Poking the fire

[Guest Kenguy]

There's an old and very crude proverb: 'You don't look at the mantlepiece when you're poking the fire.' I wonder how important looks are in an escort? I find them very important. I had a meeting with an escort recently who had a really wonderful, smooth, tanned, athletic body and was excellent at his job, but whose face I found very unattractive. This is slightly putting me off seeing him again. How silly am I being?

[Guest Kenny021]

Somehow, I don't think Quasimodo had too many clients.

[+ Lucky]

Not silly at all. To me, if the escort's face is not attractive TO ME then I am not interested....unless there are ten or so reasons to ignore the face!

[phage]

I don’t think you’re being silly at all, but I think it varies quite a bit. I’ve talked about this quite a bit with another board member. For me, the face is the most important thing and I need a face that makes me want to kiss it. Actually, a guy’s teeth can make or break it for me and that certainly doesn’t affect the fire poking.

 

I’m fine with an average body if the guy has good teeth and a nice face. My friend is the exact opposite. He’s happy with an average face as long as it’s on a great body. You probably won’t find many interested in butt-ugly, but other than that, it’s going to be all over the place.

[Guest Love Bubble Butt]

I'm with your friend. I'll take an average face attached to a hot body with ... you'll never guess ... a beautiful, smooth, hairless bubble butt! :9

[Guest RetrdEscrt]

Looks are the most important thing to a potential client i have found,with the face being one of the most important things that will decide whether you hire or not,of course body,smooth/hairy/dick size etc etc all come into it but the face is the thing that most prospective clients will want to see.

 

All clients have quirks about what part of the body they find most attractive,dont worry about it if you find a guy with a great body and the face puts you off for any reason then dont sweat it just go on till you find someone that ticks all the boxes.

[Guest pshaw]

You are choosing a short-term sex partner, not a boyfriend, and paying for it to boot. When selecting an escort, you are entitled to be as choosy as the supply and your wallet will allow. We all have our preferences - face, body , personality, dick size, butt, race, etc. I find an average looking Asian guy with a decent body and personality hotter than a Carlson twin - that guy may not even register with another person.

 

When all or most of your preferences come together in the same escort, you've struck gold. Of course, that escort almost always retires from the business a couple of weeks later. ;-)

[VaHawk]

I agree. I'm one of those clients who is mostly interested in the face, as it is the one part that turns me on the most. It doesn't have to be a "matinee idol" handsome face, just attractive and/or interesting in some way and fit well with the rest of the package.

http://216.40.249.192/mysmilies/cwm/cwm/updown.gif In this case, the client's options may be limited if he lives in an area with few escorts and it can really add to the expense and time to fly one in or fly to them. http://64.207.13.28/mysmilies/otn/angels/lily.gif

If this is the case, why not be innovate, e.g. suggest some kind of role playing scene that involves masks (Tonto and the Lone Ranger perhaps?). http://jeeptalk.org/crack/smilies/ups/DeNiro/needs_a_shave.gif

[Guest Dan]

I have to say that it's not really about the escort's LOOKS, as much as it's about his LOOK. As a previous poster wrote, he's rather have an Asian guy than a Carlson twin. And for a size queen it won't matter if the guy does look like a dead ringer for the aforementioned Mr. Q if he has that huge schlong.

 

I don't show my face as a matter of discretion, but there are guys who show their faces and aren't all that pretty, yet clients say that they are hot. It's like the other night when I was out with a straight girl friend and I pointed out to her a porn star. She said that he was gross, yet this guy was a big star for years and is still much in demand as an escort.

 

What it all boils down to is beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

 

Dan Dare

http://meetlocalmen.com/mlm/dandarela.html

[uriellasvegas]

Exactly... it depends on what you're in to. I see guys with a baseball bat in their pants that have a face that looks like it was on fire get a lot of attention strictly because of his ... size. If Quasimoto had a huge cock he would have laid more often (someone commented that he doubted Quasimoto got laid often).

 

I'm not twinkie myself... but I have a nice client base that is really into me. Which I think is awesome. I'm no Quasimoto, but I am not a _____ twin either (forgot their name).

 

Happy Posting!:-)

[Luv2play]

For me, it's the whole package. If the face is not great, I'll look for some feature that might turn me on, like his neck. For some reason, a nice masculine neck really turns my crank. Or maybe his hair, if it's thick and curly, oooh, or if it's shaved, ummm. Maybe his ears, especially if he likes a tongue in them, ummm. Or his lips, and yes, his teeth. And hey, if the overall face is not great, but you've found that other feature you groove on, then turn the lights down and concentrate on what gets you hot. Then, of course, there's the body to consider....

[Guest Bitchboy]

Looks are so subjective. I have a thing for guys with glasses. Don't get me wrong, I've slept with many "unspectacled" dudes, but glasses turn me on big time. A look is so important for some people, me included. What's one man's handsome is another man's troll. And thank God for that.

[chrismac]

My tastes vary all the time. I used to think I only liked smooth guys, then fell in love with a muscular hairy stud. I keep myself open now, but I'd have to say that body, combined with a sexy attitude, and a distinct lack of arrogance really turn me on. A guy's face is way down on the list of qualities I go for, and I avoid hooking up with guys who need to be with runway models (whom I think are too skinny and funny looking anyway) - probably 'cause I ain't one of 'em.

 

Tall, great body, and a very nice/long/thick endowment win me over, especially when combined with a great personality. Intelligence isn't even that important to me for sex or dating; I can do the thinking for both of us if need be. I find the "pretty boys" often have the most "attitude", even worse if they have a great bod to go with it.