What is a good financial arrangement for a regular?

[Guest bluboy]

I need advice on what is a good offer if one wanted to set up a regular situation. If I said or in effect end up seeing someone once a week what should be a good offer per session if their regular sessions cost $200+. For those of you who have done this arrangement I would like some advice. I have always had variety and so never saw anyone too often but for the first time I am looking to settle down for a while so I want to figure out what is fair to me and to the escort. Thoughts?

 

 

Blu

 

p.s. there was a thread a few days ago warning the board about Quinte in Houston that has disappeared I think b/c of technical issues but the thread should be resurrected on the board..keep us all warned and forearmed. blu

[liubit]

There is no definite rule here. You have to negotiate with the escort. I have been offered several deals, that go from reasonable to unaffordable. I haven't taken any of them, because I am really into variety and not ready to "settle down" yet, but some of them were tempting! I'm afraid that it all depends on the escort and on your negotiating talents :-)

[Guest LAtommy]

I am very interested in this topic too. Both client and escort perspective. Come on guys, let get some good discussion!

[Guest squaddie]

I prefer to stay with an escort I have got to know after a considerable time (3 years). I have never tried to negotiate a 'deal' with him. I feel he is entitled to his fee. Would you negotiate with any other professional who has set fees? In return he is not a clock watcher and my appointment lasts longer than the appointed hour. He shows his appreciation of me for being a regular client by the extras he gives. I feel if I had negotiated a deal I would have got what was arranged, an hour and no more. I pay his full fee but feel I'm the winner at the same time.

[+ bigjoey]

i have been seeing one of the top escorts for over 6 years (i got him early in his career). we have developed a very easy going friendship which includes some wonderful sex. he has kept me at a prefered rate by not raising me up to his rate for new clients. i treat him well and he treats me well, too. because he trusts me, he goes beyond his normal "limits" for new people. he appreciates my reliability as a client (this board is full of references to no shows, flakes, etc.) and i appreciate him for the same qualities.

 

having a relationship that is on going with an escort has been good for me. it takes away alot of the unknowns in meeting someone new (and perhaps some of the excitement, too). it really depends on your personal relationship with the man.good luck.

[Guest Stephan-Lacoste]

Personnally, I only had one client who asked me to be on a regular "basic rate". That is all. If none of my clients talk about it, it means it does not matter I guess.

But my own rule used to be that Even If I was rising my rate, It was only for new clients and never for regulars.

Now I think it is a great to deal a good rate if the client see the escort more than a couple of times a month.

 

Stephan Lacoste

http://www.stephanlacoste.com

http://www.eboysvideo.com

[Guest MrB]

In my (admittedly limited) experience, this has only happened when an escort truly likes me too. I book him for one or two hours and pay regular rates, but we end up hanging out together the whole evening or night. The money becomes a less important part of the equation. Other than that, I don't think it would feel right to offer to pay less just because the guy is really good. I don't pay less, he just gives me more, and it's his decision. Hope this helps.

 

MrB

[Guest elwood]

I think the comments here have been helpful to me. I agree that a special rate is not needed. Pay the escort his basic fee. If a regular relationship develops..fantastic. He is still worth the fee and usually extra time will probably be given. there are a couple of escorts I have been with that I would love to see regularly but right now I am still sort of new to this scene and interested in variety too. But I have been fortunate to have met some really great people ( and I mean that way beyond the sex part) If I lived near Chicago....Joshua would definitely be a regular if he would agree to it. :-) He is actually one of the sweetest (and hottest) young men I have met. Also...Eric Hsiao in Minneapolis (he was my first escort) but don't know if he is still escorting.

[adriano46]

Guys,

 

After traveling around quite a lot and have the opportunity (and even privilege) of meeting a farily good number of escorts both in Europe and North America, I find myself settling in for a few "better" ones, ones who not only are good in bed but exceptional company outside too (some of them read these threads... so they know who they are :-) ).

