-=[ Do Escorts Find Clients Sexually Attractive ]=-

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

I am going for my 2nd time with an escort very soon now, and

am really hoping this will be better than my 1st time.

 

I have been wondering for quite a while now, HOW do

escorts find their clients sexually attractive? Or do

they at all?

 

Of course there are clients who are likely in great-shape

and good-looking. However I expect a lot of us are more like

me, not in good-shape, not really attractive physically,

and past our prime. Likely many of us (but not all) are in

my shoes, where we are paying for an escort because it is

the only way we can have sex with the type of person we

really want to have sex with.

 

So, how is it for an escort? Are they somehow able to just

turn on being horny for whomever they meet? Are a lot of

them happen to be attracted to overweight, middle-age guys?

Is it getting paid they find exciting? Might there even

be pity involved? What?

 

Just as there are different types of clients, I am sure their

are different types of reasons as to how an escort can have

sex with a lot of guys with very differing appearences. But,

I am really curious to know what might be going on with the escort.

 

Part of this reason, I guess, is I know I am no diamond when it

comes to physically looks. I am more of a garnet. But now, hoepfully meeting an escort again, there is very much part of me that wants my escort to enjoy himself as well. And I am wondering how I might be able to do to make myself more sexually appealing, or at least interesting, to him.

 

 

-- Yog-Sothoth

[Guest MrB]

Yog, don't put yourself down so much. Sure most escorts will look better than most clients, and sure looks are important in life and especially when it comes to sex... BUT THERE ARE OTHER THINGS IN LIFE, more important qualities. And though escorting is a business and the reason they are even meeting you is money, I would guess the really good escorts chose their profession because they enjoy being with people. If not, they'd be doing something else

[Traveller]

... BUT

>THERE ARE OTHER THINGS IN

>LIFE, more important qualities.

 

Like being able to throw down flaming shots of Cuervo Gold or dance on your hands on acid at Twilo or take on 4 or 5 Brazilians in a private room at Roger's Termas. It's the simple things.

 

Later.

[Rick Munroe]

>So, how is it for an

>escort? Are they somehow

>able to just

>turn on being horny for whomever

>they meet? Do a

>lot of

>them happen to be attracted to

>overweight, middle-age guys?

>Is it getting paid they find

>exciting? Might there even

>be pity involved? What?

 

Personally speaking, and at the risk of sounding pretty sappy, I'm turned on more by what's inside than what's outside, and have had much better sex and hotter experiences with guys who were considered "regular" or even "unattractive" by gay standards of the early 21st century, than by muscle gods and perfect faces. Sensuality & chemistry come from within...I've been with supposedly gorgeous guys who were like wooden puppets in bed...yech!

 

So yes, I am attracted to overweight, middle-age guys (especially if they're married), skinny young boys, muscular men in their 30's, out men, closeted men...clients take on all shapes & sizes & backgrounds and they all work for me (provided they are "hygienically correct"). :-) Money is not the turn-on for me (sometimes I wish it were; I'd have a lot more of it). Since I was a kid, exhibitionism has been a big turn-on for me so I also like stripping & showing off for clients, being looked at & admired...that's always a turn-on whether someone is paying or not.

 

MrB is correct in saying that "the really good escorts chose their profession because they enjoy being with people" (not to infer that the ones who get turned on by money are necessarily the rip-off artists; that's just what works for them and I'm sure they're still able to show their clients a good time).

 

 

> And I am wondering

>what I might be able

>to do to make myself

>more sexually appealing, or at

>least interesting, to him.

 

All it takes is cleanliness and a friendly attitude (dirt and misery don't make for a good time).

[Rick Munroe]

>Like being able to... dance on your hands

>on acid at Twilo

 

With or without glow sticks??

[Guest MrB]

Alright already. Now I want to know about those 5 Brazilians or I won't be able to get any sleep... later

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

>Personally speaking, and at the risk

>of sounding pretty sappy, I'm

>turned on more by what's

>inside than what's outside, and

>have had much better sex

>and hotter experiences with guys

>who were considered "regular" or

>even "unattractive" by gay standards

>of the early 21st century,

>than by muscle gods and

>perfect faces. Sensuality & chemistry

>come from within...I've been with

>supposedly gorgeous guys who were

>like wooden puppets in bed...yech!

 

 

In one of the above replies, some said I should not be putting myself down so much. I don't think I am. I

-know- what I look like.

