FTM Providers

[MikeBiDude]

1 hour ago, PVink said:

So call a vagina a vagina.

I’ve never had any pushback from a FTM using that term.

[Aamir]

1 hour ago, MikeBiDude said:

I’ve never had any pushback from a FTM using that term.

I know a few young Asian escorts who get called Oriental by older clients.  They hate it and I ask them why don't they say something.  They say they'd rather have the money than feel good about the client.  Language, power, and privilege are hard.

[BuffaloKyle]

Just have to ask what terms they prefer. I actually saw on a male provider's rentmen ad one time they don't like their penis referred to as a cock or dick. They want you to call it a penis. So all people have their vices.

[PVink]

8 hours ago, Aamir said:

I met a nice straight guy recently who I told that I put my bare penis inside of men's buttholes for pleasure.  He said that was "vulgar" I could get feces in my cock hole.  And then he said "to each his own." I said,  "yeah we're probably not going to be good friends."

I’m confused to your point. Are you offended I don’t like the term “front hole” because there’s a lot of other words I don’t like either? It’s not a judgement. Just a personal preference.

Another personal preference of mine is that I don’t graphically share my sexual proclivities with random straight men because it’s unnecessarily provocative. I’m positive they don’’t want the details.

[BuffaloKyle]

1 hour ago, PVink said:

Another personal preference of mine is that I don’t graphically share my sexual proclivities with random straight men because it’s unnecessarily provocative. I’m positive they don’’t want the details.

I've had some straight co-workers who I've come out to and then it's nothing but fun to share my gay sexual experiences with them. 🤣

[+ Just Chuck]

I had an FTM provider refer to his genitals by saying “that feels really good in my hole”.  I understood what he meant and it didn’t bother me.  I didn’t find a need to refer to his genitals at all.

A big part of what makes me feel good and have a good time in a session with an escort is for the escort to also feel good and have a good time.

If an escort wants me to call him, her, or them by any particular name or pronouns and if they want me to call their body parts something in particular, terms, it neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg to do so.