Describe your first escort experience

[jackhammer91406]

Guys,

This may have been done before and it sort of follows the Best escort (unofficial version) thread, but I thought it might be interesting to hear from a number of guys about their first experience with an escort. Don't think there are any guidelines necessary, but suggest as much humor or pathos as possible to satisfy a little bit for everyone. Would love to make it boring by suggesting no political rantings (unless of course your first experience was with a John John look-alike). My first escort experience is poorly described in the Review of Mitch Buchanan in Greensboro, NC. Any gamers on this board?}(

[Chuck50]

My first time was with one of this boards finest who has taken a break but now is back. STEF of Vegas. He is the premier escort and knows how to make you feel just right. Stef is not about age, body size or whatever. He is about you. He is a classic guy who has been the best or the first for many of us. I most recently saw him again 1 1/2 yrs later and everybit as great if not better. We have kept in touch and in his own sweet French way and accent and writing makes you feel so special. Thanks Stef love ya and glad that you were my first. HUGS Chuck:9

[adriano46]

This may set things off on a different route, but true.

 

My first escort experience was ... an... absolute disaster.

 

It took place quite some time ago in a male brothel in Amsterdam. It took me days to get up the courage to even approach the building (located outside the center in those days), and more to ring the bell and go up when I was rung in.

 

The place was a pretty sparsely furnished apartment, and I remember being almost too nervous to even remove my coat. There was one older guy (nice looking too, but who I assumed was the boss) and one or two very young twink types (not my type at all).

 

They offered me a watered down Scotch, and then noting I was not in the mood for small talk, pushed one of the two twinks at me. I panicked thinking I had to choose and went for one who appeared "fresher" (as the other was emerging from a shower and client when I arrived).

 

The entire 40 minutes was bad. I had no idea how to start, what to do... "Do I strip him, or he strip me?" We sat on the edge of the bed and he started talking... a bit too girlish. Then once the clothes were off, he informed me (on and on, he informed me) how BIsexual he is, and talked of his girlfriend. I do not even think either of us came! I left the place feeling shamed, disgusted and wondering "What's the big deal?"

 

Fortunately, later experiences in better brothels in Germany and Netherlands (as well as saunas in both places) built up my sex drive again and finally began the wonderful world of contacting escorts on the internet.

 

In over 14 years of this... I can say that among the best in Europe were Egor (Amsterdam - now retired), Kyper (Paris-Amsterdam), Brad (Amsterdam-Toronto-NY), Johan (Amsterdam) and in the US, Steve (Portland-Seattle), and Joey Ciccone (DC and East Coast) stand head and shoulders over all others (no intention of hurting others feelings). I have also had very good to excellent encounters through agencies in Las Vegas, NY, DC and other areas. Then too there have been the downside appointments, that I assume come with this.

 

I would have to admit though that I find escorts in Europe somehow more interesting, more intuitive and je ne sais qua more refreshing when the date is more than a quickie (Again Steve and Joey in the US fit the European model). Of course now with markets the way they are, tastes have moved eastwards to Moscow, Budapest and other Eastern European places where one can enjoy things at much lower cost!

[Guest MsgLvrNYC]

My first escort experience wasn't technically an escort experience, as I didn't pay for it. But, it was with an escort, who I met in an escort's bar.

 

It was about 15 years ago in NYC, at Rounds. Went in for the first time with a buddy after eating in the neightborhood. We were both about 30, and neither were looking to hire.

 

Soon after grabbing a drink and heading for the lounge in the back of the bar, an adorable guy in his early 20s came in and sat across from us. At the time, I didn't have much money and bought most of my clothes at cheap East Village thrift shops. So, I wasn't dressed as you might think a client would dress at a place like that, nor as a 'worker" at the bar.

 

This boy kept looking at us, mostly me, and finally he came over. His first words were that he wasn't there to work, but to meet a friend who did escort out of Rounds. We chatted, and he complimented me on my raincoat, a 25 dollar deal from Canal Jeans. We drank, we talked, and soon it was obvious that Matt and I were pretty turned on by each other. We left for my buddy's apt, where we had some more wine. Then, when my buddy went to the bathroom, Matt and I were all over each other. It was time to leave.