 

So far the talk of a special rate has only occurred on rather extensive weekends or more, and in general, they have left it to me to set the fee (which I really dislike as I hate to appear to cut a guy short).

 

Also, weighing into the equation is the fact that each one of these guys usually is hired minimally for an overnight (so the fee is already from at least $500 in Europe to $1,000 here - noting I refuse to pay any guy more than $1,000 for an overnight out of some personal principles). This does not include dinner, entertainment (theatre, opera, movies), some shopping occasionally, entry fees for museums or other places, taxi, and transport costs. I also tend to give the guy some pocket money if he is with me over two days (so he feels more independent when in a store or just walking around).

 

It would be nice to work out some more economically feasible arrangement with some of these guys, but it would hurt their own needs (noting that the more time they are with me, the less time they have for other clients). However, one or two have - on occasion - set a price BELOW the standard out of gratitude for some emergency help... it's a bit difficult to describe as I see such occasional help more as "advance payment" or some such thing.

 

So, to summarize, I think manyh would be long-term clients would be intrigued and grateful for a special rate, but it may hurt the escort in the long run. One has to take it on a case by case basis.

[Guest alanm]

There's a lot to be said for finding one escort whom you really like and sticking with him, especially someone who is super dependable and well grounded. When I found such a person, we just informally set a rate for an full evening and an overnight.

Again, If you find someone really good, stay with him. On the most basic level, you really get to know the person. That gives

you an excellent frame of reference in hiring escorts in the future. You really get to know the escort world from the ecort's point of view.

[Guest Kenny]

Blu

>

>p.s. there was a thread a

>few days ago warning the

>board about Quinte in Houston

>that has disappeared I think

>b/c of technical issues but

>the thread should be resurrected

>on the board..keep us all

>warned and forearmed. blu

 

 

All replies so far have ignored the above. What happened to that thread? "b/c of technical issues???????" I posted on it and also feel that it disappeared rather quickly WITH NO EXPLANATION. I know that Quinte is a favorite on this website and the "disappearance" of this thread raises suspicions. What's the REAL story?

[+ deej]

> If

>I lived near Chicago....Joshua would

>definitely be a regular if

>he would agree to it.

 

You picked a keeper there! He's coming over again this week. :-) If I could afford it, I'd turn him into a kept boy and take him off the market. Lucky for you guys I'm not that wealthy!

 

As for discounts, I'm against it. I *do* appreciate the regulars I'm with, and they appreciate the fact that I'm a known quantity. But I'm not going to ask for discounts for repeated business any more than I would at the doctor or dentist. Their fees are fair or I wouldn't be paying it in the first place, much less the 2nd or 3rd times they lift their legs in the air in my bed.

 

I happen to like variety, but I also have favorites. One guy, I've been seeing routinely for almost 5 years. There's a level of friendship that develops that is comfortable for both sides. It's comfortable, but I still pay his full rate and he goes out of his way to make me happy.

 

They set rates that meet their needs. I pay them or we don't play.

[Guest jizzdepapi]

that's unfair, Kenny. everyone here, except for you, is talking about repeat rates for escorts.

 

if you want to discuss Quinte and a disappearing post then you should start a new thread and interested parties could join the discusion. i'm sure that other people are curious about Quinte and i doubt very much that Hooboy made that thread disappear.

could it be the case that this thread just "disappeared" after a certain time period after the last post? i've seen that happen with other topics that lay dormant for a while. you might ask Hooboy about that.

 

anwyay, thanks to Hooboy for all his work in maintaining this site. I'm sure that whatever money he does generate from this site does not or barely compensates him for his time. and i've found reviews on this site invaluable in helping to seperate the wheat from the chaff of those lovely male escorts.

 

jizzdepapi

[johnnysneakers]

After reading all this in which everyone is agreeing with everyone else, I will offer a different perspective. I frankly think if you are a regular, and I mean a real regular, with a guy that you deserve some kind of special deal. I do not mean frequent flier miles, but lets face it guys the basis fee of $200 is strictly retail, and your loyalty should have a value.

