The Best Providers’ Secrets!

[TruHart1]

On 2/24/2026 at 2:09 AM, totallybot said:

I wonder if anyone asks the good providers what their secret is? How does one perform well (sexually) when  your partner is, well, not the finest specimen? Is it just Viagra and compassion? Kind of like a cheerful nurse cleaning bedpans? A protestant work ethic and pride of doing a good job? Or is it just a pasted-smile and acting skills possibly hiding feelings of disgust or contempt?

How many of us clients would be up to the challenge of being a good escort, assuming we had the body required?

The above quote was from a discussion of Apollo Phoenix (one of the best, IMHO!) in the Deli section. I thought it might be a general topic for discussion here on the Forum, for both clients and any providers who care to discuss.

In my case, I have found an escort I see once or twice a month on a regular basis, who states in his ad that he loves to “serve” his clients. I have never tired of his ability to always surprise me in the bedroom.

Somehow he’s been able to find all my g-spots, some of which I didn’t even know I had before I met him, and vary his attention to specifically different areas of my body in each of our sessions, surprising and delighting me each and every time I see him, and making every time we meet better than before.

I’ve been using his services since September of 2021 (my first post-pandemic hire!) So yes, he is definitely one of the most talented lovers I’ve ever met, who knows how to vary our interactions each time enough to make our sessions delightfully different/surprising every time!

As he states in his ad, he loves to serve, and it’s become obvious to me now that the more he’s able to turn me on, the more he gets turned on himself. That, in turn, turns me on even more, which turns him on even more…and leads to an unbelievably soul-shaking climax.

What makes him truly special for me is the feeling that by letting him take over furnishing my pleasure, his pleasure increases. I am not young, and I’m overweight, basically not a hot guy, but I always leave my times with him feeling beautiful, and knowing that he also is happy that he is able to make me feel beautiful!!!

Not Viagra, or Protestant work ethic in his particular case, no. Just the pleasure of both of us knowing we have enjoyed the “dance” each time we are together!

TruHart1 😎

Edited Wednesday at 09:04 PM by TruHart1
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[jeezifonly]

Like great actors, great providers have it - that secret thing that makes you feel like you're enjoying quality time with someone. Their secret is theirs, though, and even if it could be put into words, they're unlikely to divulge. 

[Nue2thegame]

I think that the essential secret of great providers is that they genuinely love what they’re doing. It helps to have great stamina, physical appeal and a warm engaging personality but they ultimately can’t fake really enjoying the experience with enough people to establish a reputation as a “Great Provider” without it. It may be described as “making others happy “but at some level, it’s the ability to make themselves happy that rubs off on us. I’ve had the wonderful fortune to have met a few.