LA or San Diego - what do you guys recommend to do?

[BlackSheep]

I have a coupon expiring for an airline return ticket. I can travel on a Wednesday or potentially on a Sat or a Sun as well (chances are more Wed). Personally I can do a day trip and can be either in LA or San Diego for 4-6hrs in the afternoon like from 12pm-6pm before catching the return.

I was thinking of going to Black's beach, never been there. Bathhouse came to mind as well, I have visited a bathhouse about 8 years ago in a diff country. I just want to chill enjoy a potential mutual play possibility ... 

Has anyone been to a Bathhouse in LA or San Diego recently? I really like dark hairy chest early 20s to late 30s men.

any other suggestion beside a beach and a bathhouse? massage is also a possiblity. 

Thanks 

[MscleLovr]

My opinion will seem harsh….but I feel someone has to give you a reality check.

You're the same poster @BlackSheep who mentioned in the Personal Finance section that you’re heavily indebted, losing money on your side-business and part-financing a relative overseas.

At the same time, you have friends who want their short-term personal loans to you repaid quickly.

You’re an adult and you don’t need a break in LA or San Diego.

You simply need to knuckle down and face reality.
Once you start dealing with your financial problems, you will feel more in control of your life. I think then your mental issues will reduce.
 

[BlackSheep]

I am well aware of my current reality, and your comments are harsh and unnecessary. Spending $30 or close to $200 will not dramatically improve my current situation. The thing I am focused towards is do I have an ability and will to keep fighting on, be it startup or pay off debts. What matters at the end is can I standup again and is there a path fwd.

I expected folks to answer a simple question, rather then judging the whole person or situation. The thing that is not visible is the whole reality. I have been in debt almost all of my whole adult life, and I feel I have never lived it because of the fear of been more in debt. I know I need to get rid of it and I am trying, I just don't want it to be single thing in my whole life, I am already stressed out, just looking for some breathing room if there is one. I made it my whole life in my 30s but due to my one situation or the other (not of my own) never able to come out of it. 

Edited 3 hours ago by BlackSheep