Hired for 2 stayed for 1

[Veryshyone]

I finally hired a provider! Top guy, great reviews. Beautiful body and topped me well. He was very complimentary of my body. We agreed on 2 hours. On our way up to my room he was all over me in the elevator. Once undressed he got more aggressive and frisky. It was an overall good experience, however, he and I finished about an hour into it. We showered, which was hot and he was gone. Only charged for 1 hour when it was about 1 hour 15 minutes. He said he couldn’t hold back. Conversation was great, but would have appreciated admiring him for the full 2 hours but he was ready to leave. Anyone else have a similar experience? Oh, he limited the areas of his body he did not appreciate having touched, not the D though, that was presented and well taken care of.

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’m sure many have had that experience.  The fact that he accepted less than agreed for his time is likely less typical unless you raised a stink.   Did you try to hold on to him for longer or did he simply ask if he could wrap it up?

[robberbaron4u]

Escorting is a business.  Flatter the client. A little chatter. Get the job done. Move on...

[TJMS]

Actually leaving compensation on the table is highly unusual. Many will want the full amount even when they don't provide the services asked for or they bail early. I find it amazing that he took less. I guess if you had a great time and he charged you less than you expected to pay, you have more $ for next time with him or another guy! Cheers!    

[jackcali]

14 minutes ago, TJMS said:

Actually leaving compensation on the table is highly unusual. Many will want the full amount even when they don't provide the services asked for or they bail early. I find it amazing that he took less. I guess if you had a great time and he charged you less than you expected to pay, you have more $ for next time with him or another guy! Cheers!    

I also am amazed he left money on the table.  If you enjoyed it and want to hire him again, discuss with him beforehand how you're happy to pay for the full two hours and would like him to stay even if the 'business' is done by then.  Of course, it's always possible that there was something about the interaction that caused him to want to get out of the session early so much that he'd give up some compensation.  In that case, he'll probably not agree to meet you again if you ask.    

[maninsoma]

I agree that what's unusual about this situation is that he only wanted to be paid for the hour and 15 minutes he was there versus your agreed upon fee.  I highly commend him for that since a lot of guys seem to think it's okay to short on time as long as the client has an orgasm.

If you enjoyed your time despite his cutting it short, then just keep hiring him with the knowledge that maybe your appointment won't last 2 hours. Or have a discussion with him about wanting a full two hour experience and ask him to either slow things down at the beginning or spend time in the afterglow.  Maybe he's just not the kind of guy who wants to do either of those things, though, so if you still find what he did provide pleasurable then just accept what he has to offer and enjoy yourself while spending less money.

[+ azdr0710]

6 hours ago, Veryshyone said:

 he limited the areas of his body he did not appreciate having touched, not the D though, that was presented and well taken care of.

what parts of his body were off-limits?......

the thread chatter here is another example of the importance of communication re: practical matters before a meeting.....when meeting a new guy, clients should, among other housekeeping items in pre-meet planning,, politely indicate how payment will occur and should ask for confirmation for that from the provider.....ideally, there will be no "money talk" at the meeting and it's hoped that the provider won't renege on activities agreed to and won't pull an "upgrade" proposal   

[Veryshyone]

It was a pleasurable experience and he was very kind. Complimented me on my cleanliness and treated me very well. He did state he couldn't hold back and had to finish. One comment was he said my name is a young person's name that could be used as a porn star. Perhaps he was imagining someone different than what he met. In any case, it was a nice experience and would hire him again when/if I have the chance. It would be interesting to see if he accepts me again. At the end of our session, I said "how much do I owe you/" His response was "just pay me for an hour." I did, and gave a nice tip. This experience has stimulated me to engage in more. I'm guessing this here is a unique situation. For me, it doesn't make business sense.

[TJMS]

You sound like a wonderful, respectful man, an escort's dream. My practice is to have an advance call to tell the guy my age and my desires. Only once, has the direct honest approach not worked out perfectly, but mostly. Bon chance! 

 

[Spikeguy]

It sounds like he was doing you a favor rounding down rather than up.  Maybe next time you could cuddle or get a massage for the first 30-45 min.  

[viewing ownly]

I was expecting to read about a threesome you arranged and one of them left. I've had one 2-hour hire end up being one and donated for just the hour, but that was because we wore each other out!

[wsc]

About 20 years ago I met a dancer in one of DC's Dupont Circle stripper bars and we agreed to meet later for a hook-up for a price. In those days, I was mortified at the thought of being seen dragging a handsome young man across a hotel lobby at 2:00 in the morning, so I would give him the hotel name and room number, then go to wait in the room. "Francois" (his stripper name) was from Montreal and was hot, handsome, and hung, three qualities I greatly admire in any man. We were just getting into our time together when he got a phone call, the gist of which was that his roommate was pissed and was trying to throw out Francois' things from the apartment, most concerning of which to Francois was a computer. He was visibly distressed over this and said he had to leave. I was so touched by his emotional response to the news that I gave him the full amount we had agreed to. He looked at me with a perplexed stare and said, "Why would you do that?" My honest answer was that I'm not going to make your bad night any worse and I truly feel sorry for your situation. He put his knapsack down, took off his clothes, and left several hours later. (It was very good!) I saw Francois almost every month for the next two years, before he moved back to Montreal, after which we lost contact. I regret I did not keep in touch and hope his life turned out well. He was not just a beautiful man; he was a beautiful soul.

I guess my point relative to this thread and the young man who left money on the table is that in this fee-based business we call our hobby, it's still a two-way street, and fairness and consideration should flow both ways.

[+ PhileasFogg]

In business we say there are three options - fast, inexpensive, high quality - but we can only choose two of the three.

Sounds like @Veryshyone found the golden ticket and got all three wrapped in one!

[BeHappy]

He sounds like a prime candidate for an overnight meeting!  
 

[guru68]

2 hours ago, PhileasFogg said:

In business we say there are three options - fast, inexpensive, high quality - but we can only choose two of the three.

Sounds like @Veryshyone found the golden ticket and got all three wrapped in one!

You get two at best, and not always even two.

[Veryshyone]

By all means it was a pleasurable experience. Thanks for all the comments.