Escorts In NY / BF Experience

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On 2/16/2025 at 3:19 PM, lseactuary90 said:

I'm concerned that I've spent years looking for something regular - let alone real - and can't seem to find it regardless of what I try. I've done all the conventional things: apps, friends, parties/clubs etc, travelling, therapy (several times) and nothing worked out still to even a FB because of the transient and flakey nature of big cities, and quite frankly, poor quality of men available in the gay community in general (drugged up, several mental issues etc so not someone I would even want a deep connection with)

I've met some nice gay men at church.  They are usually more stable and grounded than men you'd meet at parties and clubs.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 2/18/2025 at 4:11 AM, lseactuary90 said:

I've 'turned away' '6 pack studs' because they literally feel like robots when I dance with them,

This is deep

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 2/16/2025 at 11:48 PM, lseactuary90 said:

I am struggling to find intimacy/connection here in NY (more than hookups) and/or a FB/FWB and/or a BF. I am getting older (approaching mid 30s) and semi loosing hope its gonna work out for me for various reasons

This is very common.  There is a reason suicide is the number one killer of men in their 30s.  Know that you're not alone... Everyone feels the ticking time click.  A man who is single at this age feels he should be partnered by now, and a man with a partner wishes he could be enjoying this awesome decade as a single person.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

On 2/17/2025 at 3:19 AM, lseactuary90 said:

And what if no one dates you or is into you through the friend groups or sets you up on blind dates (usually because they are taken / don't know someone looking / etc). What do you do? 

Take up knitting.  Get a cat.  Eliminate world hunger.  The possibilities are endless.  If you're not happy with yourself being single, you won't be happy with a partner either.