Sex After 20 Years Living Together

[liubit]

20 hours ago, moonlight said:

Is there any part of you that worries your partner will fall in love with a sex partner?

Not at all. 
 

56 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

Mature people with a history of multiple sexual partners are far less likely to experience the "fall in love" feeling after hot sex.

I agree with @pubic_assistance. At least that is the case for my husband and me. 

Edited July 20, 2024 by liubit

[+ nycman]

4 hours ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

It's also my favorite Diana Ross film. 

You know I love you, when I even enjoy your stupid.

 

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

19 hours ago, nycman said:

You know I love you, when I even enjoy your stupid.

It can't all be Chaucer.

Sometime you gotta just pull out the Shecky Greene material.

[+ KensingtonHomo]

Me and my husband are coming up on 23 geese together married over 9. We were monogamous for many years, but after a a sexy couples massage turned into a threesome, we decided to explore. 

We mostly hired, hook up with a third, and attend parties together, but erotic massages are fine solo. We still have sex one-on-one, and we’ve found that by having diverse experiences together and separate; we bring new things to our sex life. 

in terms of “falling in love”, publicassistance made good points. For us, our sexual adventures take place inside our marriage. It’s not external to it. Nor do we hook up with randos on our own. We don’t have the time, energy or inclination.