Good established masseur for newbie (NYC/NJ)

[+ pizzaBoy]

Hi gents! 50, recently divorced after 30 years (to a woman), free to play and explore. Just a little casual reading here was enough to put me at ease, so THANK YOU for this community and forum! (I'll happily become a supporter once I get established and figure out how to pay discreetly lol.) 

So erotic massage, to me, seems like a good way to test the waters. And while I'm excited for the potential of extras, I really do want a good massage. I'm one of the most tightly wound people on the planet right now! So I'm prepared to sit and sucomb to the right hands... 

A bad first experience (with no good one to compare it to) could set me back, so for this initial plunge, I'm asking for recommendations for providers that are established and known to be consistent in their service and offerings. 

I'll be traveling to Jersey City later this coming week and I visit there regularly, so I'm looking there. I prefer outcall to my hotel, both nude. Someone younger (<35) and easy on the eyes would be nice. Here's my "short list": 
https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings (I'd do incall, nice apt I hear)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6239/ ("George")
https://rentmasseur.com/BodyworkByAlexi
https://rentmasseur.com/Jose_ok (mixed reviews lately?)

Also if expectations are clear up front, I can have a worry-free session, so that's my hope. I don't want to compromise anyone by asking the wrong thing, but some reasonable odds of a release would be nice. I want to be an exemplary client, so erring on the side of caution while I learn etiquette. 

Thanks! 

[Redwine56]

2 minutes ago, pizzaBoy said:

Hi gents! 50, recently divorced after 30 years (to a woman), free to play and explore. Just a little casual reading here was enough to put me at ease, so THANK YOU for this community and forum! (I'll happily become a supporter once I get established and figure out how to pay discreetly lol.) 

So erotic massage, to me, seems like a good way to test the waters. And while I'm excited for the potential of extras, I really do want a good massage. I'm one of the most tightly wound people on the planet right now! So I'm prepared to sit and sucomb to the right hands... 

A bad first experience (with no good one to compare it to) could set me back, so for this initial plunge, I'm asking for recommendations for providers that are established and known to be consistent in their service and offerings. 

I'll be traveling to Jersey City later this coming week and I visit there regularly, so I'm looking there. I prefer outcall to my hotel, both nude. Someone younger (<35) and easy on the eyes would be nice. Here's my "short list": 
https://rentmasseur.com/Blessings (I'd do incall, nice apt I hear)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6239/ ("George")
https://rentmasseur.com/BodyworkByAlexi
https://rentmasseur.com/Jose_ok (mixed reviews lately?)

Also if expectations are clear up front, I can have a worry-free session, so that's my hope. I don't want to compromise anyone by asking the wrong thing, but some reasonable odds of a release would be nice. I want to be an exemplary client, so erring on the side of caution while I learn etiquette. 

Thanks! 

Welcome to the forum!  Of your choices, Blessing is truly a blessing!  Hot, fit, tight sexy body aims to please.  He will provide a great massage and open to work with you so that you leave happy.   Magnificent view from his apt.  You can't go wrong with him.  George is a hit and miss.  It depends on his mood of the day.  He provided a good massage with me but nothing sensuous about it at all.  No comment on Alexi.  I've never seen him.  Jose is hot and sexy but sometimes difficult to schedule.  He provides a good massage if the stars are aligned.  Try to catch Blessings as your #1.  You won't regret it.  Be up front with him.  Tell him what you desire.  Don't play guessing games.  He'll loosen you up.  Enjoy!

[Otterlybelievable]

Wholeheartedly agree with Blessings. He was one of my very first private masseur hires and I had an incredible experience with him as a relative newbie (and on several occasions after that)

[Wanderoz]

Welcome. Have fun, realize that anyone can have an off day, that there is no “the one” for masseurs as men’s tastes are as diverse & varied as we all are, and vet them all on this forum, never pay in advance, and let yourself go to unwind & relax with a good massage. Any extras are “icing” on the cake”!

[JackNYC]

Getting someone who checks all of your boxes and is willing to travel to Jersey City might be difficult, especially with a table.  You would likely have to pay for time spent traveling, fund car transportation if they’re traveling with a table, and also guarantee enough of a time commitment to make it worth somebody’s while. I’m not saying this to be negative, but rather to set realistic expectations.  You’ll likely have a lot more options if you head into nyc and make a day of it.

Edited June 8, 2024 by JackNYC

[+ pizzaBoy]

You guys are awesome! Thank you all. @JackNYC I’m starting to change my tune on that one. I’m good to go in to the city, plus i think i might have a better experience if I’m in the masseur’s own space. 

Blessings seems hard to beat. I’ll reach out this evening. A little nervous, but the excitement has the upper hand at the moment. So let’s see what happens… 

[+ pizzaBoy]

Spending the day in the city turned out to be a good idea. I was surprised how easy it was to book Alex. Responsive and courteous. I've already paid for parking lol. Looking forward to a great weekend. Will follow up after... 

[Becket]

2 minutes ago, pizzaBoy said:

Spending the day in the city turned out to be a good idea. I was surprised how easy it was to book Alex. Responsive and courteous. I've already paid for parking lol. Looking forward to a great weekend. Will follow up after... 

Yes we all kiss and tell round these parts. So lets have a full description; a blow by blow account! It's your initiation onto the board. We must know all the details. 😆

[Massageislife]

Hey, pizzaBoy, the provider will be able to tell you about their availability for travel.

As for your selections, I haven’t met with Alexis, but the other three are all good masseurs and provide extras from standard ones to the whole enchilada. The only thing I’d add is that my time with Jose went all the way there so quickly that I consider it more of an escort experience than an erotic massage.

Welcome to the world of private massage!

[Terpmaniac]

Welcome aboard, its a fun group. I am with you on the "massage" being the most important thing. The "extras" are never expected or required but damn it.."I want a good massage."  I have few vices, very few, erotic massage is a safe fun vice that I really enjoy and with me being on my office basketball team I could use the health benefits as well. Of course every now and then some masseur checks out those "cakes" and all HELL breaks lose😀! Have fun.

Terp

Edited June 11, 2024 by Terpmaniac

[+ pizzaBoy]

Alex. Wow. Highly recommend. 

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

I highly recommend Jose_OK.  I hired him for a 90 minute combo massage/escort.  I believe he excels in both.  He offers a great massage if that's what you want.

[Westsideguy]

Agree with Vegas. Jose is great at both.