 

Having said that, the only time I have received any real discount has been from some Canadian dancers at Gaiety who know me (I am a Canadian) and so they have given me the Canadian dollar price. For you Yankees, that is a big savings!!!

 

Otherwise I have seen many on a regular basis and paid the regular price. Something that urks me as I am careful everywhere with my money except when it comes to terrific studs!!! Just can't get enough.

[Guest EWC]

Right now, the standard rates quoted are hourly, evening,overnight, weekend, travel arrangements. Perhaps we ought to also be asking for a quote for say "one evening per week paid in advance monthly". Presumably without a 1099:-)

[Guest Kenny]

>that's unfair, Kenny. everyone here, except

>for you, is talking about

>repeat rates for escorts.

>

>if you want to discuss Quinte

>and a disappearing post then

>you should start a new

>thread and interested parties could

>join the discusion. i'm sure

>that other people are curious

>about Quinte and i doubt

>very much that Hooboy made

>that thread disappear.

>could it be the case that

>this thread just "disappeared" after

>a certain time period after

>the last post? i've seen

>that happen with other topics

>that lay dormant for a

>while. you might ask Hooboy

>about that.

>

Excuse me Jizz BUT some others beside me are talking about the "Quinte post"......principaly Bluboy, who is the originator of this thread. Yes, no other person has discussed it (and quite frankly, I don't think they care much) but the author brought it up and I responded.

"could it be the case that

>this thread just "disappeared" after

>a certain time period after

>the last post? i've seen

>that happen with other topics

>that lay dormant for a

>while."

I'm positive that is not the case as the thread was up no more than 2 days and had 2 posts.

 

Perhaps indeed I should ask HooBoy what happened as he,or Daddy are responsible for this. However, I don't appreciate your chastising me for discussing that was brought out by the original author of THIS THREAD.

[Guest jizzdepapi]

Dear Kenny:

 

I kneel properly chastized with belt in mouth and buttocks exposed for correction by the next hot papi who happens by.

 

Indeed, the original author of this thread did bring up the Quinte matter.

 

I do think that multiple items for the same post in the same thread are confusing and probably draw less attention than if they were posted seperately. I also think that people might use the subject line a little more creatively and helpfully. E.g., if there were a thread on the best NYC escorts, why not type the name of the escort a poster is suggesting in the subject line? That way, readers could easily see which posts might most interest them. Anyway, just a thought for everyone...

 

 

Best to all,

Jizz de papi

[Guest HQ]

Over the years I have had "regular meetings" with the several escorts. At that point I've found there is a mutual advantage for both of us. The advantage to me is obvious. The benefit to the escort has more to do with his safety, my reliability and there are no suprizes. Thus, I usually have paid regular escorts slightly less than their traditional rate and have received the same great service. Once in a while if my financial situation allowed I would give them a hearty tip. And as someone else mentioned in this thread with one regular escort I have spent hours.. and not just in bed. We would get something to eat, shop and once even saw a film. This is more valuable to me than saving a few extra dollars.

[Guest Jayinla]

Here it goes...Having a large percentage of regular clients, I have developed a very special friendship with them. I am not so crass as to bring up money everytime we meet. We know the arrangement and when we meet, we just have a wonderful time. I am still seeing the first 5 customers i had, I have not upped their fee; I have not lowered it either. However, at times, i stay longer than usual, or do special things for them. It depends on the kind of relationship we have developed. I prefer to enjoy my friends, and have them enjoy me, than to discuss money. We all know what this is about anyway.

At any rate, keep in mind that if you are asking for a discounted fee, you might just get a discounted service. WHO WANTS THAT!!!!!!?????

Respect your escort as he respects you .. and you will have a great time, after all, keep in mind that the money you give him, is helping to pay for school or something else.

We are all friends here.. no?

Jay

http://www.angelfire.com/ca6/Escortjay