Telling partner/bf about muscle fetish

[qwguy]

Hi there — happy new year everyone! Looking for some takes on communicating a fetish with a partner. I have a major bodybuilder fetish — always have since I was a teen. There’s a pro level bodybuilder provider coming to my city that’s booking sessions. To be honest, I’m not looking for sex. Just flexing and posing and muscle worship. But I’m nervous about telling my partner and feel like it’s something I should be transparent about and not doing in secret. Any advice on how I should approach this?

[+ azdr0710]

ask him to join you at the session!.......I don't know what your partner's general tolerance level is (easily upset or laid-back/easy-going) and how serious you two are with each other, but I'm being about 75-80% serious!.......communication is always important.......

[Danny-Darko]

[+ purplekow]

If you cannot speak honestly with your partner about your desires and needs, then perhaps you need to either find a new partner or have more faith in the one you have.  You might open the conversation by saying you have certain turn ons that you would like to discuss and ask him if he is willing to speak to yours and tell you his.  If either of these answers are no, you have bigger problems than his acceptance of your bodybuilding desire.  If he says yes, then you have taken a giant step into coming to a place where you have a more open and trusting relationship and perhaps closer to rubbing your body against a hard muscular body/.