Position Preference in Ads vs Real Life

[Guest]

Recently, I’ve read in some invite only provider reviews that some RM providers list as a Total Top but in reality, a bottom outside of RM or vice versa. I’m not shaming anyone whatsoever and not my intent but to those who’ve had some experience with this, did it feel authentic or had some type of connection knowing their preferences might be different outside of hiring? 
 

[topunderachiever]

I'd guess the majority of clients are bottoms thus the marketing ploy.  I'd also say gay boys of all types down deep love it down deep!    

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I find these answers from actual escorts enlightening: 

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Many providers who advertise as “top only” are bottoms/vers in their personal life. I’ve known a few. It’s the prep that’s the issue. They can see more clients as a top. And some frankly have really big dicks and they advertise/market well with that.

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I’ve a big dick and I think that results in bottoms wanting to hire me. I’m not complaining because I’m vers and it’s fine either way for me but I do agree it’s much less preparation than bottoming.

 

It can get annoying though when bottoms become desperate for it. The worst ones just expect to offer up their hole and I’ll pump away at it. Guys that’s boring! Interact a bit, suck me, kiss etc. I’m not a fuck machine. 

Professional Sensual Masseur, based London.

 

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I’m verse bottom in my personal life but most of my clients hire me as a top. Which is nice cause it’s not something i tend to do often!

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Edited July 12 by Vegas_Millennial

[+ KensingtonHomo]

I don’t care what an escort does in his private life as long as he fulfills what I want. Also, me and my husband (who is a top) hire together so guys who can really top and bottom in a session are *chef’s kiss.” 

I’ve seen members here question the masculinity of providers as if there’s some authentic masculinity. There isn’t. It’s all a performance that we learn growing up and some of us then lean more into what feels “natural” to us. 

[aiseeya]

I know for fact all of my regulars (who advertised as a T only) do bottom (for the right guy or right price). Doesnt negatively affect my experience with them (me as a B). I think key point should be their technical skill. So long as he perform great, I couldnt care less what is his preference in his personal time.

If any, I always try to get them to bottom in a 3s for me to watch.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

Given how many escorts pay for Premium membership or to be Rent Men of the Day, it's clear most men want their advertisement at the Top, even if they are Bottom.