 

Back to my apt in Brooklyn for an incredible night of sex. Really incredible. For a long time after it stood out as the best sex I'd ever had. He was a twinky type with a big dick and a hungry butt. Looked like Richard Gere. Mmmm.

 

I saw him once or twice after that, but we never had sex. My buddy saw him at Rounds again, where it was obvious he was working. I ran into him in a cabaret a couple of years later, and he was beautifully turned out....and again at a backroom (Christopher St. Bookstore), where he was off duty but horny and playing with a few guys. He always mentioned that he regretted not getting to know me more; our connection was real for him. For me, he turned too flakey and I had moved on. I don't know what happened to him; he was heading for CA last I saw him, about 10 yrs ago.

[Rod Hagen]

>In over 14 years of this... I can say that among the best in

>Europe were Egor (Amsterdam - now retired), Kyper

>(Paris-Amsterdam), Brad (Amsterdam-Toronto-NY), Johan

>(Amsterdam) and in the US, Steve (Portland-Seattle), and Joey

>Ciccone (DC and East Coast) stand head and shoulders over all

>others

 

I think you're forgetting who put their head and shoulders over you! :-)

[Rod Hagen]

>I think you're forgetting who put their head and shoulders

>over you! :-)

[Rod Hagen]

>>I think you're forgetting who put their head and shoulders

>>over you! <Smiley Face image>

 

:-)

[sman]

rounds. a bar on the east side in nyc. i was 27. i went there out of curiosity. beautifull guys and older men. i met this guy , named vincent. he told me it was a husler bar , but he went there just for fun. we did not have sex that night. but the next night in my hotelroom. it was free.. but a disaster. anyway we stayed in touch and on my next trip some months later he tried to sell me a fake faberge egg for 600 $.. well that was my first time. i used a guy from an agency last year, well it was very mechanical and i hated the clock timing. well thats it.

[Spida]

My first time!! Ah I remember it well.. Well sort of remember it..

 

I called about 10 escorts (sorry guys don't do that anymore I was young and scared) and when they called me back I chickened out. I had one speak to me and calm my nerves for about 20 minutes I should have chosen him, but by that time I was to embarrased to call him back. So I found a guy with a great voice in the local papers and for 80 bucks I figured what the hell. (this was about 2 years ago).

 

The guy really didn't turn me on he was good looking just not my type and personalities didn't jive.. But he had the most beautiful dick!! I had no idea what to expect I came loaded with Condoms and lube.. He did only Oral that was actually sort of a relief took alot of the pressure off! It was pretty good, he took forever to cum now I would appreciate that but then I just wanted it to end! Not the best experience but not bad, seen him twice since then when I was really horny and didn't have much $$ on hand. My second was with a top notch escort that had an awesome bod!!

[N.N.]

My first was with an escort in San Francisco who took incalls.

 

He lived in a dicey neighborhood, I was relieved to see my car in one piece when I got back to it.

 

He insisted on the money up front.

 

His dick wasn't the advertised size. Silly me, thinking that it would be.

 

He put on a textured condom. I'd never been fucked with one before, but I thought I'd try it. I didn't like it.

 

He breathed a sigh of relief (as in "glad that's over with") after we finished, then he started watching television.

[Guest alanm]

This is embarassing, but here goes.

 

My first experience was also with an escort whom I met in Rounds. He was a extremely sexy, very personable & rich Hofstra student who was escorting because of issues with his dad. He looked like a well build, young Scott Baio (around 20 years old).

 

He came down to Philadelphia for the next weekend & we only had sex once, yes ONCE in about 35 hours. After we had sex at about mid night, he put his t-shirt and under pants back on & prepared to go to sleep.