 

As far as what is inside, I know I am a really nice guy. In fact, over the years, this fact seems to be what has -prevented- me from becoming boyfriends with men I have been attracted to. I seem to be TOO nice. Other gay men almost always seemed to see me as a -friend-, but not as a -boyfriend-.

 

It almost seems my personality when into warmth and empathy and did not leave much behind for sexuality. I have almost always been likely, but rarely, rarely, lusted after.

 

>So yes, I am attracted to

>overweight, middle-age guys (especially if

>they're married), skinny young boys,

>muscular men in their 30's,

>out men, closeted men...clients take

>on all shapes & sizes

>& backgrounds and they all

>work for me (provided they

>are "hygienically correct"). :-)

>Money is not the turn-on

>for me (sometimes I wish

>it were; I'd have a

>lot more of it). Since

>I was a kid, exhibitionism

>has been a big turn-on

>for me so I also

>like stripping & showing off

>for clients, being looked at

>& admired...that's always a turn-on

>whether someone is paying or

>not.

 

 

This is the type of answer I am looking for. I would REALLY appreciate if some other escorts replied with their thoughts and feelings as well.

 

 

 

>> And I am wondering

>>what I might be able

>>to do to make myself

>>more sexually appealing, or at

>>least interesting, to him.

>

>All it takes is cleanliness and

>a friendly attitude (dirt and

>misery don't make for a

>good time).

 

 

I was suppose to originally meet this escort on Monday, but plans felt though, but I had showered twiced in 6 hours. I am suppose to meet him tomorrow. I am sure by nails were clipped (fingers and toes!) and had my teeth cleaned today. I do try to do what I can.

 

-- Yog-Sothoth

[Guest MrB]

Good for you, Yog. Sorry I misunderstood your original question. Have fun!

[Guest travisnyc]

A lot of escorts really get turned on fullfilling fantasies for their clients. Them knowing they are doing something really special for you is a turn on. Most important is to find an escort that really enjoys his work, not just a robot.

[badassbadboy]

Yog-Sothoth, very good question.

 

I will not answer for other escorts but will tell you the way I feel.

 

I am really attracted to men that have your physical description and that are older then me and always have been.

 

So for me getting paid for what I do is just an added bonus.

 

Its like being a baseball player, I get paid to do what I enjoy and play and have a great time.

 

Hope that helps.

 

:9

 

>

>I am going for my 2nd time with an escort very soon now, and

>am really hoping this will be better than my 1st time.

>

>I have been wondering for quite a while now, HOW do

>escorts find their clients sexually attractive? Or do

>they at all?

>

>Of course there are clients who are likely in great-shape

>and good-looking. However I expect a lot of us are more like

>me, not in good-shape, not really attractive physically,

>and past our prime. Likely many of us (but not all) are in

>my shoes, where we are paying for an escort because it is

>the only way we can have sex with the type of person we

>really want to have sex with.

>

>So, how is it for an escort? Are they somehow able to just

>turn on being horny for whomever they meet? Are a lot of

>them happen to be attracted to overweight, middle-age guys?

>Is it getting paid they find exciting? Might there even

>be pity involved? What?

>

>Just as there are different types of clients, I am sure their

>are different types of reasons as to how an escort can have

>sex with a lot of guys with very differing appearences. But,

>I am really curious to know what might be going on with the

>escort.

>

>Part of this reason, I guess, is I know I am no diamond when

>it

>comes to physically looks. I am more of a garnet. But now,

>hoepfully meeting an escort again, there is very much part of

>me that wants my escort to enjoy himself as well. And I am

>wondering how I might be able to do to make myself more

>sexually appealing, or at least interesting, to him.

>

>

> -- Yog-Sothoth

>

>

>

[bigguyinpasadena]

Tony-what is it with you and old posts?Yesterday it was a five y/o post and today six?

Nothing wrong with it of course,but I am just curious?

[badassbadboy]

>Tony-what is it with you and old posts?Yesterday it was a

>five y/o post and today six?

>Nothing wrong with it of course,but I am just curious?

 

Did not realize how old it was but till I was done but thought what the heck, it is a very good question so I thought I would respond.

 

Kisses...

[Lankypeters]

>>

>MrB is correct in saying that "the really good escorts chose

>their profession because they enjoy being with people" that's just what works for them and I'm

>sure they're still able to show their clients a good time).

>

>

>>

 

 

Rick and Derek indeed enjoy being with people are are thus interesting -- and sexy -- to be with -- before, during and after (when things often dry up with less stimulating guys).

 

Sex appeal and attractiveness come from within as well as without. A cliche, but worth repeating. At least five times a day.

 

 

 

 

Lankypeters