Precum During Massage

[tuxedomasc]

I recently had an experience where a masseur wiped up my precum. Not sure what to make of it. 

During the massage, he stopped twice to “clean me up.” The massage was therapeutic with some light sensual elements but no expectation of extras - this spa in NYC is known to be strictly legit.

I don’t know if I should be embarrassed or maybe see as a sign that more might be on offer?

 

[LookingAround]

Don’t be embarrassed. The masseur wasn’t embarrassed or he wouldn’t have cleaned you up. It could be a sign of encouragement. Maybe next time say “sorry but I just find this exciting.”

[56harrisond]

9 minutes ago, tuxedomasc said:

 maybe see as a sign that more might be on offer?

If the masseur was cleaning it up with his tongue then it might be leading to more 😋

[+ Drew Collins]

Absolutely do not be embarrassed.  It's a natural response, and if the massage simply continued on....your masseur knows that and is at least somewhat used to it.

[sulika]

I had the opposite situation happened at a spa recently, the masseur wiped his precum on my nipple. He was precumming even though he wouldn’t allow to be touched.

[Muscleking]

I always precum during my massage, nothing to be ashamed of it’s bound to happen when your body is being stimulated.. and I’d say if the provider wiped you he most likely enjoyed it 

[Muscleking]

On 5/28/2024 at 10:44 AM, sulika said:

I had the opposite situation happened at a spa recently, the masseur wiped his precum on my nipple. He was precumming even though he wouldn’t allow to be touched.

That sounds hot actually 

[Simon Suraci]

On 5/28/2024 at 7:36 AM, 56harrisond said:

If the masseur was cleaning it up with his tongue then it might be leading to more 😋

Me: guilty as charged…

Now please get out the handcuffs.

[Simon Suraci]

On 5/28/2024 at 7:44 AM, sulika said:

I had the opposite situation happened at a spa recently, the masseur wiped his precum on my nipple. He was precumming even though he wouldn’t allow to be touched.

[BuffaloKyle]

21 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

Me: guilty as charged…

Now please get out the handcuffs.

[soloyo215]

On 5/28/2024 at 10:25 AM, tuxedomasc said:

I recently had an experience where a masseur wiped up my precum. Not sure what to make of it. 

During the massage, he stopped twice to “clean me up.” The massage was therapeutic with some light sensual elements but no expectation of extras - this spa in NYC is known to be strictly legit.

I don’t know if I should be embarrassed or maybe see as a sign that more might be on offer?

 

You should not be embarsassed, IMO. Did you display any discomfort? If yes, then the masseur should have asked the second time if it's ok. I look at it this way: Precum is as natural of a body process as it is farting, and I'm sure that the masseur might prefer wiping precum than smelling farts.

I had a masseur who did that, but in his case, I think he did it because he wanted to touch my penis. The reason why I can confidently state that is that I don't precum; there was nothing threre to wipe. I didn't feel violated, and I actually felt good to be liked, and he didn't try anything else after. I wanted a therapeutic-only massage that day, and in all honesty, he looked good, but I wasn't attracted or interested in him.

So yes, it can be a hint to let you know that he's willing to offer more, but it can also be just part of the process. If you want to see him again, will you feel comfortable inquiring about it, maybe expressing how you felt? I don't see much wrong with talking about it in a provate session.

[DunwoodyGuy]

On 6/2/2024 at 7:09 PM, Simon Suraci said:

Me: guilty as charged…

Now please get out the handcuffs.

SIMON! Ohhhhh....

[carolus]

On 5/28/2024 at 3:25 PM, tuxedomasc said:

I recently had an experience where a masseur wiped up my precum. Not sure what to make of it. 

During the massage, he stopped twice to “clean me up.” The massage was therapeutic with some light sensual elements but no expectation of extras - this spa in NYC is known to be strictly legit.

I don’t know if I should be embarrassed or maybe see as a sign that more might be on offer?

 

if it's not sexual per se, then he shouldn't touch it. 

Or he just did it out of courtesy or empathy. I guess if you were dribbling, so to speak, it would distract him or take away from the massage. 

Maybe that's how he was trained, or what the spa policy is. It may not mean anything or be a sign or anything potentially good in the offing, or anything sinister.