Wherefore "Into"? Writing Checks Your Skillset Can't Cash

[BradyWolf]

(NOTE: I am not really referring here to preference or characteristic types of "into" choices, but rather those pertaining to distinctive, defined activities – usually involving various specific kinks/fetishes, some of which require various preparations and experiences in order to correctly and successfully execute! That is to say, "execute" in a manner that satisfies a client...)

For example, if you are "Into" some things like "Groups," "Jocks," "Body Hair" and the like — then sure, no harm no foul, don't worry yourself over-thinking it! 👎 However, returning to this post's topic, let's consider options that do merit some "over-thinking" to a degree:

• Fisting — It's one thing for a top to "prepare" a bottom to take a dick, for example by rimming and/or fingering, but it's another thing entirely getting one (two?! 😱) hand(s) + forearm(s) up a guy's ass, no? Not only is more extensive and thorough preparation required of the bottom in terms of "cleaning out," but the actual penetrative process is far more gradual and methodical! Did someone remember to pick up the Crisco??? 🤜🤜🤜
• W.S. — short for "water sports," also called "piss play" and/or "golden showers," etc. Assuming you're the "supply" side of the exchange, you will need to be "sufficiently hydrated" so as to have a "full tank" for hosing down your piss-ee, not to mention passable aim + reasonable "flow control" 💯 Besides the material practicalities, some degree of acting skill is helpful for adding some "verbal domination" to the mix....?
• Spanking — sorry but there's soooo much more to it than the haphazard, random striking of bare ass-flesh -- which is "no fun" at best, yet "unbearably interminable" at worst! The spanking recipient (or "spankee") then must either "grin and bear it" while desperately waiting for it's end, or actively speak up and call things off, neither of which is pleasant to have to do... 🙏🏓🍑 With rules/guidelines like the following:
  1. Technique, technique, technique!
  2. Practice, practice, practice!
  3. Pursuant to Items #1 and #2, there are even classes and other "training" modalities for spanking/impact play; for example, at populous BDSM events and gatherings.
  4. Aiming true as you "target" different parts of the mapped territory, often adjusting in accordance with visual observation of the "smacked" flesh and the receiver's reactions!
  5. Calibration and tweaking: That is, with respect to force, frequency, timing, tempo, etc.
  6. Escalation and crescendo: Spankings and other impactive activities often start out with a preparatory "warm-up" phase to set things in motion, then building higher and higher in the intensity, at steady and/or varying rates of increase, usually so as to reach some "apex" and/or "crescendo" 🌋💥

From a more objective and "fiscal" perspective, I do understand why providers might feel they should be "into," well...anything and everything! But from a client's standpoint, it's merely an all-but-guaranteed recipe for disappointment, over not getting the satisfaction they had been "promised," or considered implied; more importantly, however, there is the annoyance or even anger at feeling misled, deceived, "sold a bill of goods," or...whatever. Speaking for myself, I'd much rather link up with "accurately self-presented" provider who is into merely a handful of "my favorite things," rather than someone who (if only by implication and results) basically "tells me what I want to hear" in hopes of my genero$ity!

(If that makes any sense...? <-shrug->)