FTM Providers

[MikeBiDude]

1 hour ago, PVink said:

So call a vagina a vagina.

I’ve never had any pushback from a FTM using that term.

[Aamir]

1 hour ago, MikeBiDude said:

I’ve never had any pushback from a FTM using that term.

I know a few young Asian escorts who get called Oriental by older clients.  They hate it and I ask them why don't they say something.  They say they'd rather have the money than feel good about the client.  Language, power, and privilege are hard.

[BuffaloKyle]

Just have to ask what terms they prefer. I actually saw on a male provider's rentmen ad one time they don't like their penis referred to as a cock or dick. They want you to call it a penis. So all people have their vices.

[PVink]

8 hours ago, Aamir said:

I met a nice straight guy recently who I told that I put my bare penis inside of men's buttholes for pleasure.  He said that was "vulgar" I could get feces in my cock hole.  And then he said "to each his own." I said,  "yeah we're probably not going to be good friends."

I’m confused to your point. Are you offended I don’t like the term “front hole” because there’s a lot of other words I don’t like either? It’s not a judgement. Just a personal preference.

Another personal preference of mine is that I don’t graphically share my sexual proclivities with random straight men because it’s unnecessarily provocative. I’m positive they don’’t want the details.

[BuffaloKyle]

1 hour ago, PVink said:

Another personal preference of mine is that I don’t graphically share my sexual proclivities with random straight men because it’s unnecessarily provocative. I’m positive they don’’t want the details.

I've had some straight co-workers who I've come out to and then it's nothing but fun to share my gay sexual experiences with them. 🤣