 

I did ask him to sleep in the nude and off came the underwear, but I

did not know enough about the scene to initiate sex again. I thought maybe you only get one chance. He was a nice guy, just a extremely good looking, preppy student. We saw all the attractions in Philadelphia the next day.

 

He only charged me $200 plus train fare & I had a great time. I really have thought about that weekend many times and realized that we should have spent the entire time in bed!

[+ deej]

Escort or street walker?

 

25 years ago, I was quite literally driving around and just enjoying the sights in DC when I happened onto "the block". This was back when the Greyhound station was still next to what is now the DC Convention Center.

 

I was stopped at a red light when this guy leaned into the open passenger side window and asked if I'd like to have some fun.

 

Now, I was green but even I spotted the come-on, so he hopped in and we were off. I was scared shitless! We circled the block and settled on 40 bucks for a blowjob. I think we actually parked behind the then-new Hoover FBI building. JEdgar would have been proud!

 

He delivered a world-class blowjob that day and many other days. I visited the block a LOT. He also told me about the Chesapeake House, and that led to many other things.

[Spida]

Ahhh Deej, the good ol' days.. When you could drive around and pick up a guy. I wasn't into the scene then, but I heard stories about the Greyhound station in Boston also. (why Greyhound stations???).. Man do I long for those days. However, now you can see every part of them on the Internet.. I am sure it isn't the same though... I used to drive around the Combat Zone in Boston and watch the hookers walking around.. Needless to say I never picked any up but it was cool to watch them.. They cleaned that place up like they did Time Square, that bums me out! I want a sleazy place to hang out again..

[KY_TOP]

I consider my first Escort experience to be with Tony Cummings and posted a review of that experience here as my first review. I was as nervous as a long tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs. I told him I was nervous, he sat beside me, leaned over and kissed me. Had a great time and see him 3-4 times a year even though we live in seperate states.

 

Actually I should count a Dancer named Kirk that offered to come back to my hotel from Remington's in Toronto a few years ago. I got ripped off and only after I found this site did I realize I had been a target of the Notorious Kirk reviewed on this site and that I wasn't alone in being ripped off.

[jackhammer91406]

Hey Spida,

There's a hotel suite just OFF Times Square that I hope will get a little sleezy the last week in February. You could hang out there....

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[+ Cash4Trash]

My first escort experience was 30 years ago when a very unattractive trucker in Carlyle, PA came on to me in a bar. He pleaded and finally I said yes for $20.00. Went back to my place and made it. When I went to the bathroom he took the $20.00 out of my pocket and left. Obviously, not a good career choice for me.

The first guy I hired was someone a friend had been involved with and wanted to ditch but knew he needed money so he played matchmaker and set him up with me. Very blue collar "straight" guy type called Mickey

who worked out of Rounds. Saw him on and off for about 7 years...eventually he borrowed a small amount of money and rather than repay or work it off he split. Hope he's doing o.k.

[guyinsf]

I hired for the first time around 1989. I saw a picture in the Bay Area Reporter that attracted me. I got up the nerve to call the guy and was surprised when he answered. We talked for a while and he seemed like a nice guy. We agreed on a rate and he came over a few hours later.

 

When he arrived I was very pleased. He was very handsome and had a nice body. His personality was as nice in person as on the phone. He told me that he had just started escorting. (I had not seen his picture while scanning the newspaper before, so I think he really was brand new to the profession.) We had fun in bed but, as far as I can recall, neither one of us had an orgasm. I was nervous and this guy said he couldn't come. (He had had testicular cancer and apparently needed to inject some hormone if he wanted to be able to ejaculate that day. I don't know if he was telling the truth about the ejaculation part, but his balls definitely felt unusual -- sort of plastic-y -- so I believed him.)

 

I thought about hiring him again but didn't call him for several months, perhaps over one year. (I didn't hire escorts with any frequency then.) I was saddened to get a significantly different "vibe" from him on the phone the second time around. Whereas he had previously been very friendly and upbeat, this time around he sounded jaded and pushy, like a used car salesman. I didn't get together with him a second time because of this.