What are your 'fatal flaws' that providers do...

[+ KensingtonHomo]

8 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Had there been some kind of miscommunication and he was expecting to bottom?? 😂.  I think you are right to try to play around it. I’ve been in situations where for whatever reason I wasn’t hard and if the client didn’t make an issue of it and we ‘played around it’ then so it transpired that I did get hard. Once it becomes ‘a problem’ then there’s virtually no chance of getting hard.

I believe he listed himself as a vers top. But we didn't expect him to bottom. It's hard to overstate just how weird it was that he would not come off his belly. I did contemplate taking him by a shoulder and rolling him over but that felt too aggressive. My husband and I are old enough to realize that sometimes desire and erections don't line up. But our main issue remained that he ignored it and neither of us wanted to say "Hey, dude, your dick isn't hard." 

12 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

Once it becomes ‘a problem’ then there’s virtually no chance of getting hard.

Yes, I also find that if one guy loses his erection in a session, it's like yawning. Everyone else gets soft too.