did the escort appear

>in total appearance as HE presented himself, etc.

 

Again, good point, but the question for me is whether the escort can credibly look like the age he represents. If he claims to be 23, but is 30, and looks 23, then no harm no foul, although that might affect some attitudinal issues that I have mentioned on other threads. (I often find "older" escorts to be more jaded.) But if he is 30, and looks 30, then I think a client has every right to be pissed off at the deception. Ditto for escorts who claim to be smooth and who are not.

[ad rian]

RE: Change Fees For Airlines

 

>The major airlines require a $100 change fee to change a

>ticket. I personally cannot imagine someone changing a $298

>ticket in order to save $198 to fly elsewhere, at their own

>cost, and forfeit a 24 travel fee which would be far more

>substantial.

 

Good point, but I had a recent experience involving frequent flyer miles where the escort almost chose on his own to come a day later, informing me that there were no change feed on tickets from my redeemed miles. He also chose to change the departure date ostensibly to pursue other "business" interests. In the end, he came as scheduled, and we had a good time, but this was a bit of an eye opener to me. There are risks here that I had not considered before.

 

>Secondly, honesty in a profession should be judged, at least

>in my opinion, in such instances on matters more like did the

>escort perform as expected and agreed, did the escort appear

>in total appearance as HE presented himself, etc.

 

Again, good point, but the question for me is whether the escort can credibly look like the age he represents. If he claims to be 23, but is 30, and looks 23, then no harm no foul, although that might affect some attitudinal issues that I have mentioned on other threads. (I often find "older" escorts to be more jaded.) But if he is 30, and looks 30, then I think a client has every right to be pissed off at the deception. Ditto for escorts who claim to be smooth and who are not.

[Guest WGTWMark610]

RE: Change Fees For Airlines

 

also be sure to check out his background and beliefs before booking him.

[ad rian]

RE: Change Fees For Airlines

 

>also be sure to check out his background and beliefs before

>booking him.

 

Not necessarilly. It can be extremely erotic to get an escort of a particular ethnicity to call me "Arafat" when I pound him without mercy from behind!:+