rentmassuer question

[Starlight77]

As long as I have had this "hobby", so to speak I've only used rentmen.   I just perused rentmassuer for the first time and see guys in my city that are not on rentmen. 

My question is if its appropriate to ask those guys on rentmassuer if they are willing to do more "escort" activities and not just massage?   

Any info on this and/or your experiences with this is greatly appreciated.  

[56harrisond]

These responses came from other discussions, and seem very appropriate here:

On 12/20/2024 at 9:17 AM, MmM said:

If you want a massage, get a good masseur. If you want an escort, hire your favorite. But expecting a combo and you'll get neither most likely. 

 

On 10/27/2024 at 4:31 PM, Monarchy79 said:

Masseurs who do anything outside of the massage (the extras), are usually doing this on a case by case, YMMV basis.

Some may have bottomed for some guys, doesn’t guarantee that they’ll bottom for the NEXT guy. 
 

This is why asking if a specific masseur (kisses, bottoms, tops, eats ass, or gives oral) is somewhat inappropriate. 
 

If you want a massage that guarantees a higher probability that the “ending” will result in a sex act, then hire an escort who will start your session with a massage. 

 

[Kuppusami]

Absolutely no harm in asking.  I've had many providers offering 2 rates. One for massage and one for extras.

Always be direct with your expectations, and needs. The worst they can say is no. 

[+ Jamie21]

I’d say yes you can. I’m on Rentmasseur only but I get clients asking for escort style services, it’s fine by me and I think most guys advertising on RMasseur are comfortable working in that grey area between escort and masseur. 

If he advertises therapeutic only then maybe avoid asking for anything sexual but if he offers sensual or erotic  go ahead and ask what the lines are. 

[pubic_assistance]

9 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I'd say yes you can. I’m on Rentmasseur only but I get clients asking for escort style services.

Remember @Jamie21 you have the advantage of working in a country where escorting is legal.

Many USA escort providers choose to advertise on Rentmasseur for reasons of discretion with legality. So...they do NOT welcome direct questions about escorting.

I find it works better to hire for erotic massage, see their comfort level with sexual connection and discuss "other" services in private, outside of documented platforms or the risk of recorded calls. We live in the age of Metadata.

 

[+ Jamie21]

1 hour ago, pubic_assistance said:

Remember @Jamie21 you have the advantage of working in a country where escorting is legal.

Many USA escort providers choose to advertise on Rentmasseur for reasons of discretion with legality. So...they do NOT welcome direct questions about escorting.

I find it works better to hire for erotic massage, see their comfort level with sexual connection and discuss "other" services in private, outside of documented platforms or the risk of recorded calls. We live in the age of Metadata.

 

Oh yes I always forget that because it seems so normal and sensible for adults to be able to discuss escorting openly. Unfortunately if you live in a more conservative country you will need to be discreet. 

Aside from that it’s a good idea to book a guy for massage style services to see if you like him. If the first meeting goes well then broach the idea of a more escort style session for your next visit. He’s more likely to say yes if you both got along nicely. 
 

 

[pubic_assistance]

6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Aside from that it’s a good idea to book a guy for massage style services to see if you like him. If the first meeting goes well then broach the idea of a more escort style session for your next visit. He’s more likely to say yes if you both got along nicely. 

Agreed.

Even IF there wasn't a legal matter involved...I personally PREFER to meet people for a massage first.

I have never been a fan of fucking somebody based on a few photos and never having met in person. I also like a bit of foreplay, unlike so many gay men who go from Zero-to-Sixty in under two minutes. A relaxing massage gives me time to feel the moment as well as giving my companion a chance to get comfortable instead of needing to provide sex-on-demand.

[StarQualityLuke]

No harm in asking. 

I always say one cannot assume, so just open up your mouth and ask.  I mean that in a very kind way. 

[Marc in Calif]

4 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I also like a bit of foreplay, unlike so many gay men who go from Zero-to-Sixty in under two minutes.

Don't forget the many bisexual men who do the same. 😘